High Heels

@Annab, @Amethyst, @debgurl, @beccarnmommy and @srg_rik,

I'm getting a kick out of all of this! We are talking about what I was raised on! Nothing but stockings and a garter belt under a skirt. I did however wear Bobby socks and Knee high socks in high school especially when is was cold outside. I had to work my ass off to make money to buy a pair of stockings. I was a Hanes girl and could buy a pair of Walking Sheers for about a $1.50. The Walking Sheers would not run. They would snag and stretch but no runs. The Dress Sheers on the other hand would run but Lordy, were they sexy! All the hosiery had knit in rh&t or reinforced heels and toes. Remember those eye catchers!

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Every fella on the planet would get a boner just thinking about what was at the top of the welt! That spot where stocking top meets soft warm skin. Held in place by a stretched elastic strap! Shiiiiiit, Man, Hell we had the boys by the balls and we knew it. What was above was the question and answer. As Gene Pitney put it, It was Half Heaven and Half Heartache! Oh, Lordy, Just Let My Love Be Strong Enough To Take Away The Heart Ache! That was actually HARD ACHE ole Gene was crowing about! Baby Please let me have a peek or a taste or both!

Like the ladies have mentioned we knew what the boys liked. Our legs and feet in sexy hosiery! Or as Mr Frederick would say, Ho-Sha-Rey! Who didn't buy a pair of fully fashioned seamed stockings from Frederick's Of Hollywood! Remember Lily St. Cyr and her thigh high stockings at the back pages of the girlie magazines. I certainly did! Black, crotch high, fully fashioned seamed stockings with matching sheer black crotch less panties.

I'll never forget being at the "Passion Pit" or what was known as the drive in wearing my black seamed stockings and crotch.less panties. Annab mentioned Kotex belted napkins. I wore the Modess brand. My date that night sure was surprised. I was, as we put it back then, "On The Rag" and I was HOT! I was in his lap and he put his hand in those panties and found that pad. He about crapped himself! I told him, baby you best get to work or take me home. So that boy won his "Red Wings" that night. He's been my husband for a long time. Over the years I fashioned a combination garter and napkin belt. Worked Great! I loved having his lips and tongue please me while I was menstruating. I miss that! I miss him changing my pads also! He called me his "Menstrual Princess" Imagine That!

We talk about legs and feet and stockings. To have a man give his wife or lover a pedicure and a great toe nail polish job is beautiful. My husband does that all the time along with a shave job! Then he would dress me! He held my small 5 1/2 size foot in his hand and kissed it. He says I have pretty feet. He still dresses me in my stockings and garters the straps. Baby, That's Love and as Lovely as a relationship can be! Us girls have the upper hand and the fellas know and love that. That's how I think!

Thank's everyone for sharing. So many excellent memories! It would have been a sin not to be able to communicate and share with you folks. We are fortunate we have this web site to use. These topics bring back our lives as we lived them years ago. Thanks for the memories! I still wear stockings at least once a week.

@GyneDoll Your relationship with your husband is something girls can only hope and dream of. But, those sweet chaps are out there! Thank you for sharing such sweet love.

Megan

I'll never forget being at the "Passion Pit" or what was known as the drive in wearing my black seamed stockings and crotch.less panties.

We called the drive inn movie the "Finger Bowl"...... fond memories! BTW - I love your posts, you've got a great partner!!!

Hi Megan,

The trick to it all is this! Lovers that remove the words, I, Me, Mine and Myself from their lives and replace them with, We, Us and Our will understand that a relationship is all about acceptance and team work. We want to be lovers but it's better to become best friends first. The word "I" will separate a person from any love another has to receive or give. Remove the I and replace it with We and miracles will happen. We love because we want to, not have to! The want to is a two way street. The I have to is misery! Communication holds the answers to all of our problems. Being selfish with self centered-ness is our problem! There is no "I" in team! That's the way it's done.

@gwhap, I'll say my Bowl was fingered quite a few times. There are no Finger Bowls around here anymore.

Darn It!

Lol Gwen😃

@GyneDoll So very true.

Sending hugs,Megan ❣

I remember a security guard coming up to the car at the drive-in some 15 minutes after the movie ended. Windows were all steamed up. He just rapped on the window and walked away. I'll bet he had some pretty good stories!!!

To be very honest, I have several pairs of high heels and the only thing they do is take up space in my closet. They are called to duty when my husband wants me in them for a photo session, otherwise.

