Hymen reconstruction

Hymen is an thin tissue that covers vaginal open and has small outlet for period flow.

Some women looses their hymen during cycling or swimming or during some streaching exercises. But the main reason for hymen to ruputure is first intercourse. due to this hymen ruputure in first sex women gets sort of bleeding.

in some areas there is a an old myth that the girl with out hymen is not virgin. but this is not true. woman can loose her hymen in other ways too.

Therefore for women who suffer from hymen ruputure due to other reasons except sex, there is a good news. we cam reconstruct your hymen just exactly like as it is before.

You haven't mentioned that the elasticity of hymens varies. Some are more elastic than others, aren't they? It shouldn't be assumed that a so-called 'intact' hymen will 'break' during first intercourse. Instead, they will stretch. In my younger days, before I met my wife and particularly during my teenage years, I had several girlfriends who I knew to be virgins. Only once was there even a small spot of blood, and even then that particular girl said she did not experience too much discomfort. I tend to think the amount of discomfort and likelihood of bleeding experienced could depend in part on whether the woman is sufficiently aroused (if at all) before penetration is attempted and whether the man is a selfish, clumsy oaf concerned mainly with his own sexual pleasure and ego.

Instead of talking about hymen reconstruction surgery, don't you think you should be debunking these commonly believed myths and educating women - and men - on the real facts?

Of course, too much education of this kind would stop clinics from cashing in on hymen reconstruction surgery, wouldn't it? Silly me.

The whole point of hymen reconstruction is stupid, and I don't care what anybody's religion says.

Agreed.

Yeah I agree too. It is very stupid. Why would you want to reconstruct something that could make your first sex uncomfortable and get stretched out of the way again anyway?

I think my husband is right. It is just about money really and people are very silly for believing the hymen is more important than it really is.

Indeed what a stupid idea. The only reason to do it is to dupe a husband into thinking he has had sex with a virgin. We know how enlightened these folks are. I guess the next step would be female circumcision.

Indeed what a stupid idea. The only reason to do it is to dupe a husband into thinking he has had sex with a virgin.

@liquidsky - Absolutely, that's the whole point. Personally, the only expectation I ever had with my partners was that they were truthful and honest. For me it is being lied to and taken for a fool that would have been a real problem.

I also believe the issue of the hymen being 'intact' is more a cultural expectation than religious. Certainly it is a concern in the middle east and South Asian countries where 'honour' and appearances mean much in local communities. I understand it also goes on to a certain extent in Japan when women there want to conceal their sexual history.

Frankly I would shudder at the idea of a virgin. The sadder but wiser girl for me. I want to be with someone who knows what they like and want. Someone who has ideas of her own not to be just a reflection of me. Dr Z I agree entirely. I just want honesty, intelligence, good heartedness and a sense of humor. All else is just artifice.

@liquidsky - While hymen reconstruction and FGM are both likely to be done for cultural reasons, I don't think you can otherwise link the two as one following the other.

In those cultures that do not criminalise it and actually practice it, FGM is supposedly performed to preserve a girl's 'honour'.

In contrast, hymen reconstruction is more likely to be done when the 'honour' is long gone and the girl wants to fool some poor sap. That boat left harbour years ago. 😁

Virgins-YUCK.

The only REAL reason for a man to want a virgin is because HE is a clod and unsure of himself and his sexual abilities.

A REAL MAN wants a woman who knows what HE wants, knows what SHE wants, knows how to get it, and can fuck his eyes out.

You think Gary Kasparov or Bobby Fischer wants to play chess with a seven year old who never saw a chess board before?

Would you want to play tennis with someone who never played before?

So true. My husband likes to be in charge but also likes it when I climb on board and take comtrol, takes that experince woman to control a man and out in place. Don't get that from first timer 😃

Virgins-YUCK.

The only REAL reason for a man to want a virgin is because HE is a clod and unsure of himself and his sexual abilities.

A REAL MAN wants a woman who knows what HE wants, knows what SHE wants, knows how to get it, and can fuck his eyes out.

You think Gary Kasparov or Bobby Fischer wants to play chess with a seven year old who never saw a chess board before?

In western cultures, I'd agree with you - but remember that in the middle east and South Asia, the culture is very conservative and paternalistic. There is the expectation of 'purity' in the bride. It brings disgrace and dishonour on the family in the local community if the girl has - erm - been around a bit. Or even been around a little!

