Exhibitionist.

Hi, I feel I am a exhibitionist. I enjoy being on cam for women and doing what they ask and to try to get them off by what I am doing for them. I would imagine most men fall into this category.

1- How many other men here enjoy this?

2-How many women here enjoy watching a man perform for them? if so, do you get off watching or just intrigued ?

3-How many women enjoy doing this for men?

I am sure most men would like that but just maybe not there wives or girlfriends

Since i've never really seemed to have had a sense of modesty, I think i've always had the exhibitionist in me.

Then I discovered Zity.

Now the exhibitionist in me has been brought to another level, & become unleashed, if it wasn't already.

I'll leave it to my blogs "The Need To Be Seen" & "The Need To Be Seen II" to describe where my exhibitionism has taken me.

But i would add my fantasy of late..........Wearing a jockstrap and exotically dancing to 70's dance music, pretending to be performing in a ladies' club.

The dieting I've been working on as of late might indicate a goal i may be working toward, in the realm of exhibitionism......

Tonight I read a post from my "adviser" that many of my allkink photos are getting more views than a professional model's who has been modeling new jocks. I find that wild, considering that a year ago I wouldn't let myself be seen wearing a jock.

I am of the opinion that many of us have a degree of exhibitionist tendencies. Most diaper lovers do like to show off a bit, clad in a diaper and not too much else.

Personally I like to toy with public exposure in a diaper, though carefully, because of the trouble this can invite. On camera activity is tricky, because an online photo is forever. I like live, in person activity instead. Of course this is more difficult to arrange - a trade off I guess.

Sexy & a rousing very enjoyable.

Not photos but it thrills me to have a beautiful nurse pull down my pants and have a good look before I bend over for my injections.

I have never done it before but it is a fantasy of mine to make a homemade porn video or sextape and post it online. I would also like to be outdoors someplace like in the woods or a park or somewhere where there is a chance I might get caught and get a blowjob. The woman would be fully clothed and I would be clothed but have my pants opened or lowered just enough for her to get my dick out and she would be giving the best head she ever gave. It would be nice to have a friend or someone we know sneak up on us and all they can see is her head bobbing between my legs and see my face with the look of pleasure on it. Instead of interrupting us they would just stand there and watch and masturbait.

I'm an exhibitionist. I love for people to see as much of my body as possible. I have an appropriate, but very small and snug swimsuit that I love to casually parade around in during the summer. My big fantasy is to be the entertainment at a party where I show up fully clothed but end up fully nude. It has been planned ahead of time and there is a schedule being passed around detailing what I will do at different times. The first item on the schedule is "Take a large dose of viagra" and that is scheduled to happen a few hours before the party starts. I'm scheduled to lose my socks and shoes pretty soon after I arrive, then later my shirt, then maybe I'm supposed to go put a cock ring on. Later my pants go. Then I'd be topless in my underwear with a huge erection from the Viagra and the cock ring. at 11:15 (or whenever) I'm supposed to stand up in the main room and a name will be drawn from a hat to pick who comes up and puts nipple clamps on me. As the night goes on circumstances may occur that mean that I am to put more weight on the clamps. One of the later items on the agenda is having me change into more revealing underwear than the boxers I came in. Then, for the last few hours of the party, I'm stripped nude but still wearing the clamps and the cock ring. People are allowed to touch me, but hands only. At the end of the night I stand on a little platform in front of everyone and beat myself off, or maybe someone else does it for me.

I've got a lot of variations on that theme. PM me if anyone feels like discusing them.

Here i am, about a year & a half later.

Being seen in my jockstrap before stripping nude for a massage. A ply by giving the masseuse a 50 and a 20, to have to bring back change (a 10) to find me stripped to my jockstrap.

Since Spring of 2016 when i last posted, I did several Fall outdoor shoots, and a few in winter. Sharing pics with friends, mostly male unfortunately. i say "unfortunately" because i wish i had the effect on women that i do on men. but the fact is i believe most women don't care so much about checking out men. And I haven't been putting much effort into diet and exercise. While still wanting to use my body for the art i am trying to express.

On another website, in my profile I solicit folks to let me know if they are getting themselves off to my pics. It's a measure of success as an exhibitionist to know you have achieved that effect on folks. You are exhibiting, not to be offensive, but rather, to be appealing.

