Who knows about your diapers?

I have had diaper fetish since I was a kid.

Did someone discover that you are a AB/DL?

Did you tell anyone?

Yes I told to one cousin and thats all. He's cool with it and I don't care.

I have a friend that knows i like wearing diapers, although he thinks i need them for bed-wetting. I probably have a good chance of him not caring that I like diapers but I have yet to have the courage to tell him the truth.

[quote author=psykira link=topic=902.msg6857#msg6857 date=1203549275]I have a friend that knows i like wearing diapers, although he thinks i need them for bedwetting. i probably have a good chance of him not caring that i like diapers but i have yet to have the courage to tell him the truth.[/quote]Then don't tel him. If I where you, I would stick to my original story about bedwetting. Friends don't need to know everything in life about you. I know it's not nice to lie to friends but think how hurt he would be if you told him it was a fetish and not medical, after you told him it was and he worried and felt bad for ya. So keep it a secret he accepts it for what it is.

Ok well their was this one time at thanksgiving dinner and....

Nah for real though I don't even know how many people actually know aside from the every day by standers that I pass by on my daily romps to random where abouts. To break it down though. My family, some cousins, some friends, some co workers, some somes, etc...

I think that about covers it :-\

I've told nobody about my diaper fetish, I tried to tell a girlfriend when she found some diapers in my closet but I couldn't.

I told her that some friends were playing a practical joke.

😢

I can not say that anyone has found out about my D.L. side but all my family and friends know that I wear nappies for my bed wetting so have`nt really had to hide my use of nappies . Although I have been told that disposables would be better and that it is odd that I still use terries and plastic pants still.

I never had told anyone about it. Too worried about the reaction I would get.

Just my best friend and it took me 11 years to get the nerve to tell him. It felt like 1000 pounds had been lifted off my chest.

For any of you who have told people about diapers, how hard was it to work up the courage to do it?

I've told a handfull of people that are my fiends. It took alot of courage to say. I usually am more comfertable telling girls or gay guys. I am straight but have some gay friends (male or female) The ones I've told seem to respect me more. I usually tell friends that seem to have their own sexual hang ups. I.E. transgender people...gay or lesbian or just freaks. It's cool cause we're all still friends and respect each other bunches!

I think my aunt knew I liked wearing them while I lived with her. She never questioned why I wore them during the day while I really only needed them at night and always made sure I had plenty. Several friends and gf's found out and I came clean usually after either my stash was found or I told them. The good friends stayed friends and the backstabbers spread the word around. Luckily I always kept deniability an option and lived on after the "rumors" died out. My good friends don't say too much about it and a couple of them keep a couple diapers at their house for me in case I need an unexpected change or I stay overnight. The girlfriends I told had different reactions but nonetheless I'm single again....go figure.

I have only told the people here and plan to keep it that way until I find a kindred spirit

I've told many people and even had it come out in court. Most of the friends i told are still friends and as they say you can't pick your family so they are still there. I have even wore a diaper and T-shirt at a get-together in my back yard, and wet in my diaper several times and leaked when sitting. That was a night I will never forget.

I put it off as long as I could, but when I finally did tell my then girl friend, now wife, she really didn't have a problem with it. In fact, she tried on one of my diapers and said it made her feel warm and cozy. 😃

I told my wife about it a long time ago. She said she didn't understand it but it didn't hurt anything so what the heck. At first she was shocked but after we talked she was ok. Now I wear them every night to bed. If I don't have one on she makes me get one and /or puts it on me. She says she doesn't want a wet bed. That has happened a few times. 😳

My best friend of 16 years. She has been a lifelong bedwetter and I only knew about it since last summer. I think if I came to her and admitted my use of diapers, it would help her feel more comfortable.

I have two best friends. One I told when I was a senior in HS. The other I told 3 years ago. Both were accepting.

I came clean to my wife after dating her for only 2 months. That was over 8 years ago. We've been together ever since. She wears sometimes too, for me. You can see some pics I posted under the pics sections for girls. It's Sally. My diaper experience reached extraordinary heights after I found her. I've worn at jobs we've had together and she changed me while we were there. 😁...We've done great things together in diapers.

Tough one for me. I don't want to get caught, and I often think about how I'd go about it. Most likely I'd be casual about it, even though I wouldn't want anyone else to know. Then again, if someone blabbed about it, they'd look bad for trying to spread rumors.

My husband knows that I like to wear diapers. I told him because I wanted him to participate and he thinks its gross 😢

I came clean with a girlfriend once. What a strange thing to have done, she don't like me wearing but she said that she will let me do it as long as it is not every night

When I was in my teens, I was caught reading stories on a diaper fetish web site. Which was no surprise to my parents, they could bribe me to do anything with a pack of diapers starting at around age 4.

It was then my father explained to me what a fetish was. They didn't really scold me for it but told me that I shouldn't be reading that stuff. Especially since most AB/DL stories have lots of sexual content and I was so young (maybe 14-15). Then I had some "accidents" but nothing ever happened because I didn't do it too much.

