How do I tell close friends?

How do I tell my closest friends about it?

Well i would suggest you just tell your freind the truth say you like them if he is a good freind he wont judge you for it he make fun of you for a little but other then that he will accept it. my best freind knows about my diaper fetish and hes totaly cool with it he could care less.

Sounds like good advice, but i cant really give any advice on this one. the only friend i have doesnt know that i just like diapers. i have told him i wet the bed i have also told my mother this and both believe me, my friend however does know that i like wearing them during the day, and for the most part doesnt have a problem with me wearing them. there are time he would prefer i not like when any of his family are coming over, but if they show up and i am wearing one i just stay in my seat, but if we are going to his families places he would prefer i not wear, however if we are going and plan on spending the night he knows i will be wearing.

My best friend was lookin up stuff on my comp one night and discovered a library of pictures i had, he asked me about it and i totally freaked because we were best friends, we are still best friends he teases me sometimes i think just because he knows it bothers me but he has the (i could care less attitude too). overall i think we ab/dl make a huge deal out of this fetish. people have actually (at least in my experience) not really cared that much.

I wouldn't just spring it on him. Perhaps if the conversation steered that way, it would be easier to slip it into the subject matter.

I told my two best friends and both were great about. They asked questions, but I was open and answered them. I am so close to them that I knew I could trust them

I have a bunch of new friends into it thanks to all the websites. However none of my older friends are aware. I'm sure they will find out eventually. Its just a matter of timing.

I wish i knew how my friends would react if i told them

I did tell a friend of mine, but he feels that if it isn't hurting anyone, why should he care. If you friend is like that, you know, open-minded to people doing what they want, then there shouldn't be a problem

I've attempted to tell my best friend about my diaper fetisch, but backed out at the last moment. I wanted him to know, so he would know it about me, and perhaps help me in purchasing them. Now, when I told him, I was very uncomfortable and nervous, not to mention uneasy.

He asked me this question: Do I need to know?

I was stumped. Does my best friend truly need to know?

Neither of us is gay, and he has a girlfriend, now for almost a year now.

Something you need to know is that we've been friends for over ten years already. Normally we can tell each other everything and just shrug it off, but for some reason I can't identify, I'm afraid to tell him, and lose his friendship.

Now, for those of you that will tell me, if he doesn't accept it, he isn't a true friend; Don't.

I am truly confused to what I should do. Do I risk my friendship with him, considering I don't have that many friends. In fact, considering he is the only true friend I have, well not counting his girlfriend, but she doesn't count yet.

If I ask myself, what are the advantages in him knowing:

I'm coming up blank. Nothing comes to mind at all.

Thoughts?

I would say this King. Why does he need to be made to know? Is there a reason you need to bring it to his attention at this point and time. Just let it be what it is, you enjoy your diapers, so enjoy them. You enjoy him as a friend, so enjoy that. Now if your friend should somehow witness your diaper wearing or find out somehow, and I'm not talking about letting him see on purpose. You can talk it all out with him at that point and time.

But, if you really want him to know. I would just bring it up slowly and at the right time. Like when your both in a goofy mood, you might ask him, "every wonder what it would be like to wear a diaper"? Then see what he says and go from there. But, I would wait for a time when your both in a lighthearted mood.

I agree with kuvs king. no reaon for him to know about your fetish. as far him helping you get them .... why dont you get them yourself??? your a big boy and dont need him to hold your hand like a baby!!! so keep quite and wear em when not around him. this wya you get your kicks in a diaper and still havea good friend when not being a diaper boy.

Well, problem is that I don't have a car, or another motorized vehicle. I am unable to go with my bike since I've been operated last november. I am still recovering from that. Ofcourse, a car comes in handy always :p

But you are right of course. He doesn't need to know, and we both agreed to let the subject be.

Well, you do have a situation there King. I would suggest ordering on line and have them delivered to your home, if possible? If not, and you just have to have them, ask for a ride to the store, bring a bag you know won't show through with you, so you can put the diapers in it and not have anyone know. You can ask for the ride to the store and say you need, you name it! Whatever, make something up. Or, you could just make your own diapers at home by using an old towel and a plastic bag. That's what I did many years ago, before I could get my own diapers.

I don't know,maybe it's just me,but I've had male friends over the years(not gay!!!)and I eventually ended up teling them that I was an AB(didn't know what that was at the time) because I figured that they would find out sooner or later and thought it would be better if I told them than if they found out some other way. Anyway they were cool with it as long as I didn't talk about it very much.

You may want to let your diaper show and see if he picks up on it. Like others said, it is hard ti give advice without knowing your full relationship with him.

I have been wanting to tell one of my friends for the longest time but just havent found the right time to do it. i think he would want to try it because it seems like anything i like, he likes.

I kinda through it out there to a friend of mine

My best friend knows as well as his s.o. They both are fine and understanding about it and since I have diaper restrictions at home they have no problem with me wearing them when I am at their house hanging out.

Also, what do you plan to grain from telling him. If it's just knowledge of him knowing then I wouldn't tell. Most of my closest vanilla friends don't know because honestly I don't see a need in them knowing. I am happy with wearing diapers around other people, I keep them covered so people don't know. I just don't think it's important. Although they would probably accept me, they are not going to want to be parents most likely so whats the point.