Some years ago in a moment of madness he bought me a pair of knee high black leather boots with 2 1/2 inch heels to which I have worn a few times. Planning on digging them out around Christmas for our photo shoot, what I will pair with them beyond a Santa hat is to be determined.

@Tillie said,

Some years ago in a moment of madness he bought me a pair of knee high black leather boots with 2 1/2 inch heels to which I have worn a few times. Planning on digging them out around Christmas for our photo shoot, what I will pair with them beyond a Santa hat is to be determined.

Just last week MrsFn asked me what I wanted for Christmas. My reply was, her...in a Santa hat...black six strap garter and black stockings...nothing else. I think I may get my wish, but I am afraid I have been a very "naughty" boy...or very "good" boy...depending on your point of view.

Sorry to hijack your thread ladies and gentlemen. Back to your regular scheduled program now.

Fn

Recently, in one of those "pillow talk" conversations, hubby remarked that somehow nature had endowed women with all the "weapons". In thinking back on that conversation, he might just have a point!

I remember in high school when we actually dressed up to go to school, I wore stockings and then pantyhose (L'Eggs were all the rage) everyday. I was richly blessed with shapely legs and pretty feet. Nothing was more fun than picking out the leg men in class and putting on a show. Giving them a flash of stocking top along with a little shoe dangle would always draw their attention away from a boring lecture. And then to watch the number of boys who left the room at the end of class with their hands thrust deep into their pockets was the icing on the cake. (I knew what you were hiding!!)

As I joined the workforce after college, one of my mentors who came up in the agency business during the "Mad Men" era, impressed upon me the need to dress professionally when meeting with clients. That meant dressing up which always included heels. That lesson has remained with me. I still dress up, although not to the same extent as I once did, whenever I'm going to meet a client. Besides, my confidence meter always registers higher when I'm dressed up. I just feel better about me.

A client (a woman) about 10 years ago who was a few years my junior, was a lover of designer shoes. Up to that point, I had never owned any real designer anything, much less shoes. I stuck with the ol' tried and true Nine West, Bandolino and such. But on a trip for a photo shoot to New York she took me shoe shopping at Saks Fifth Avenue. When I spied a pair of Christian Louboutin pumps with 120mm heels and that daring red sole, I knew I had stumbled upon the ultimate secret weapon. When I returned home with those awesome shoes (which are still not totally comfortable to this day) I knew immediately I had struck gold. Hubby was mesmerized as I walked across the room, my heels clicking on the floor. It reminded me of my high school days!

As for hubby...he still loves to see me in a skirt or dress and heels. It changes his attitude and I can feel his eyes follow me across the room. Recently, he gifted me with another pair of red soled beauties and our collective love affair with heels continues.

How I love it so!

Never been in bed with a woman in heels, but many times with a partner and/or me in sneakers, usually Keds or Converse canvas and rubber, occasionally like Nike fabric or mesh running shoes. Never had any problems with damage to ourselves or the sheets so far, even with the usual passionate leg and hip movements during orgasms or rubbing each other's sneakers on the other's back to enhance the fetish during PIV. Also keeps our feet warm with good traction when we get up later to go to the bathroom to pee or dump enemas. I can see why wearing heels might be prone to causing injury or damage in bed, but fortunately that's never been appealing to me. Sneakers ("fuck me shoes" for us) on the other hand are a major kink/fetish for me so luckily they don't cause any damage in bed. And very comfortable, even in bed.

Eric

I posted to this discussion (No.102) quite some time ago. I might add that high heels and sheer nylons attahced to a tight old fashion open bottom girdle seems to really draw looks as you walk by. Something about that "snap" as you walk by and the faint swish swish of the nylons that is so sexy. At least that is what my husband tells me!! Denise

@debgurl

Like you I was blessed with nice legs and pretty feet. I asked my husband to name in order what he says my best body parts are. In this order it's my ass, legs, feet, breasts. I squealed, how about my face? He said, that's understood! That was a good answer. Legs and feet in stockings are a special look. He's wild about that!

Oh yes, I remember those "Pocket Pool Days" We had a hot looking lady in high school. She was a German teacher. Her desk was in front of the class and it was open in the front so we could see her legs and high heels. All the teachers wore skirts or dresses. This gal knew how to tease! She had a pair of killer legs and really pretty feet. Her toe nails glistened in a sexy pink polish. She wore shiny black stockings with RH&T heels and toes. Those reinforced heels and toes framed her beautiful feet! She would dangle her black patent leather high heels off the ends of her toes, or she would remove her shoes and slide her feet against each other. She would also part her legs enough to see up her skirt or dress. Back then when a teacher asked a student a question the student stood up. I can still see her snicker when the boys had their hands stuffed in their pockets trying to stand up. And their faces blushing red. She knew what she was doing! Her legs were beautiful!