Then last year (19-20) I actually started to wet the bed. So I had to come out that I was wetting to my parents, docs, and therapists. At the time only my therapist and my girlfriend knew about my AB/DL tendencies. My therapist had no clue what it was so I was left to explain it to her. I'm still working on getting the courage to wear there. She doesn't seem to have a huge problem with it, it helps me relax *shrugs*.

However, my now ex girlfriend made fun of me the last time we spoke, especially after she had been involved in it.

At the same time I have several AB/DL friends online And a mommy friend.

There has been a few people I have told and then some just kinda find out.

Well it's kinda hard to hide it from the mom and dad. They found diapers under my mattress cuz I thought I was sly hiding them there >😢.

And at age 14 i didn't know really how to explain it except that I like it, so after being taken to many doctors and stuff still to this day they don't understand it :-\.

As for the rest of my family I told a few cousins and they were like ok sure what ever makes you happy 😁.

Then some through out the school years some friend came and gone because of it 😜

Then you got those parties you go to and few drinks latter you find your self just in a diaper preachin the power of pampers 😮 and i still duno what happen last nite :😃

~D~

I've been very careful and only told one g/f after she actually caught me-- wearing diapers-- she was really cool about it and I think she enjoyed the power it gave her- I was still shy about it but the times we did play were great.

I have a beautiful neighbor who is very motherly and I told her once that my mother kept me in diapers until I was 5 or 6. She said - oh I'm sorry to hear that and then paused for a bit and said - well maybe that wouldn't be too bad after all.

I didn't say anything else. Too close to home if you know what I mean. She's pretty smart though and last time I saw her she gave me a very motherly kiss on the cheek.

I was waiting for the bum pat but alas - I was sitting down.

Maybe the subject will come up again who knows?

I clumsily tried to come clean about my diaper fetish to a few girlfriends in my teenage years, all rebuked strongly when I would then try and make a joke of it except one who still didn't quite understand what I was trying to say but wore a disposable once or twice while we were babysitting but it was more for fun than anything else.

After those attempts I then pretty much kept my fetish to myself including when I got married to lovely girl who was my Wife for 13 wonderful years, after 12 of those years of keeping a secret I finally opened up about my fetish and then also promptly lost my Wife, she just didn't, couldn't and wouldn't understand and she divorced less than a year later. Thankfully she did not cite this as the reason for divorce and said we had drifted apart and we merely went our own seperate ways from there.

I had some fun on my own for a couple of years after my divorce until I met my fiancee who is very open minded, very fun, she accepts and understands that I have a diaper fetish, not fully yet but at least she knows early in our relationship and not after several years of marriage!

The hardest thing of all was telling her quite near the start... but I think I've been through worse before by leaving it late!

I've never had this happen, but i don't think my friends would be all that comfortable around me if they found out.

One of my friends just recently found one of my diapers in my bedroom. I saw them pick it up and put it back away. I walked into the room and he didn't say anything.

Only one friend knows about my incontinece and hes my best friend kinda like my brother we grew up togeather pretty much our whole life. my other friends dont know but they would still be my friends if they found out . they all know my medical history ofthings and would probably be like its the only thing that was left to ahppen to ya LOL, little do they know its not the only thing that didnt happen. but if they are friends they will acceot you for you n matter your underwear trust me. most of my friends wifes would be like let me see ya in them they all think im cute and are always tryin to set me up with their single girlfriends. i dont have the heart to tell them if they like a man who wears diapers and wets the bed sometimes then bring em on lol. but like i said if they are true friends they will accept you for you and not your underwear.

When I was first put back into diapers at 12, I was ashamed and took pains to hide the fact that I wore diapers to bed. One night one my best friends stayed over and I begged my mom to not make me wear a diaper to bed that night. She let me, but I had to be especially careful what I drank and be sure to pee just before I went to bed. Mom even woke me when she went to bed.

Well, it didn't work. I wet the bed anyway. The next morning, Gail found out that I was a bed wetter. I was shocked when she pulled down her pjs and showed me that she was wearing a pretty wet Goodnight. She had managed to slip it on at bed time without me knowing it. We had a long talk. I told her about my diapers and she told me that she also wore them to bed when she was at home. She also told me that a number of her other friends, including many that I also knew, also knew that she wore diapers at night. She preferred the diapers, because she could sleep better at night knowing that they would not leak. She had also done the same things that I had done before going to bed and we both agreed that that was a pain. She also told me, that they obviously never told others, but more importantly, they did not care.

From that point on, I had sleepovers and wore my diapers. She was right. My friends did not care and they never spread it around, at least not that I ever found out. It also one other thing that helped me become more comfortable being back in diapers, which was good, because by the time I was 16 I was wearing diapers 24/7 most of the time.

I have a really strong suspicion that a few friends know. Particularly because my brother and I hang out with the same people, and I'm positive he knows. I'm not sure how he found out, but he's led on that he knows. Word spreads quickly in tight social circles.