To exhibit is to share what you have to show, and the intent is to be accepted and appreciated for what you'd like to show & share.

it's not about "Hey, i've got a great cock, check it out", but rather "Here's me, open in my sexuality, with an invite to look, see, possibly touch, but at least enjoy my openness, warmth, and possibly the pleasure of"

After the past 2 1/2 years of intense sexual exploration, here is where i'm at

I love being an exhibishionist, but I can't imagine doing it on cam. Sorta loses something not being face to face. Sorta like spanking yourself.

I love being an exhibitionist, but I can't imagine doing it on cam. Sorta loses something not being face to face..

For me, it has the opposite effect, because i'm used to performing for a cam and what the eventual effects are. And that i have not been much of a live exhibitionist, so the nervousness of live people around is gone.

Producing from cam work, i get to initially selectively share where and with whom. I realize what i put out there can potentially spread, and I'm okay with. Not like I want to secure a political office or anything where reputation is critical.

I also feel as though I am an exhibitionist to some degree and enjoy appearing on cam sites. I like to think I am performing for the lady's on the cam site but men are by far the majority of people who come into my room while I am online despite my profile saying I am heterosexual. I guess this is a function of demographics and that there appear to be many more males on cam than female.

Believe I am an exhibtionist somewhat . I go commando all the time and wear thin shorts with no double lining. Feels so nice and free, on a few occasions have noticed women looking at crotch area is a real rush at times. Many times have my stim unit hooked up as well when out and about along with prostate toy inserted. Do much fun.

Many years ago before I was married, I was seeing a woman who lived in an upstairs apartment with large picture windows in the living room. The building next to hers was a one-story apartment building which also had a large picture window. Though I wasn't living with this woman at the time, she gave me a key to her apartment and was OK with me coming by even when she wasn't home to hang out. After several visits to the apartment I noticed that a woman in her late 50's lived in the one-story apartment and that she would regularly peek out of her curtains and up in my direction. From what I could see she was attractive, but Given what was by then my well established pattern as an exhibitionist, I felt I had to see how far I could push this situation.

At first, I kept my curtains closed and would look through them only when I was able to catch her looking in my direction. Once she knew I was there (and knew that I was aware she was looking), I decided to see how I could 'exploit' this situation. Of course I only engaged in this behavior when I was alone in my friend's apartment. I had already learned that my friend didn't know any of her neighbors, so I figured I had a certain amount of latitude in what I was planning to do.

In the beginning, whenever I saw her looking I would quickly remove my shirt and stand in front of the large window. I avoided looking in her direction, but through the corner of my eye I could see that she was staring in my direction. As time past, I began walking around in the apartment in just my boxers, always on the look-out in case the neighbor was home and looking in my direction.

Though it took several visits to the apartment, one day I found myself walking around in my boxers when I noticed my 'neighbor' looking in my direction. Well, I figured I should go for it, so I positioned myself in front of the window and pulled out my already hard cock. Since she'd been looking up in my direction in the past, I figured why not push it a bit. Her first reaction was shock and then her hand over her mouth, but then she didn't stop looking, but continued to stare. I took this as a good sign, so I began to pump my cock in my fist. Again, a (lesser) look of shock, but she kept watching, so I kept beating off. Since beating off in front of a woman has always been one of my fantasies it wasn't long before I came, shooting onto the window. It was quite an orgasm and once I finalized re-opened my eyes, she was still staring through the window, only this time she was smiling.

Long ago, before I was married, I was a horny teenager with a hot girlfriend. I was 18 and she was 19. She was a bit wild and care free and enjoyed flashing her tits to strangers to see their reactions on occasion. She was a petite 4'11" but very curvy with pretty nice tits for her compact size. One time we were driving somewhere and there was a road construction crew working along the roadside. Traffic was slow but moving. She asked if I cared if she flashed the construction workers. I said go for it. She had on a tube top and ducked below the window of the car and pulled down her top. Then she jumped up and partly hung out the car window and flashed her tits to the road crew. I thought it was funny and judging by the comments we heard, it didn't sound like they minded at all. This was kind of to set the background for the next story of (unintentional) exhibitionism.

