Masturbation in the circumcised male

When I masturbate, I usually grab the foreskin and move it back and forth. I sometimes move the fingers directly on the glans but it's a bit rough and irritating.

I'm curious - how do circumcised males do it? No contact with glans? Or contact with glans but lots of lubrication? (if so, what kind: saliva? KY jelly?) Or contact with glans and irritation?

Isn't it difficult?

(Note: this is not a society debate on circumcision, just a factual question on masturbation techniques and difficulties.)

I have no contact with the glans at all. I grip the loose skin on the shaft and move it back and forth. My glans is entirely too sensitive to touch directly. This mimics intercourse. The shaft is gripped by the introitus of the vagina. I'm always amazed that the uncircumcised think I have less sensation in the glans.

Liquidsky: In intercourse, doesn't the glans rub inside the vagina?

Yes of course. The vagina is just a lot slipperier and the main muscles which constrict it are at the entrance.

I normally use Vaseline (or actually an off brand of petroleum jelly) when I masturbate.Bill

I normally use Vaseline (or actually an off brand of petroleum jelly) when I masturbate

Ditto. Glans included in the stroke

Healthy44, wildbill: How did you do when you were teenagers? (I assume that your parents would have found it weird, or even disapprove, the consumption of Vaseline for that purpose.)

(I assume that your parents would have found it weird, or even disapprove, the consumption of Vaseline for that purpose.)

Ha ha ha ...one of the signs an alert parent should be looking out for. Also: when the olive oil is used at a rate disproportionate to the number of salads consumed ...

Agracier: As a teenager, I think I masturbated every night at bed-time. If I had been using oil or Vaseline I would have stained the bedsheets...

There is very little contact with the glans, the fleshy underside of the shaft is far more sensitive. I don't use any lubricant except during the winter if I'm having problems with dryness.

I was circumcised at birth so I have a lifetime of experience of masturbating an circumcised cock. For me I will always use some kind of lube- mostly body lotion because it is absorbed into the skin unlike Vaseline which is too oily for me. If I JO in the shower, I will just use bath soap as lube for convenience.

Now, I will always make full strokes from top to bottom of my shaft including the glands. My glands are sensitive but that is where I get the most pleasure and the quickest way to bring myself to orgasm by stroking the full shaft and glands. As I begin to cum, my glands become super sensitive and I will ease off stroking the glands and just stroke my shaft during orgasm. I have never experienced any irritation on my glands or shaft unless I have masturbated several times in one day but that doesn't happen very often- unfortunately 😃

My parents would not have noticed Vaseline being consumed because I bought my own jar of Vaseline.

Bill

I do the same

My favorite for intensity is the Hummingbird Hitachi attachment with water based lube. For manual masturbation, lengthwise stroking works for me. Sometimes I include the glans, other times just the shaft skin.

I find most soap to be too irritating so I use water based lube such as KY. There's a product called H2JO that I find best, water based but thick and doesn't dry out.

The most common technique I use is to move the loose shaft skin up and down. Only a small amount of skin can be stretched up to the corona of the head but the stimulation on the shaft is still great. Sometimes I use exam gloves and a very slick sexual lubricant like Astro Lube and stroke across the entire shaft and head. Rarely, I use a product called the Tenga Egg which is a ribbed cuff that has its own lubricant. It is meant to be used to massage the head and shaft and feels really great. The Egg is particularly good for someone else to use on you.

I massage the crown area with my index and thumb. Sometimes i tap on the head quickly.. its a good way to discharge precum. Circumcision increases sensitivity in the glans.

Healthy44, wildbill: How did you do when you were teenagers? (I assume that your parents would have found it weird, or even disapprove, the consumption of Vaseline for that purpose.)

I use Vaseline now, but i didn't when i was a teen in my parents house. In my teens, i wrapped myself tight in a sleeping bag & rubbed against the sleeping bag's upper lining. When i used a lubricant, it was typically from a bottle of moisturizer lying around in the house. Back then, it only took one handful of that to jack off & cum. So my consumption was not noticeable.

Nowadays i use petroleum jelly, as it lasts longer. One handful of moisturizer is no longer enough.

I don't touch the glans at all and I don't use lube.

I'll tell you what my husband does [and what he wants me to do when I masturbate him] because he has no shame or inhibitions about masturbating:

My husband strokes with lube from the tip of the glans to the very base of his penis--he likes very long rhythmic strokes--not short vibrating ones.

Yes, Doc is the same as your husband Susie.