So true. My husband likes to be in charge but also likes it when I climb on board and take comtrol, takes that experince woman to control a man and out in place. Don't get that from first timer 😃

With the occasional exception. My wife, despite her youth at the time, made all the running in our relationship beginning. Although she had a learning curve to climb sexually, it still didn't stop her taking charge.

In western cultures, I'd agree with you - but remember that in the middle east and South Asia, the culture is very conservative and paternalistic. There is the expectation of 'purity' in the bride. . . .

I think that's a bullshit excuse. Those men are afraid they could be judged and so they make up these lies about dishonor and disgrace on the part of the girl's family, when in fact, if the girl knew the guy was a lousy lay, that could get around too.

Using culture and religion is no excuse for anything in my book.

I cannot imagine any other endeavor in life or business or sport, where one would want a totally inexperienced partner. Would you want to play soccer or basketball with a team mate who had never played before? So why would someone seek out a virgin?

I think that's a bullshit excuse. Those men are afraid they could be judged and so they make up these lies about dishonor and disgrace on the part of the girl's family, when in fact, if the girl knew the guy was a lousy lay, that could get around too.

Using culture and religion is no excuse for anything in my book.

Stories of the guy's inadequacy could get around, yes - and sometimes that does happen. In those cultures, keeping up appearances is everything. It is also a major scandal and disgrace if a bride was expected to be a virgin and suspicions arise that she actually wasn't. These attitudes are sometimes enforced by law in some Arab countries.

We can only look at it through western eyes, just as people in those cultures often despise our values for departing from traditional religious repression regarding sexual matters.

Give me an experienced lady any day. They know what pleasures them and don't have to endure the pain of a rupturing hymen. I don't care if it got broken on a bicycle seat, athletics, their own fingers, or another's guy's cock. They can guide me and tell me what they like most and I'm most willing to please them. Same goes for oral sex on a clitoris. If it's clean, I'll eat it any way they want. "The worst sex I ever had was wonderful".

If I were hypothetically a man (pick your favorite religion) and I was going to get die, I would take ONE lady who knew what to do over 144 virgins any day of the week.

The same goes for me in real life. I would take one experienced man over any number of clumsy inexperienced boys/men with any size dick who never had sex before.

Having sex with a virgin is usually a waste of time unless the purpose is to teach them how to fuck.

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jimmyt44 said

. . . . "The worst sex I ever had was wonderful".

WOW! I have to disagree with that. The worst sex I ever had was pretty bad and a waste of my time. The orgasm always felt great, but getting there was horrible.

I'm not the only one who feels that way:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zoxewia7wD4

The only REAL for a man to want a virgin is because HE is a clod and unsure of himself and his sexual abilities.

Without getting into any discussion about the social ethics of hymen reconstruction and all that, don't forget there was a time when venereal diseases were incurable and many were essentially a long drawn out death sentence - think syphilis. The thinking then went, and while this was not medically correct little did people know, that if a girl was still a virgin, she had not had sex and therefore could not be infected with any venereal disease. That therefore made her more desirable because she was thought to be healthier.

It's medically erroneous, but remember this was from the days or from cultures when not much was generally known about how venereal diseases could be cured.

These ideas have more to do with insufficient education and wishful thinking, but they come disguised as ideas and (religious or not) customs that seem to be just as difficult to eradicate as antibiotic-resistant bacteria.

Dr. Z said it best. Hymens are not typically broken through, they are merely stretched aside.

The more practice a woman has with vaginal insertions, the more easily it will stretch aside. Just like developing flexibility through keeping up with a routine of stretching any other muscles in the body.

As Dr. Z also said, a woman's inability to comfortably accommodate vaginal insertion such as a penis is due to lack of arousal and/or nervousness. This is not due to the hymen. It is more psychological. A "virgin" might not be used to vaginal insertions, so she might be too nervous to relax enough to allow a comfortable penetration the first time.

There is even a reflex that some women have, called vaginismus, where the vagina involuntarily clenches shut when anything gets near it, making penetration very difficult. From what I understand, it's kind of like how your eye would close tight if someone was about to poke you in the eye.

Yeah, these are all bullshit excuses promulgated by usually religious or feigning to be religious men, of weak character and weak penis and not wanting others to find out.

I'm not buying these philosophical overly complex excuses.

And since you can't fix stupid, there's little hope for those wedded to tradition. Oh well, even they can enjoy their left hand.