Men: When you were a teenager, did you ever compare your erect penis size to your brother or other m

I did with my brother, and he won. Now, 40 plus years later, he occasionally reminds me of that event.

Never.

At some point, however, I discussed penis issues with my cousin and we ended up comparing them, but it was about circumcised vs non-circumcised. Both were flaccid.

No, never when erect. But flaccid, yeah, I've compared myself to other guys. I remember doing that my first year in high school in the shower after P.E. class. Ah, good times!

No, never. Why would I. I got what I got. Not going to change.

Early on in puberty (12-14 ballpark), I compared with a few close guy friends.

Bobby edited this to say "some!" In my school everyone piled into one large shower, about 30 or more at once and about 20 trying to get in. When walking through a maze of about 30 showers at once it's hard not to notice. It does not mean one has to gawk, it's just hard to navigate the maze of open showers without looking where one is going. Many times in my school, public in the states, I recall guys saying something about someone's dick and they were super straight.

I still remember most of the dicks in gym class, not erect, it was hard not to look. And being gay, I started to get hard, had to be careful way back then. Didn't want to get labeled the school queer. I think "some" guys check each other out in gym class.

@Bobby4627 said

.... I think all guys check each other out in gym class.

You can't speak for all of us. I would have no reason to.

Maybe Bobby should have said most of us did. Certainly I did. It is a normal sort of curiosity particularly for boys in puberty.

hankb

I think all guys check each other out in gym class.

You have got to be kidding. In the US Catholic schools I went to, they hardly ever bothered to give any kind of physical activities. They loved to play the poor suffering money strapped institution and poured all their money into building ... no sports fields or gymnasium either.

In the Belgian schools I went to, gym was considered the least worthy of all scholastic activities. If one hour of sports hadn't been mandated by the ministry of education, I doubt any school would have even bothered. We changed into gym shorts and t-shirts in the gym itself without ever completely undressing and hung our school clothes over the back of a chair. Any fooling around or flashing or nudity would have earned you an immediate trip to the school prefect for punishment.

Btw - in Continental parlance, a prefect was a cross between a vice-principle and gunnery sergeant. He was in charge of day to day discipline and the smooth running of things with pupils. The rector was the Man in Charge and the prefect was his enforcer ... 😃

@Bobby4627 said

..... I think all guys check each other out in gym class.

@agracier said

You have got to be kidding. In the US Catholic schools I went to, they hardly ever bothered to give any kind of physical activities. They loved to play the poor suffering money strapped institution and poured all their money into building ... no sports fields or gymnasium either.

In the Belgian schools I went to, gym was considered the least worthy of all scholastic activities. We changed into gym shorts and t-shirts in the gym itself without ever completely undressing and hung our school clothes over the back of a chair. Any fooling around or flashing or nudity would have earned you an immediate trip to the school prefect for punishment.

To go further than my first reply, I'll echo agracier's words, "You have got to be kidding".

My high school in England was a tough place. It wasn't punishment from prefects (there were none) or teachers that would worry anyone caught doing this. To even be suspected of it would have attracted a serious beating and general bullying from the more thuggish element among the boys themselves. This was in the first half of the 1980s, and those were very different times. Attitudes to homosexuality were different. I can remember two incidents when boys were accused of "being gay" and I put a stop to beatings that were in progress. There may have been one or two more incidents that I don't immediately recall.

I went to a US Catholic all boys high school in the early 80's. We had Phys Ed once or twice a week. Very homophobic environment. I think a lot of the guys, except for maybe some of the jocks, kept to themselves in the locker room, so it wasn't like guys were checking each other out. Especially because guys were so quick to throw words around like "queer" or "fag" at the slightest opportunity to do so, mostly in harsh jest. So if someone were to be caught looking, those "queer" & "fag" buzzers & whistles would go off loudly in an instant.

Yeah there was a time my friends and I were in the woods exploring and for some reason ended up wrong em out and comparing. A couple of us experimented a little.

When I was about 15, my brother (13) and I were in my bedroom looking at the swimsuit issue of a sports magazine. It was summer so we were wearing basketball shorts and t-shirts, and our erections were obvious. I mentioned that his penis looked pretty big for his age, and he pulled his shorts and underwear down to reveal it. So I pulled mine down, too, and we compared. I was bigger and thicker, but i have two years on him.