My favorite combination at home, especially while cooking is a School Girl short tartan skirt, a snug blouse or sweater and long black seamed stockings with point heels. These stockings fit crotch high and I don't wear panties. I'll wear slide sandals, either black or red to match the skirt. When I walk, I'll slap the back of the shoes with my heels. And it's flap, flap, flap as I walk. I know my husband watches every move! After dinner I'm on my back on the kitchen table and he's having dessert between my legs. We still have great fun!

Sounds like you and your husband are going strong! That's excellent!

Like you I was blessed with nice legs and pretty feet. I asked my husband to name in order what he says my best body parts are. In this order it's my ass, legs, feet, breasts. I squealed, how about my face? He said, that's understood! That was a good answer. Legs and feet in stockings are a special look. He's wild about that!

@GyneDoll, our hubby's must be related! I've gotten a very similar answer when I asked a very similar question. What a hoot!

Over the weekend, I went shoe shopping with one of my girlfriends and came home with a pair of "killer" boots. Crafted in soft black leather that smelled so good when the box was opened, I thought hubby was going to drag me to the bedroom before I could even try them on!

But he wasn't disappointed later on Saturday evening, when I modeled the boots just to tease him. Playtime ensued and "a good time was had by all"!

Have a great week!

Deb

I don't know how most guys feel, but I am aligned with @Gynedol and @Debgurl's husbands. Ass and Legs are the first things I look at and admire. Then I'd go for the face. Boobs don't do a lot for me!!!

Same here, legs were the first thing that really got me interested in girls, the sound and look of killer legs walking in nylon and heels still make me tremble and palpitate.

Stockings to legs is like the shiny side of a mirror. Bare legs and the dull side of a mirror are similar also. They are bland and dull in texture. You can look at both and what you see is flat and drab. They are both lacking something! They are not alive! The finishing touch is what's lacking. Turn the mirror to the shiny side and put a pair of dress sheer shiny stockings on that same pair of legs and you have works of art. You can look into the mirror! It comes alive with the faces that are graced with it's three dimensional gift. We don't look at a mirror. We look into it! With the legs it's similar. The addition of sheer stockings adds the ability to see every curve and every glint in the sunlight. The legs are alive with geometrical beauty! The ankles are slim and shimmering. A crossed leg and a hiked hem in the sunlight affords the much desired six pointed star on the knees. This is what beauty is made of afforded only to the real stockings girl! Mesmerizing the eyes and transfixing the mind of the onlooker was paramount. Add an ankle bracelet and you were a goddess in the eyes of all who wished they could be you!

I'm pretty darn certain we have of few of these girls right here sharing in this thread. @debgurl, I'm certain you have melted the heart of your husband many times and he keeps coming back. Darn, I love that connection between you two. That's beautiful! @Denise, The Swish, Swish is haunting and always will be. You have it down pat also. You husband is "Spot On" He's a keeper!

Everyone have a great day!

GyneDoll: Please add our own Zity member @Gretchen96 to your stocking and heels list. They grab my attention every time!

Stockings to legs is like the shiny side of a mirror.

I'm pretty darn certain we have of few of these girls right here sharing in this thread. @debgurl, I'm certain you have melted the heart of your husband many times and he keeps coming back. Darn, I love that connection between you two. That's beautiful!

@GyneDoll, you are so right! Stockings to legs is like the shiny side of the mirror. My mother wore hosiery everyday and imparted to me that every "well dressed" woman wore hose. The only time I don't is when I'm wearing sandals. And then it's about showing off a fresh pedicure. I've had any number of my younger peers, through casual conversation, inquire as to why I continued to wear hosiery. And I always say, that I feel fully dressed when I do.

Recently, I've enjoyed some of the new textures and patterns that have hit the market. They add a little extra "spice" and look really good with a pair of black patent pumps.

As for hubby, he's a hopeless romantic and I love to find ways to keep that fire in his furnace stoked even if there is a little snow on the roof!

Have a great day!

Deb

.... I might add that high heels and sheer nylons attahced to a tight old fashion open bottom girdle seems to really draw looks as you walk by. Something about that "snap" as you walk by and the faint swish swish of the nylons that is so sexy.... Denise

I remember that "snap" and "swish swish". During one summer, when I was in college, I worked the evening shift in inhalation therapy. The hospital didn't have piped-in oxygen, so I would often be down on the floor changing oxygen tanks. It was usually so quiet that you could hear the "swish swish" sound as a nurse made her way down the corridor to take vitals or administer medication. I would always turn and look and .....

