High Heels

Maybe it is just me, but I am mystified about why wearing high heeled shoes in porn vids is supposed to be sexy. Am I off base? You have a very sexy woman in bed with high heel shoes with very long heels. Is there something I am missing? I cannot recall getting in bed with a woman wearing high heels. I admit I have not had a monster amount of experience, but I am not a virgin.

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Course, I totally agree. I have long thought that that is the dumbest thing about porn. Once in a while you will see the man lovingly remove her shoes, but that's pretty rare. I also dislike the high platform shoes. In my opinion, both types of shoes make a woman look very unsexy. But porn directors just don't get it.

High heels are sexy elegant.

In an S&M porn, they also increase the height of the woman to be as tall or taller than the man, implying a more dominant figure.

I've always found it sexy to see a woman walk in high heels when setting a scene, but that's really all they should be for. They should come off when the action really starts.

I've always found it sexy to see a woman walk in high heels when setting a scene, but that's really all they should be for. They should come off when the action really starts.

After my sub's blindfold or leather hood goes on, that's exactly what I do and dommes I know do it too. Then again, you slimy subs aren't supposed to know that.

I've always found it sexy to see a woman walk in high heels when setting a scene, but that's really all they should be for. They should come off when the action really starts.

I often wear high heels when I want to get my husband's attention and he does take them off for me when he is stripping me, so of course they come off like he says. How stupid is it to be leaving them on? It is not like they help with anything and when the walking is finished, I do not want to be wearing them any more.

I do love high heels. But I also do not get the part where porn stars are wearing high heels in bed.

Shoes, sandals, heels and panties are not allowed in bed with me lol! Take em off 😜

Wearing high heels also tenses up certain muscles which has a subtle effect of slightly re-configuring how certain parts of the body look: the calves and buttocks will be most affected as will general posture. Add that to the raising of eye-level and there is an argument to be made that high heels come across as making a lady slightly more dominating looking and elegantly poised.

As for the porn stuff, all of that is fantasy anyway, of no account to real life. It's only entertainment.

For they are fabulous. The way they make ladies walk and in bed occasionally being scratched down my calves whilst making love is a real turn on.

Put its not all the time and I do agree about you in porn.

Each to there own

I will agree with Agracier on the posture approach. They accentuate the female form well, and add to that hypnotizing hip sway of a women's walk. Having worn them for a few minutes they are not comfortable, but they do make you feel like a queen!

High heels in bed is no different than any other fetish. To each their own. My wife wears high heels for work and often when we go out on the weekends, only occasionally wearing flats to give her feet a break. She doesn't really wear them for me, she loves how she looks in heels, and owns many pairs. Since she has a desk job, wearing them at work all day really doesn't bother her.

Once in a while she will wear them to bed for me. I love to see those sexy heels on her when I have her legs pinned behind her head. Plus when she is wearing the heels standing and bent over the bed so I can enter her from behind, it puts her vagina and my penis at about the same level, making for easy entry.

While that may be a turn on for me, obviously it does nothing for others. Just like there are people turned on by diaper wearing or whips and chains, those things do absolutely nothing for me. Everyone is different. That's why it is such a good thing to find a partner who enjoys, or at least tolerates and indulges you with your fantasies.

The main reason I won't wear high/stiletto heels in bed is because they can easily rip expensive sheets and I am too in the moment while having sex to worry about being careful not to rip my bed linens.

Interesting discussion on heels. I've been married x2 (and div x2) and never had an ex who felt strongly that high (emphasis on high) heels were supremely sexy or needed to wear them in the mistaken belief that I wanted her to. I'm 64 and my late mom was an RN in a private surgical office, and rarely wore heels even to go out with my dad. At most hers were a couple of inches, just a bit more than the heels on her flats, and I grew to think low heels were a nice feminine thing to wear. I'm definitely pretty far out on the curve towards the "high heels are a torture device invented by mysogynists to force a woman's butt up higher in the air". My first reaction to seeing countless women walk onto a late night interview show is "she looks like she's precariously balanced and about to fall over - why doesn't she act more sensibly and wear very short or no heels?" I guess they either actually feel sexy up there in the stratosphere or think it's required of a public/famous woman on TV. Not for me! There's been an occasional woman during my years who really did look sexy in them, (and I've read accounts by certain women calling them her "fuck me shoes,") but by and large I'd be happy to just dump the whole shoe category and move on. A dress or whatever she's wearing is going to make her much more visually and sexually appealing than her shoes.