I was super horny from looking at pictures of girls and started stroking myself. He asked if I was jerking off, and I said yeah, so he copied my motion. After a couple of minutes, without meaning to, I went past the point of no return and came. His eyes got big. "How did you do that?" "Just keep rubbing until it happens." So he did, and a couple of minutes later he had his first orgasm.

Later that night he asked to borrow my magazine.

My brother and I compared our erect penises regularly. We often saw dad erect, and between my brother and me we would talk about how we compared.

By 2 best friends and I used to compare our erections from when we were 10-11 years. Usually it would start when we'd been reading one of my dad's porn mags. We'd be out camping in the bush behind my house and we'd drop our pants inside the tent, kneel in a close circle so that our dicks were almost touching. Then we'd span our fingers along each other's shafts and then compare that to our own.

My friend Craig was slightly bigger than me, James was slightly smaller and his dick had a bend to one side.

I was 14 when Craig and I last compared our dicks (and jerked off in front of each other) - he was still slightly bigger than me.

James had gone to a different high school but he and I still would check each other out when we were getting undressed - just our flaccid dicks, never our erections.

Oh man, did we! We did more than that too. But we would adjourn to my friends garage and drop our pant and underwear and get ourselves hard just to see who was the biggest. My friend Jim was HUGE at 12 years old, as I remember about seven inches compared to me and Dennis at about four inches.. Interesting thing about Dennis, he was uncircumcised and his foreskin would not retract fully - he had a big glans. The hole he shot from was on the underside of his penis and when he came it shot down instead of out. -his was the first dick I ever had in my mouth but he never came in my mouth.

Yes me and my friends in the neighborhood compared erections a time or two.

I was 19 and getting out of the shower when my 18 yo best friend was over. He saw my flaccid penis for the first time and was like "wow its bigger than I thought." A couple days later he was over after playing sports and needed to shower. I remember him saying, "and then you can see my penis." Sure enough, he got out and I saw him flaccid. A little smaller than me but still good looking. Later on, we were hanging out one night and started watching porn. I got an erection and showed him. His reaction was priceless. For several minutes, he just stared at it saying how big he thought it was. (I really think im just about average at 6.5"). Nonetheless, after admiring mine for a while, he lost his boxers and we started jacking off. His penis was definitely shorter than mine, but still with good girth and a huge mushroom head. We jacked off together several more times after that until we moved away. Still to this day, when we talk the topic of how big my dick is comes up. Now that makes one feel good.

My cousin and i would often sleep in our underwear when sleeping over at each others hosue. Must have been in 3rd and 4th grade one time whIle we were laying on the covers I got hard and he looked over and said "wow you havea bigger dick than me". I never thought of it. He did the shown me your I'll show you mine. Sure enough I was bigger. It pretty much was like that a few other times after when we were sleeping in our underwear. I would always have some different kind of underwear styles color. So the topic of my penis and erections would come up. I don't think we were gay but just kids.

However two friends of mine during a same situation we did always end up meeting around with each others penis.

I never compared penis size, erect or flaccid, with anyone. However, like others have mentioned in the gym showers it was difficult not to notice some dicks. One classmate I remember who was only about 5' 6" tall, had the longest flaccid penis of any I have ever seen. If I had to guess, it was likely 8" long when flaccid. I had often wished my dick were that long and that I could see it just once when erect.

Never with my bros but saw them erect from a distance.... once though at camp as a 17 year old counselor in training with another CIT while showering.... beautiful muscled hyper sexual blond kid named Joel... he started talking about the chick counselor he was trying to get with and then started wondering if his dick was bigger this year than last year while soaping it up excessively.... I started chubbing up watching him... he of course noticed and commented. mine was longer but his was crazy thick.... we all have different gifts, I guess... anyway, I let it drop there but sure wish now that I had acted on the situation

One Sunday when I was about sixteen, away from our all boy boarding school, three of us (not related) and already condemned as 'queer' by our peers because of our interest in electronics and music, were drawn together and decided to reveal our erections to each other by means of a 'who shoots first' jack off contest. I did not win (I'd masturbated the night before) but the other two were aghast at my penis, which is, I suppose, above average at nearly 8 inches; and I'm uncut One of my friends (he won) was far thicker than me, cut and with a highly flared helmet; while the other uncut guy was modestly endowed. I was immediately nicknamed D.W. (donkey wop). We were never more than a masturbation society, though. And as far as I know, we all ended up married. My wife has never complained!