@debgurl,

I'm a vintage stockings girl. I keep an eye on E-Bay and Estate Sales to stock my hosiery collection. The sizes of 9 1/2 Medium and 9 1/2 Long are tuff to come by. I follow the older size chart. When there is a shade I desire and I don't have it, I color it. I use Rit Dye and the color won't wash out.

My husband is one of those hopeless romantics and like you I keep his fire stoked. He's been so good to me over the years. We have the desire to keep our love life up and running. Not because we have to but because we want to. That'ill help keep the snow off the roof!

Since this thread is about High Heels I've seen many conversations in my life from wall flower to being a hottie. High Heels bring out the beauty mother nature gave us. Sleek ankles and calves are brought to life! Add the stockings and it's a beautiful combination. I was thinking about the Porn Queens! I did not watch much but I was a big fan of Seka. She was pretty enough but her legs were not quite curvy. So to deal with that small defect stockings and ankle strap high heels were added along with her signature scarf. The black stockings added depth to her legs. That three dimensional look! And she was a superstar.

And to our husbands, we will always be superstars!

I had a lady friend with gorgeous legs and she was rightly proud of them; she always wore stockings and heels on dates and loved teasing me with her fantastic legs.

She was happy to put her stockings on while I watched, I have always loved seeing a woman putting on stockings and attaching them to suspenders. I like to see them hike up their dress to make any necessary adjustments too.

The dress is raised high to the thighs as they are rolled on and attached to the suspenders.

Then the heels go on followed by a self examination in the mirror before going out.

Hi heels and panties makes sex even better

I recently began a ongoing discreet FWB thing and my partner insists on lingerie and 6 inch or higher heels. at first I was like. DUDE. I'm a 55 year old BBW Soccer mom! I wear yoga pants and sneakers lol. or flip flops. I told him I was gonna fall and break my hip. lol. He then informed me that high heels in the bedroom were not for walking in but for pointing at the ceiling. So about 16 pairs of stilettos later. (which must have open toes and arches too by the way to accentuate the beauty of the female foot) I have to admit. they really do add something to the whole experience! They look amazing pointing at the ceiling and his reaction to them continuously, is a turn on for me as well.

My RN mom almost never wore heels except occasionally pretty low ones which to this day I find much more attractive than tall or stiletto heels. Every time I see a late night TV guest wobble up to the dais on tall heels, I just think why are they doing that to themselves and their feet and ankles, and I hope they don't break an ankle up there. Since I'm a sneaker/running shoes fetishist, I'm delighted to see when a woman trades her office heels at least temporarily for sneakers so she can at least walk to and from work more comfortably and safely. And to me, they're very sexy and arousing, too.

Eric

@ericmacson, I understand exactly what you mean about seeing people wobble around on heels that are beyond their capability. Having said that, I do have quite a few 4+ inch heels in my closest and I wear them fairly often. But, I have also have a practical side and that means during my years working in an office, I always kept a pair of cute flats under my desk for those times I had to walk any considerable distance.

I love heels, hubby will certainly attest to that...but low heel shoes and flats can be just as sexy...and the attitude of the wearer has a lot to do with that!

Deb

I can't do high heels, never could. I'd fall and break my neck.Nowadays, I wear fake crocs 100% of the time. They are the only shoe I've found to be super comfortable on my heel spurs. And yes, I really do have them lol.

I love my high heel shoes, they make the legs seem far sexier and shaplier. However, I would not dream of wearing them to bed, unless it was a fantasy scene and they were necessary. I'd be too scared of doing damage to someone!!!

I love my high heel shoes, they make the legs seem far sexier and shaplier. However, I would not dream of wearing them to bed, unless it was a fantasy scene and they were necessary. I'd be too scared of doing damage to someone!!!

Fetishfiend,

Susie asked me about this same issue once recently, since she knows my kinks and fetishes, one being sneakers. She asked if I'd ever ripped or worried about tearing my sheets during lovemaking in sneakers. I told I'd done it with several different exes with either one or both of us in sneakers, but so far no danger of causing damage. I guess the fairly broad rubber or rubber-like soles are less prone to tear through than a spikier high heel, lucky for us. And yes, assuming they're fairly clean, we do find them very erotic and arousing, in bed or out.

Eric