This is a good one-- fantasy and reality often don't jive-- in my experience,
acting out a fantasy can be very different than what's in your head.
When it's only in your head you control it-- in reality, you often have no
control so it can be good or bad-- depending on if you are willing to go with the flow
so to speak. You need to give up control to enjoy it -- which is why many of us
like wearing diapers-- to go to a time when we had no responsibilities and someone
else was calling the shots.
Like Mamasboy, I like to go out in public and tease a little-- it's the trill
of the unexpected. When my g/f was diapering me-- it was a fantasy come true--
but until I let go of my embarassment I found it a little scary.
Like a lot of things-- it's how we perceive them. If you are open- reality
can be more exciting because of the unexpected--
I like to mix a little of both-- you go out diapered even if you don't need
them and see what happens-- clear as mudd-- right?