Now I'll put in one caveat about women's shoes for my own tastes. If you knew me much better or have a habit of reading my posts here, you might have known what turns me on. While not a classic shoe fetishist, there's one unusual style that I find extremely arousing and my exes have fortunately agreed, so occasionally I do encourage or allow shoes in bed. But no problem with ripped sheets or making holes in anything including me! All in all, it still comes down to "everybody's different" so I hope any of you heel enthusiasts are enjoying a partner in high heels and haven't suffered any heel-induced punctures of anything.

I think the appearance of high heels in porn even when the woman wearing them is on the bed is for the sake of the viewer's first impression. For example, someone discovers a picture from the scene online, in which the woman is performing some sexual/erotic act or other on a bed. This photo sells the scene to the person who discovers it. They will be more likely to desire to purchase the scene if the woman is wearing high heels.

Similarly, many people who are attracted to women will be more likely to feel desire for a woman the first time they see her if she happens to be walking in high heels, and she may feel more sexual herself by wearing them because apparently wearing high heels releases a woman's sex hormones because her body senses that it is in "presentation mode" when she wears high heels.

High heels definitely make me feel sexy but wearing them to bed will be uncomfortable. However, if I'm bending over for a spanking, the heels will make my bum an easy target. Not sure if that's a great thing or not. Haha.

Bloom566 l would love to be on the giving end of that especially you in heels. HAHA.

My wife has a pair of shoes she calls her "stripper shoes" with a tall heel. She has never worn them to or in bed but they definitely have a place in our sex life. She will wear them when she wants to be bent over the edge of the bed, a chair, or kitchen counter. They make the perfect height for easier and more comfortable penetration from the rear in these positions. High heels in bed or in the stirrups during a medical exam has never been much of a turn on for me.

Bloom566 l would love to be on the giving end of that especially you in heels. HAHA.

I know I know.

Even though I am about to turn 57, a lace pushup bra, garter belt, stockings, and high heels always gets my husband's motor running. And a lot more than if I had worn everything without the heels.

Instead of "You Can Leave Your Hat On" by Randy Newman (Joe Cocker did it justice in the film 9 1/2 Weeks), my favorite one thing for a woman to leave on are her shoes. I have no idea why other than there is a hint of fitness when a girl or woman leaves her "Keds" shoes on. It turn me on but I will always take any shoes a woman wears to bed off because I DO like feet and sucking toes whilst having sex face to face. High heels are sexy in bed because a woman can grab the heels and pull her legs up, apart, together, or back. My favorite girlfriend, "Z" had a pair of shoes that resembled slightly high heel dancing shoes with a thin strap across the instep. When she put on these shoes I knew she was in a horny or amorous mood. I do have a 2" scar on my hip from "Z" spurring me like a cowgirl when she was on her back and had her legs around my hips while I was on top. I wear that scar proudly. I agree that high heels of the proper height will enhance penetration from behind and the angle of the pelvis is thrust back a bit pushing the buttocks out and making the vagina more accessible from the rear. Bravo high heels and other shoes too.

Stiletto heels still have the arousing effect reminding me of buttock injections in my youth because I often found myself looking at them when bending over a receptionist's lap for my shots.

I have a red pair of stilettos I wear with a couple of cute dresses or skirts. I put them on and instantly feel amazing! I have always liked heels/stilettos on women. They are sexy and classy at the same time.

I had a guy who loved all things red, want me to wear them to bed. They have a cute little bow to the side and I did not want to ruin the shoes. As sexy as heels are, I don't know why they are worn in pornos myself.

Men love the heels............When a woman is in heels, her calves look nicer, her ass is more pronounced and it appears she is standing at "erotic" attention. Women look sooo sexy lying on their back with their legs spread in the air while in heels. Heels shouldn't be worn past the point of discomfort.