Johnny

We did in class at school a few times when we were in locker room or on a school trip at night. but we did only compare flaccid. sometimes just by looking, sometimes with measuring

Oh for sure! There were five us guys in my little village and we did everything together, We had what we called a Jack Off Circle and when we had privacy one of us would yell circle and we did--dropped our pants and jacked off yes we compared size and sometimes we would pump each others cock and we always tried to cum together.

No I haven't. But I wish I had a brother. We would have fun with the ladies

I never compared my dick while erect only flaccid. It happened a few times when we were in locker room during 7th and 8th grade. I guess when a group of boys, no supervision, and bullying questionable activities take place. These two years we only had a female P.E. teacher and never came into the boys locker room.

At some point, it started after this two new kids both transferred into my school. These two were both were related to each other and your basic horrible bully teen boys. Naturally, just by their age they were more developed than most of us. Usually, it always happened in the back section of the locker room just outside urinals area. Basically, they would already have their dicks out and say let's see who has the bigger dick. Sometimes, there would be group 4 or 5 standing there exposing our dicks to each other. Other times, It involved dropping our shorts comparing: dicks, plus who had the bigger balls and more pubes. Over a period of time, school officials found out about the bullying and had male teachers make periodic checks in the locker room.

As a kid, I always had a diverse group of friends. I played sports and hung out with a lot of jocks, but I was also a good student and had another group of more intellectual, and less athletic boys. From about the sixth through eighth grade, I would sometimes be with one of the more bookish friends in one of our homes after school and would get into a "show me yours and I will show you mine" situation. Typically, it was just looking with no touching. We were all Caucasian kids from fairly affluent families born in the early '70s in the Southeast U.S. Everyone was circumcised and it was fascinating to me to see how different each guy's genitals looked as well as to see how much pubertal development he had had. In the sixth grade, a boy moved to our school district from the Northeast who was unathletic and somewhat effeminate. I became friends with him and the first time we hung out after school, he asked to see my penis. I agreed if he would follow suit and let me see his. I went first and took my pants and briefs down. He did not just look, he wanted to touch my penis and balls. I was 12 years old with Tanner III development. In other words, I had an adult sized penis, hanging balls and a decent pubic bush at the base of the shaft. He played with the penis and it got erect immediately. He handled the balls and then he started stroking the erect penis. I stopped him until he showed his. He, reluctantly, dropped his pants and briefs and took out the first uncircumcised penis I had ever seen. I handled it and retracted his foreskin to reveal a shiny purple head with a good deal of smegma on it. (Now I understood what was removed with a circumcision as I had a very poor understanding of what the process of "circumcision" was all about.) After I checked him out, I let him give me a hand job to completion.

From that day forward, I would regularly go to his house after school for him to beat me off. It became understood between the two of us that he would examine my penis and testicles and give me a hand job if I came over to his house or if he came to my house. It was only necessary for one of us to ask "can you come over today?" or I might ask him "can you do it today?" Unfortunately, his family moved away after a year or so.

Think this was rather common at school and also how quickly you could ejaculate. At that stage it was seconds rather than minutes.

I know I did growing up in UK in late 80s, mainly amongst my friends.

I was a late developer so always seemed to be the smallest amongst my friends. My brother is 2 years younger and he was keen to show me when he realised he was much bigger than me.

I did with my best friend when I was around 10 or 11. We’d have sleepovers and often sleep in the same bed, otherwise one of us would have to use a sleeping bag and sleep on the floor.

We’d get naked and compare our cocks, both flaccid and erect. Neither of us were over developed but mine was the larger. Once we decided to measure ourselves ‘officially’ by way of a ruler.