How I got my wife interested in receiving enemas

So much discussion on this subject. I thought I would briefly share how I got my wife to willing take enemas from me. She knew that I was interested in taking enemas and was willing to give them but not to receive. One day she emerged from the bathroom complaining of being "stopped up". I smiled and told her that I knew a cure for that. She shrugged it off, saying, "maybe later". I let it go for about four hours and then told her to undress, go lie on the bed with a towel under her bottom. She reluctantly complied while I prepared a warm one quart enema. Choosing the smallest nozzle available, I gently inserted it and slowly let the water flow. My intention was to have her feel no discomfort at all. About half way thru the injection, I began to give her very gentle oral sex. At first she was too jumpy and tried to stop me, but I persisted. When she had the full quart in her, I only had her hold it about thirty seconds. Again, I wanted no discomfort. She went into the bathroom and I left her alone for half an hour. Then I prepared another one quart enema and called her into the bedroom. This time I used a slightly larger nozzle. Again, I gave her oral as the water flowed. This time she did not object. I didn't let her cum because an "accident" at this point would ruin the whole program. This time I had her hold it for about one minute before removing the nozzle and sending her to the bathroom. Again, she spent about thirty minutes in the bathroom. When she came out, I again called her into the bedroom to "finish the treatment". This consisted of me orally pressuring her to climax. The payoff came the next day when she emerged from the bathroom and said, "Those enemas didn't do much yesterday, but they sure did today! I feel great. I'd be willing to do that again."

My wife would never go for it, unless a doctor required it. About 10 years ago my first enema kit arrived, my wife saw the package, the customs notice was not discreet. She thought I was nuts. Oh well ...

You had her when you made her cum......my wife gets very constipated but is both terrified and disgusted by the thought of an enema.......the best I could hope for is to get her pretty drunk and then give her one, just like you said, going for the oral right away and giving her a few good orgasms.....

I confess that I like enemas. This had to be taken because many already as a young girl and even married pregnant. Now I make my own but my husband (whom I love) are unnecessary. Years ago, he asked him if he wanted to get them to me, but he always answered that they suck !!!

I Never did......well'........ although, .... one time she was severely "Plugged up" and knowing my interest in "THE BAG!!" (I would not have ventured into the relationship had there not been an "Understanding!!!!!!") Well , she said,"Please Help!!!".......AND!!......I DID!!! It was a slo process "BUTT" there were a lot more "Smiles" Later!!!...and she "Came around!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

It just takes "TIME!!"

highwater

I did give my wife one enema early on in our 30 year marriage for constipation. At that time she didn't really know I was into enemas or did not make the connection between me having enema equipment and me really being into them sexually. A few years later I told her I liked doing enemas for sexual stimulation but she seemed not really to register the message and I could see she was not interested, so I dropped the issue and pretty much became a closeted enema user.

But in recent years I have been much more upfront with my fetish and opened up about when I do my enemas-usually on a weekly basis. I have since moved my equipment from a storage area into our guest bathroom in a tub shower. I do keep the shower curtain closed but from time to time I leave it open just as a reminder of my regular enemas sessions. So what I am getting at is that possibly there is some chance she might come around and give it a try. Maybe there will be an occasion where a bout with constipation will be what does the trick. I have made several suggestions recently that if she wanted to try it, the experience would be soothing and erotic. She hasn't said yes, but at least she isn't reacting as negatively as she would have many years ago.

If and when all the stars lineup, one day it may happen.

Layla,

Very nicely (and cleverly and compassionately) done! I think it's unusual that you turned her around to liking enemas so quickly. I'm sure your method had something to do with it. Good luck and have fun with your wife as you go along. I'd love to hear more posts about future sessions with her.

All the best,

Eric

I have posted on this in the past. Fetishes are not something that you can "learn to like" either you have the fetish and understand and enjoy the pleasures the fetish gives, or you have absolutely no idea what is going on..To think that you can make someone like it is beyond the pale...There are many fetishes and I love enemas....I don't want to engage in suck and licking dirty feet ( a big fetish) nor do I want someone to tickle me with a feather...I get no arousal from being "spanked" but there are probably millions of people world wide who do....

Be content that if you have an enema fetish your not into wiping poo all over you and your sexual partner ( that is a fetish also)....The way to assure that your wife or husband is into enemas is to approach them prior to marriage and ASK..Yes just plain ASK...If you don't have the guts to do that you have no argument with them....

Remember the definition of a "FETISH" is a sexual act or object that is outside the normal that produces pleasure...Now the operative question here is "what is outside of normal" ?

Just be glad that the enema fetish is one of the least dangerous fetishes and enjoy.................

Michael2 ... direct questions and answers are not always the "real" answers. I did tell my wife, when we were dating and it got serious, that i enjoyed enemas. She said she didn't but even though she didn't understand how anyone could like enemas she was willing to give them to me. While we were dating and through the first year of marriage enemas could be had by request, anytime.

The second year of marriage to present ( November we will be married 42 years) she has given me zero enemas.

It is interesting what people do to get married.

Pretty much the same story with me FunnStrict. BEFORE we married, I told my wife-to-be of my interest and enjoyment of enemas. She really wasn't interested herself, but didn't have a problem with my personal fetish.....at least she said she didn't. After we married, I think (it's been so long now that I've more or less forgotten the quantity), she pleasured me with two or three enemas. Since then....absolutely zip, zero, nada, even though I've hinted and suggested an enema on numerous occasions over the years. She just smiles, and walks the other way. Yes, it is very frustrating, because I thought I had this base covered before we married, 31 years ago.

Hey, FunnStrict It is teally true what some pepole do to get married, and then think they have the right to change you

Sexual arousal is complex for each person. What one person gets off on can be a neutral or negative for someone else. But I do think a person can be willing to get into a fetish they have not tried or even thought about if their partner is super aroused by doing it with them. Being turned on by your partner's arousal maybe a turn on in of itself which may lead to trying new things. Of course the person may try it and just not get into the fetish. My wife was very vanilla in her approach to sex in the beginning but over time we have tried new things and if we are both aroused and into to what we are doing, the sex was very satisfying.

So I would say try to approach your partner in ways and situations they are already turned on, then see if they would like to try something new that you find super hot and sexy. At least they might try it and if the experience is positive they might want to do it again.