I just found out my boyfriend has a medical fetish and I don't know what to do about it. I discovered it by accident on his computer. He doesn't know that I know and I imagine it must be very difficult for him to share something like this with me. I already tried talking to him about it several times (before I knew the truth) and he said he wasn't into anything. We talked about general fetishes, what turns him on, I asked him if there's something he would like me to do to him, we visited an online shop and looked for toys and he wasn't interested in anything... basically, anything I tried didn't work and now I don't know what to do about it.
I know he visits this site and I loved reading his stories, I just wish he would share them with me in person so we can have some fun together. Maybe only strangers turn him on, I don't know. I feel hurt and sad and a little betrayed. I don't mind him reading stories and watching videos, but having an online relationship with someone is a deal breaker for me.
How do I approach this topic with him one more time to get a better response? I was thinking about buying a box of toys for him with a note: I know. Let's play😃. What do you think? Any other (verbal) suggestions?
Please share how you told your partner about your fetish. Thank you so much!!!!