Mashie

I'm circumcised, but my problem with masturbating the head is that it is too easy to cum too quickly... I prefer to use the tips of 3 fingers to stroke the portion of the underside of my penis that is close to my body (just an inch or two from the sac) and follow the shaft down into the scrotum. As I get more excited, I will use the palm of my hand instead. I can (literally) create an extended state of sexual euphoria that lasts for hours -- becoming so excited that I dribble pre-cum all over the place -- without actually achieving an orgasm.

I like this because if my wife is suddenly available, I'm not "out of gas" and can still orgasm with her.

HumblePatient: I understand. My wife also dislikes it if I'm unavailable due to masturbation.

I'll jump in from the 'elder' point of view as I turn 69 this month. I find stroking the shaft up and over the glans to be the best stimulation technique for me. Usually, I do not have to use any lube if I haven't masturbated for a few days. If I was to do it daily, I'd likely use some KY/Astroglide to assist in "getting there" and feeling that orgasm building in my groin.

Being circumcised, my glans can take casual stimulation without undo results. I like to masturbate at least every other day just to keep the equipment stimulated and flushed. Your results may vary...

Watertrain: Do you think you would get irritated if you were doing it every day without lubrication?

Pecan: I don't think daily would irritate it much given enough time between sessions. Doing it too LONG in one session will start to chafe after awhile, so I would then get some lube to aid the process along.

Watertrain: Ok. Asking that because, when my cousin who was circumcised for phimosis at about 7 was a young adult, at some point we talked sex and he mentioned that masturbation could lead him to irritations of the exposed area behind the glans. The problem seemed less acute for intercourse, because of better lubrication.

Typically dont use any lube. I grab the mid shaft with my thumb and first two fingers, and rhythmically move the skin up and down. Most of the time, not contact with the head. Sometimes, to mix it up I will use lube. In that case. I wrap my whole palm around my entire dick and stroke including the head. That feels great. When I am getting handjobs, it has to be with lube. Others cant tell how loose the skin is and it ends up hurting.

I masturbate or get a hand job at least once a day, and never have a problem. My wife likes to lube me with baby oil, and then give me long slow strokes, letting the glans pass through her hand and let her hand go right down to the base of my cock. Also, she will run her fingers around the underside of the ring of the glans, and drive me ecstatic.When she is sucking me off she spends most time licking the glans..

I'm circumcised, but I probably have more loose skin than most who are. My go-to techniques are as follows:

1. Slide the foreskin background and forth over the head, much like an uncircumcised male would. It just doesn't go as far up.

2. Thumb and forefinger in a circle around the glans, remaining fingers down the underside of the shaft, and push my cock through, simulating sex. The thumb rubbing over the ridge feels incredible.

3. My favorite technique, which I used almost exclusively as a teenager and about 70% of the time now: Thumb, index finger, and middle finger around the glans, like I'm plucking a piece of fruit. Thumb positioned just under the ridge, fingers on the back side, on either side of the frenulum but down the shaft. Glans nestled against the palm. Then, with a little pressure, twist back and forth like you're screwing and unscrewing a light bulb. The rubbing on the frenulum is amazing, and the thumb is perfectly positioned at the ridge on the front. I can come like this very quickly (under two minutes if I'm already hard). A side benefit is that the palm blocks the load, so this can be accomplished under the covers while keeping the mess off the sheet, which was of course a very valuable thing as a teenager.

I will sometimes use any lube available for the first two techniques. None needed for the third.

Basically, I had nearly always done it in the past with the "milking" method (i.e., pumping the top of the shaft and the glans). I used lube relatively seldom.

After the last hospitalization, though, and the resulting ED and current rebuilding of my sexual life, I have had to focus on other areas of my package. I found I've lost a good deal of immediate sensitivity in my glans.

I've found that very lightly stroking the scrotum (and very slowly), I find that I can give myself a nice "chubby" when I eventually get good and aroused. I'll take my hand away and do what a partner would've done, like moving up to my nipples or my hips and torso and, after a few seconds, go back down to the meatus, just barely touching it. Then, continuing back and forth between these areas, and then focus again on my scrotum and finally going to the base of the shaft. By this time, my glans has gotten good and hot, and I finally do some pulling on that. Being always short of a total erection, I find I have more loose shaft skin to help stimulate the head.

It may or may not lead to orgasm, depending on whether or not I feel up to it physically, but I've accepted it as a part of my aging process, and I've always at least given myself some fun.