Humiliation: the actual thing or the thought

How many want to be actually humiliated in public?

How many just like the thought or fantasy of it?

You can count me as one who is in love with the fantasy side. I like to think it's like when you were a kid and you could play at whatever you wanted, all you had to do was imagine it.

Luvs It.

Well its kinda 50-50 for me. the thought of being babied in public is fantasy. but im incontinent and the embaressment from me being in diapers all the time is real so like i said 50-50 for me. do i like when im caught ina diaper not usaly but sometimes it can be a little fun for me. like when a group of women see me and make it out its kinda exciting to know they are watching you very closely to see if they can see it or not. and sometimes i dont disapoint them ill bend over to get something and let em have peek lol.

This is a good one-- fantasy and reality often don't jive-- in my experience,

acting out a fantasy can be very different than what's in your head.

When it's only in your head you control it-- in reality, you often have no

control so it can be good or bad-- depending on if you are willing to go with the flow

so to speak. You need to give up control to enjoy it -- which is why many of us

like wearing diapers-- to go to a time when we had no responsibilities and someone

else was calling the shots.

Like Mamasboy, I like to go out in public and tease a little-- it's the trill

of the unexpected. When my g/f was diapering me-- it was a fantasy come true--

but until I let go of my embarassment I found it a little scary.

Like a lot of things-- it's how we perceive them. If you are open- reality

can be more exciting because of the unexpected--

I like to mix a little of both-- you go out diapered even if you don't need

them and see what happens-- clear as mudd-- right?

For me it's the fantasy, i m not a big fan of public humiliation, but at home... well that s a different 😉 story

Sometimes i'll be with friends at the mall or something and they'll pants me for all to see my cute lil diapered butt. 😁

I will pass about being on being humiliated any where.

Hello.

I will make myself clear first. I hate this fetish, but the reality is that I'm stuck with it. I'll never have a family or children, because this fetish has become my sexuality.

I don't participate in it and don't want to, but like the wild animal within, I feel it creeping up as I get older.

I first discovered this fetish in 1997 via Wetset when I started high school.

As time has gone on, I really enjoy humiliation stories, as well as the thrill of being caught (in stories). I love stories with degradation, but where the degrader also gets their come-uppance.

In real life, if I were to be humiliated, I would have limits. In a place where I know nobody it wouldn't be bad. To do it in front of my friends would be terrible.

To do it in front of your wife's/girlfriend's friends would be the ultimate, where they degrade you and treat you like the dirty little boy you are.

Your post moves me. do you really think that you'll never have a family cos of this? that isn't true. i was married and the whole family thing. my wife was my domme mommy, and quite strict too. she made sure i played my hubby and daddy roles. i always had to please her. that is what i loved to do too! please tell me you haven't given up the hope of finding "the best of both worlds"? there are quite a lot of dominant women looking for good and true boys.

you hit it right on with your last humiliation scenario - by the wife, er domme mommy infront of her friends. i always had that fantasy, and if she had wanted it too i'd have tried it.

i like private humiliation. for me it is mostly a private thing. it was her way of getting me "off my high horse", bringing me down to ground. how could i forget "my place" when she dangled my plastic baby panties infront of my face and told me what a little boy i really was... she knew, i knew, had i forgotten?

humiliation always seems to get at the very thing we really want?

does that make sense?

best wishes

babyplasticpanties

What about the thrill of being caught in public potential humiliationn otherwise the fantasy is enough for me.

I have been humiliated in public

Would just wan to fantasize being diapered in public like wearing an onesie. maybe a pacifier but that's all.

😮 Hey dogg I don't see why you can't have a family. I have been married for almost 30 years. My wife knows about my fetish and doesn't mind it at all. In fact she helps me get diapered sometimes. We have two lovely daughters that are now out on their own. Well the youngest is in collage and the oldest has graduated from collage and has a good job. I have been into diapers for my whole life. I don't hate it. It's who I am. Diapers are part of me. Don't be so hard on yourself. This isn't a nasty deranged fetish you should hate. You could be into a lot worse. :😃

Dog, I've thought the same thing as you, and believe me, it's not true. Sure, it won't be easy, it just means you'll have a harder time finding someone who is not only accepting, but willing to engage with you, but, like everything else, it's all about compromise. Women that are completely turned off by bodily functions probably won't end up being your dream come true. But, someone who show's a little latitude towards that subject might actually be willing to entertain something as harmless as this. Just remember, you have to take little steps...

As far as being humiliated, I've certainly had my share of fantasies, and even a certain woman in mind, but to actually go through with it, I don't think I could. I'm much better off with who I am with, and not ever willing to give her up!

The thought is so much hotter. I'm the type who is easily remembered, so I don't want people seeing me in a diaper in real life.

