High Heels

While I find any form of shoeplay appealing, dipping does it for me the most. I remember seeing a young lady once who kept slipping her left foot in and out, in and out, in and out of her shoe continuously. I didn't say anything, but it made an indelible impression!

I like high heels. Their sexy but even sexier when they get taken off in the middle of the scene. But this is coming from a bare foot guy lol

@VP1856 , you sound like hubby! He loves my heels. And every love-making session begins with me wearing his favorite pair, but somewhere along the way they manage to come off and he has his way with my feet and toes!

And I love it!

Deb

I have every sympathy with women who are expected or encouraged to wear high heels all day in the workplace. But for the bedroom or other leisure time there are few things I find sexier. Uncomfortable (& yes I have tried wearing them!) but what a fantastic sight to see a woman wearing nothing but a pair of ultra shiny black court shoes with pencil slim 5" heels while I slide my cock into her, reaching around to find her little joy switch. & yes I would happily clean them afterwards!

Adore heels. Whether at work, play or socialising. Black ones with a silver heel are my favourites, but have many, many pairs. I think even Imelda Marcos might be impressed at my collection lol

The man that said he doesnt like a woman in heels (in my case in boots too) is a liar! Heels are a awesome!!!! Keep using it ladies!!!!

@zaboots, don't worry! I'm intent on wear heels as long as I can!

I love the way they look, I love the way I look when I wear them. And I feel empowered when I do. Nothing adds to my confidence level any more when standing before a difficult client making a presentation than rocking a really great pair of heels!

Deb

Complitely agree with n.3 SwitchableSusie comment!

Debgurl... keep Rocking those Laboutins!!

I'm willing to bet that if Debgurl were to slip her foot out in front of a difficult client, his knees would buckle!😃

I've used a little shoe play more than a few times with those clients who seem to be paying attention to my legs and shoes. It's one of those little secret weapons you learn about and use strategically!!

Deb

@debgurl You ought to post a few pics of you and your shoes, and also a couple of your toes. Bet you have sexy feet and toes, and the pics would be the rave! 😃

@mike45 just go to the blog page and look for my blog. You'll find a few pics there and my latest acquisitions!

Deb

@debgurl Love the shoes, but missing the feet and toes. 😢

@mike45 I'll see if we can do something about that in the near future!

Deb

High heels enhance femininity and I often ask my girlfriend to wear hers when we have sex. She thought it was a little strange at first, but she now does it to arouse us both.

I like them because of how restrictive they can be at times. You can enforce wearing them, lock them on... It makes movement (on feet) a chore! Just watch your ankles.

@Allies9 high heels are awesome, but I prefer boots because they restrained the ankles too, what do you think?

Love heels; they look so nice and feel so good . However ; do to my lifestyle horses, running, hiking, sea kayaking etc.. they don't work to well ?: Just try shoveling 550 pds of horse manure a day in them ?.. that is a true heel punishment !

My guess is that women wearing high heels in porn videos is designed to appeal to the fetish many men have to a women's feet or shoes. All my life, I have noticed that men focus on my feet if I am wearing high heels. My husband definitely likes to see me in high heels. I do wear them in bed now and again when we are going to have intercourse.

In Europe the slang term for high heels is, loosely translated, as fuck me pumps or fuck me mules.

Dita

In Europe the slang term for high heels is, loosely translated, as fuck me pumps or fuck me mules.

Not to be pedantic, but which of the 23 officially recognized languages or of the 60 indigenous regional and minority languages are you talking about?

I've been trying to figure out in which language they're called 'fuck me pumps' but it eludes me. There are so many it could be in ... ha ha

Can't speak for Europe, but that's what they're called in N. America.

Can't speak for Europe, but that's what they're called in N. America.

A 7th grade teacher I had, who was a great teacher but a little out there, called them hooker heels.

the slang term for high heels is, loosely translated, as fuck me pumps

The "fuck me pumps" has, for me, been restricted to those without heel straps.

My own preference is to be entirely nude when having sex. I've never known a woman who wants to wear heals once things start heating up. As a result, porn where the women keep their shoes on is actually something of a turn-off for me -- it screams at me that the passion isn't really real.

I once read that high heels are a fashion for two reasons -- the high heel causes the pelvis to tilt in a position that seems to invite sex, and the woman can't run away very fast when wearing heels.

My guess is that women wearing high heels in porn videos is designed to appeal to the fetish many men have to a women's feet or shoes. All my life, I have noticed that men focus on my feet if I am wearing high heels. My husband definitely likes to see me in high heels. I do wear them in bed now and again when we are going to have intercourse.

Dita, I have to agree with you about heels 100%. I know hubby loves to see me in heels and he loves it when I wear them to bed when love-making is on the menu! That said, they don't always stay on my feet the entire time. But, I've figured out what flips his switch and wearing a pair of heels makes the experience even better for me because it makes it better for him!

Everyone's mileage may vary on this subject because it falls in the category of personal taste and enjoyment.

Deb

As a result, porn where the women keep their shoes on is actually something of a turn-off for me -- it screams at me that the passion isn't really real.

There is nothing the people in porn could wear, or not wear, that would make the passion real.

As appropriate as heels might be for a woman's dress style, they have no business being worn when she's otherwise undressed and in bed as my taste goes and would be my ultimate turn-off. Worn in bed, as they are in so many porn flicks, they become potential weapons, however unintentionally, and would creep me out. Nudity is my ultimate turn-on and so are a woman's bare feet.

Once I have a hood or a blindfold on my husband or other submissive, my heels come off.

It's just more comfortable that way.

@Dita said

In Europe the slang term for high heels is, loosely translated, as fuck me pumps or fuck me mules.

In the UK, the word 'pumps' usually means cheap, lightweight canvas gym shoes. I've never heard of it as a term for high heels.

Now 'stripper heels' is a term that seems in regular use here.

For me women in high heels are much more sexier. But up to this time I haven't thought about reasons why it is so. Only after a while of musing I understood that women in such condition are sacrificing themselves because it isn't so comfortable, they are doing masochism in such way and it can mean they are ready to go on compromises and men that like.

It is my opinion.

It is obedience to be more sexually obedient - going on compromises with sexuality of men.