We were at an outdoor party at a county park picnic grove. It was after sundown and dark but there were some lights in the picnic grove. We were kind of in the background sitting on a picnic bench seat facing others. We didn't think anyone would see us and got the bright idea to try and sneak a quickie right then and there. She had on a skirt and nonchalontly slipped off her panties while I unzipped and got ready. She came over and sat in my lap while slipping on top of my raging hard on. We thought we went unnoticed, but it turned out others had caught on to our activities and were watching us bouncing up and down. They couldn't actually see anything because her skirt and the darkness covered the action. I guess it was obvious what we were doing however. When we finished there was some applause and cheering. Was she embarrassed - not at all. Me, a bit more than her! But in the end it was kind of fun and a bit crazy. After that we occasionally did similar activities knowing our friends might see us. It was kind of exciting and most of the time her idea. Oh to be young and dumb and care free!

I have never been an exhibitionist and haven't even been in a threesome so I've never really put myself in a situation where someone is observing me have sex. I think I was too afraid or immature when I was younger. But I admit now that the thought is exciting and regret not doing it before. I've thought about doing it online with someone, and one Zity member has offered to show me her naked body, but I've yet to try it.

But I think it may have happened accidentally in college, me being seen having sex but without me knowing it.

I was at a party and a friend of a friend was very flirtatious and very cute too, so after quite a few drinks we were walking to her apartment and kissing. Her roommates were having a party but she said "don't worry, I have my own bedroom, we can have privacy". I remember alot of what happened but not everything. I was very excited and drunk, not drunk enough that I couldn't get an erection because I definitely did, but not sober enough to ejaculate. So one thing I do remember is that she gave me the longest blowjob of my life, like she really wanted to make me come. Though I didn't come, it felt incredible, and I kept telling her so.

She was a cute, small, athletic young woman, long blond hair. I wish I had seen her naked in bright light, but there was very little light in the room, just enough through the window to see her outline, see her head moving up and down as she sucked me. Her pussy was very soft but I don't remember any particular taste, it was very enjoyable eating her out. I remember she had lovely small breasts which felt so nice in my hands and my mouth, she seemed to like me playing with and nibbling on her hard nipples. And her ass was so little and round, I just kept holding and squeezing it. It was easy to caress her pussy from behind and we kissed and as I sucked her nipples. Eventually I moved my fingers inward toward her anus, and gently touched her tight little hole with my finger. I caressed it very very gently, not knowing what she would think. For a long time we were both silent, as I concentrated on the tiny wrinkles and textures I could feel. Maybe she was nervous because it felt like her anus was closed very tight, like I couldn't feel any opening at all there.

Though I was drunk I do remember this moment. I asked "Do you like that?" as I touched her back there and she said "Do YOU like that?" And I said "Yes, alot." She was quiet. "It's so soft and tender, I like touching your bottom hole" I told her. She didn't say much except "Mmmmm". I got a bit of her pussy juice and rubbed it on her anus and asked "May I kiss it?" She said "really? you want to kiss it?" "Yes!" I said, cause she didn't really seem opposed to it. She kind of wiggled out of my grasp and turned herself around and laid down flat on her tummy. Though I couldn't see anything, I leaned in, pulled her bottom open with my thumbs, and began to kiss her asshole. No taste, just a bit of her pussy scent. Soon I began licking it and rhythmically pushing in and out, though not actually penetrating her, just pushing. I felt her reach under to touch herself, her clit I assumed. And she began moving and moaning quietly. So I began pushing my tongue inside her anus just a bit but couldn't go any further than the tip, because she was really very tight there. I remember that feeling of her anus gripping the tip of my tongue. Incredible sensation. That's probably the clearest memory of our night together. It was hot, we kept that up for a while, but eventually we both passed out without orgasming, but maybe she did and I didn't realize it. She didn't scream or anything but the moaning was intense but still pretty quiet.

The point is that when we woke up naked in bed together in the morning, I opened my eyes and saw several other people asleep in her bedroom, some girls, some guys, on the couch and the floor.

So were we accidentally exhibitionists that night? Were those other people there when we had sex? did they hear us? See us? I left pretty quickly and never talked to her again. I wish I had cause it would have been fun to have sex again and also to find out what her friends told her!