I've enjoyed wearing high heels for better than forty years. I keep the heel height between 3 and 4 inches. I prefer the sandal types like, ankle straps, slides and slingbacks. I don't care for closed pumps. I've always worn and continue to wear my heels with stockings. I like vintage and retro seams or RH&T type fashions. I try to keep my feet in good shape and most of the time I have a nice pedicure and polish. This is all normal for me. I grew up in the high heels worn with stockings era and it's followed me through life.

I know the fellas enjoy a lady in high heels and stockings. Some people use heels and stockings as a stimulation for fetish and sex. That's quite alright by me and I do the same thing. I know and have associated with men that wear and enjoy heels, garters and stockings. I've encouraged them to be what they desire to be!

High heels add a special curvature to the ankles and calves. Stockings give legs a three dimensional look. Black stockings turn curvature and dimension into a something torrid! Try it, you will like it!

My husband and I have enjoyed Gynecology Fetish fun for many years. Personally I like to mix my high heels and stockings with my Gyn fun. Should I be in my stirrups or snuggled in my knee braces/crutches I'll be wearing heels and stockings. I have custom made shoe/stocking protectors my husband slips over the stirrups when we use them. These protect the sole leather/stockings from the serrated edges of the stirrups. Each set of these protectors come in different colors with different little sayings on them like "Ankle Straps Today Sexy" or "Black Stockings Only" embroidered onto them. They work great! I'm a grandmother but I still love to have my fun!

So have fun with stockings and heels. Try this to add a special personal dimension to your fetish fun! To the person wearing the high heels and or stockings have your lover/mate "Dress You" in your heels and hosiery! Get them involved and see how special that is!

Men love the heels............

Wearing and going in high heels is a very efficient manner to ruin your feet - the best to keep your feet healthy is going barefoot.

For me, high heels, stockings, lingerie, longline bras, wide panel 4/6/8 strap suspender belts, blouses, pencil skirts.........schoolgirl knickers....all fabulous.!!!!!

Anything feminine on a woman...is fantastic.

Use this lingerie in social setting, bedroom and for gyno exam situations.

Adore my wife (5 feet 11 in heels) in a demure outfit...knowing she is wearing a full matching set of sexy lingerie and stockings underneath..she loves it too.

Maybe a stranger catching sight of a suspender clasp under the skirt/dress and imagining her undressed.

Each to their own tho.......

Porn is basically fantasy on film. Heels are not exactly safe in bed whether you value your eyeball, groin or waterbed's integrity, but they look damn good and can cover up some unholy looking feet. But heels look great everywhere else, and can adjust for height differential in some other non-bedroom places like bent over the kitchen counter, trunk of a car, office desk etc. And as others have pointed out, they lengthen and accentuate the legs, push the derriere and bust outward and slim the figure. Win-win all around.

Related PSA for Millennial Go-Grrrls: leave those hideous flip flops at home in the bathroom or on the pool deck. No place in the work environment, even going to and from your car, and it's an instant put off. But then you knew that...

I love wearing mine in bed!

Kisses,

Jaeme

When I first transitioned I found it difficult wearing high heels, but like everything practice makes perfect, and I eventually got used to wearing them.

When I was doing escort work, the client quite often used to request high heels and short dress or skirt, or high heels with stockings and suspenders with the booking. So I was wearing them a lot of the time. Learning to wear them properly and putting up with the discomfort was well worth it.

Most men from my experience love to see a woman wearing high heels and a short skirt, or high heels with stockings and suspenders.

I guess that it just makes the legs look better for a man.

However I would never wear them in a bed. In fact I was never asked to wear them in bed. It would ruin the bed, ruin the shoes, and quite probably ruin the feet and ankles.!!!!

Nothing better than taking my girl out for a night with 6" platform heels on, short dress & stockings love watching guys drool over her. I don't mind even letting some dance with her while I watch knowing I'm the one who will be going home with her. She likes to sit in a chair across from me with her legs crossed, dress pulled up just high enough to see the tops of her stockings and garter belt. She knows my cock is rock hard, can't wait to get home. We get home, the dress comes off and we have a 2-3 hour session, eventually the heels come off with nothing better than feeling them on my back while I'm pleasuring her between her legs. Heels just enhance the experience.