I have had the fantasy for almost as long as I have been into diapers. I have had my diaper changed in the back of a truck and wore only a diaper on the boat. These times were when I felt most alive. I wore a diaper and T-shirt in my back yard with guest over and soaked that diaper till my pee ran down my leg. I was laughed at and loved it. So I can say with some certainty that I would love to go out of my home town and be walked down main street while wearing only a wet disposable diaper . I would like to be changed in some sort of public setting. Not like where some one would be offended by my nudity as I was having my diaper removed but still , getting changed.

Just fantasy, please. 😳

😳 the thought of humiliation is certainly more appealing to me than the actual thing. while i had an actual experience of my diaper leaking through my pants in public once...and someone noticing...the humiliation only became pleasurable after the incident was over...and i replayed it in my mind. the idea of being seen in diapers or baby clothes or acting like a baby and being teased or humiliated has always been an aspect of my fantasy life...but certainly only a part of it.

😢 doggalogga you really don't have to go without a family or children. I've been married for 28 almost 29 years. I have 2 great children, girls. My wife was shocked at first about my diaper fetish but in time she got over the shock. Now she diapers me sometimes and always insits that I wear a diaper to bed at night. All is not lost because you have a fetish. You will see. There are people out there that love people into diapers even if they don't know it yet. 😁

I agree with the idea of "private humiliation", a situation where, say, you're diapered under your clothes and no one knows except you and your SO...and she has the power to humiliate you fully, but doesn't, except for perhaps a not-quite-discreet comment about whether you need changing. The idea that you share something no one else knows--isn't that what a good relationship is all about?

I have would love the thought of being publicly humiliated

Neither. I prefer the privacy I have with them. I wear when I know I won't get caught. At home or in the car, that's pretty much it.

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I agree with the idea of "private humiliation", a situation where, say, you're diapered under your clothes and no one knows except you and your SO...and she has the power to humiliate you fully, but doesn't, except for perhaps a not-quite-discreet comment about whether you need changing. The idea that you share something no one else knows--isn't that what a good relationship is all about?

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yeah. though sometimes i fantasize about my diaper showing in public in a situation where no one would think it strange e.g. daddy putting me in a wheelchair for a day trip?

I would love to humiliated mostly by girls/women and want to have women see my yellow/pink plastic panties sticking out over my jeans where i can hear them laughing and giggling and hear their comments 😮 😮 😮 😄 😄 😄 :😃 :😃 :😃

I have been humiliated by clasmmates and friends who were girls as a kid because I was little for my age but most of them didn'nt know about my late wetting. I found that I was arroused very much so when I was about 10 by a girl teasing me about nappies and plastic pants and later at secondary school

I nearly had orgasmic accidents at the time. I think it is a good lead as to why a girl should be interested in even mentioning this subject to me unless she found the idea of it stimulating also 😄

As for the present--I would like to be caught red handed,or have a genuine accident where I was dependant on some nice female to put me in a nappy and plastic pants and tease me yes! but it would have to be in a situation which made it necessary and totally genuine😄

So interesting, most of us feel the same -- fantasy, yes yes vs reality, no, or maybe with specific limitations. Does this mean we generally want to keep our sexuality private? We seem to want to minimize attention -- pretty normal.

I have thought about this many times over and over. My mind is saying yes, But in all actuality it will never happen. My friend would not humiliate me in public. She will be discrete about checking my diaper while out. We have been out to eat at restaurants and we sit next to each other. She has slid her hand up my shorts and did a diaper check.

Alone with my wife, I'd take all the humiliation I can get. It's as big of a thrill as my diapers (although humiliation is meaningless without diapers). I think I'd take it outside except for the fear of offending someone.

If I knew there would be only approval from my condition I'd have no problem being in a public situation. Unfortunately, there are far too many folks that would take a very dim view of those circumstances.

My wife and I went to buy a new mattress and the man ask if we needed a mattress protector my wife spoke up being very strong Yes.I could not say a word standing there in a diaper.

This was petty humiliating for me. Even though i had divorced my wife she was still living in the same house with me until she could move out. Anyways we drove to the mall together in the Suburban that i had. I was in diapers by then so i had a diaper bag that i kept in truck. She went her way and i went mine. After about an hour i was wet and i had just had a medium bowel accident. So i went the truck to change my self. I opened the back where i kept my diaper bag. Well, she had met up with a guy and they were in the back of the truck, when i opened the back. She turned to me and yelled what are you doing here. I said i had an accident and need to change. She said get in an let us finish. Then you can change. As she was getting fucked by this guy, she was telling him how i was a bad husband who had to wear diapers. It was humiliating to me. He finally came inside her and then pulled out. No condom, and he had a huge dick. They cleaned up and left to get a bite to eat. I changed my diaper and then she i drove home a hour later. This was super embarrassing.