I don’t doubt that an enema alone, aided by no physical stimulation of the genitalia, can excite a person to orgasm. Many people here say they’ve enjoyed just that, some routinely, and even a few while soloing! A big WOW and happy-for-‘em on that, but speaking from personal experience and after having read a good sampling of posts, I suspect they’re the Fortunate Few – the exception, rather than the rule.
Certainly, I’ve never had that mystical experience – never even reached the verge of orgasm without at least some masturbation or oral stimulation to bring me to the grand finale. I may have said this in some previous post, but I’ll say it again here: I was introduced to enema play by my ex-wife, who over the span of several years gave me well over a hundred warm, soapy 2-quart enemas – and she gave them expertly, at an unhurried pace, and with a strong erotic aura permeating the bedroom. Through all that, I never got close to orgasm without “help”, even when she’d add a gentle but deep and relentless prostate massage as I worked on retention. The one thing that did change with those sessions was intensity, once I did climax: her efforts almost always provoked the wettest, most energetic orgasms possible, certainly for me. On my scale, they were off the scale!
I’ve been fortunate enough to find two enema playmates since my wife became “my ex”: one, a woman who was perpetually hungry for anal play in any sane form; and another, a man who was interested in giving but not receiving. (SIDE NOTE: The woman, sadly, had to return the Philippines only months after we had begun to test the reach of each other’s imagination. The man, whom I connected with here on Zity, was too clinical in his approach and demeanor for sexual gratification to sprout, never mind blossom.) Once again, with these different partners, I never got close to having my Magic Moment without manual or oral “help”. No surprise, in the case on the man; but with the woman, in our prolonged encounters that focused on anal play, with gratifying enemas given and taken by both of us, and her crazy-making nozzle play during and after administering, orgasm was never reached by either until we progressed to genital stimulation of one form or another.
So, I guess it all depends on the individual, and physiology rather than psychology might be the difference between those who do (or can) and those who don’t (or can’t). I certainly have no inhibitions about reaching orgasm while the enema is being given, or even after the bag is empty, as was the case of my Filipino lady friend, with her continued working of the nozzle as I retained. My feeling on the matter: take what pleasure and gratification you can from an encounter with The Bag, The Bulb, and a simpatico friend – no-hands or not, when you reach it, it’s bound to be a wonderful, exceptional climax!