Enemas for Attitude adjustment

You have to remember that we are not a statistically accurate sampling of any population. We're all here because we share interests and pleasures that "normal" people find gross and disgusting!

I'm with you 100% Do anything you want, without judgement. Of all the things the Zity community is and isn't, I don't believe we were constipated more as kids than the general public.

When I was in elementary school, I got constipated not infrequently. This largely stopped once I went to middle school. Difficult to ascertain why, I suspect it is that the school toilets were squat toilets and I avoided pooping there, leading me to withholding. However this was by far not comparable to anything that some people describe here.

My own children sometimes get constipated, but again nothing compared to the frequent and severe constipation described here.

I think for many young kids, me included, a reason for constipation was not so much what we ate, but the result of holding back. I know from personal experience that there were times when I was outside playing and there was no nearby toilet, or I was too busy to take the time out from playing when the urge came. Eventually the urge goes away, and the next day the poop is rock hard and maybe you hold it again because you think it will hurt coming out. And now mom correctly diagnoses the problem and a small enema with warm water takes care of the problem. This was not a regular occurrence, but maybe a couple of times over the summer. Eventually you learn, but when you are 6 years old the cause and effect does not register yet.

My Mom never gave me an enema for punishment or bad attitude. She could tell if I wasn't my usual self and would ask about bowel movements. If I hadn't gone lately she would always give me an enema, lovingly administered, and I would feel better. As I became a certified klismo of course I would often feign a stomach ache just to get an enema. I don't know if she ever figured this out. Knowing her I imagine she did but never let on if she did so. I always got the enema too. Bless her heart! Jim.

I'd never heard of an enema until my boyfriend brought up he enjoyed them. (Actually he said he liked having thing put up his ass the first time he mentioned it.) He never received enemas for any constipation and neither did I. I just let nature takes it's course, which meant I had a bowel movement eventually.

I had constipation issues when I was pregnant (both times). Then enemas were used to keep me cleaned out (my sub had his wish of pushing a hose up my ass, but it wasn't near as pleasurable as he would have enjoyed). I did not enjoy them nor find any sexual turn on. Just went with them to keep me less poopy and clogged.

So no attitude adjustment in either mine or my sub's house.

Like RedBulb99, my constipation was from holding back when I needed to go. I would be playing and not want to take time to go to the bathroom so I would hold it in. After doing this for a while I couldn't go when I tried. When my mom would become aware of my constipation her remedy would be to take me into the bathroom and use the syringe on me to make my bowels move. Her bulb syringe and Ivory soap always brought the desired results, despite my protests. She would warn me that I needed to go when I had to if I wanted to avoid another syringing, but I would ignore her warnings and soon find myself on the bathroom floor, with her using the syringe on me again.

I had the holding back habit too, started early childhood. I recall that it was upsetting to many adults, I had been warned that it could mess up my ability to go to the bathroom, make me very sick, etc. Not sure what or if any long term effects do become possible or even probable from having that habit during childhood (Suzy?). I remember thinking that I had to be about the only kid who did that, and wasn't really sure why I did. I considered it a very embarrassing "secret," one I was always mortified about when brought up.

I have since learned of course that while the "holding back" habit isn't that widespread, it isn't all that uncommon either. Aside from "holding back," I think that constipation problems are not too age specific except that young adults probably get constipated less often (due to the "equipment" in most cases still works pretty well, and that most of the fear of passing a large stool has been replaced with the logic to try to take care of it with determination at least before resorting to a laxative of any sort lol).

I do not have a hard time believing that so many members here grew up with constipation problems. I also believe though that routine constipation in children should be handled through oral methods first and that an enema should only be a last resort.

I agree with Edwards. But I think that today the use of enemas has waned and I don't believe it's a good idea to condition your kids to enemas

Edwass:

I also believe though that routine constipation in children should be handled through oral methods first and that an enema should only be a last resort.

People say that because they're still trying to avoid the unpalatable truth that enemas are safer (in potential-side-effect / risk-management terms), more effective and faster-acting,..and that the latter is an important issue. (Why am I saying that? A few clues are to be found at the bedwettingandaccidents.com site and a certain video at "name of site/watch?v=hczbp0-v4kI&nbsp&quot 😉

SwitchableSusie:

...A Zity FANTASY thing!

After all this time and all this research, you're in denial? Oh the despair...

With the family, the enemas I have always received have been due to constipation or embarrassment. Another thing they have been during games with enemas, in some occasion if I have been punishment, forcing to retain the enema, for not having been a good boy.

This is interesting. As a child I frequently resisted going to the toilet to defecate and would hold back the event. I held back often by sitting in a crouch position, kind of sitting on one heel, I found the sensations were pleasant which of course encouraged more of this behaviour.

Our daughter never got an enema for punishment but it often became clear by her attitude and behavior that she "was due". she would be a little devil but after an enema she would literally singing and dancing. worked every time.

Not from someone else, but I would love to get an attitude adjustment enema now from someone.

Wouldn't give to anyone other than a consensual partner, either.

I like enemas for pretty much any reason 😉

I received an enema once around age of 4 for being cranky. Mom assumed I was constipated. On my bed on my stomach I went for the hated bag enema. Boy did I detest getting enemas when young. When I do them now the old recall comes to mind.

To use them as described by the poster is an improper use that can't be justified I'm not going to say it would have been considered abuse 30-40-50 year ago but today it would be. You just need to be more sophisticated as to WHY your children are doing what they're doing

It is like back in the 1960 when kids were given tranquilizers for misbehavior.

LisaK: Mmmh. These days don't they still give drugs for "hyperactive" kids, except that they call that ADD?

I believe enemas have a use for attitude adjustment for "kids" of all ages.

First, as a child, if mom or grandma noticed I was cranky and did not want to play with my sister or friends it was often attributed to constipation. A nice warm enema and the world was usually back to normal.

As a young mother with two kids of my own, when I had a little time to myself, the enema bag was the friend I needed for a little "me time". Sometimes I enlisted the help of my husband in the evening when the kids were in bed for some multiple modes of real attitude adjustment.

Even now as a mature woman, a good enema just makes my aches and pains less noticeable and the day a bit sunnier going forward. Is that not attitude adjustment?

Agree Cheryl77177. Many here understand the benefits of nice relaxing enema session are so much more than just bowel cleansing.

Cheryl: This is probably nosy, but can I inquire about the various methods of attitude adjustment you use with your husband?

This is more uncommon now that we have children, but the "Full Monty" for attitude adjustment in our couple is: first, rectal temperature across the spouse's lap while the issues are discussed; then a spanking, with a hairbrush if needed; then an enema in the bathroom, with the red bottom clearly exposed; then expelling in front of the spouse; then having one's bottom washed. Sometimes there is some more spanking after.

I was told recently by an older sibling that our mom was influenced by an older friend as to how to bring up children in a no-nonsense way that included the prospect of a weekly enema to ensure a child's cooperation. This did not occur by the time I came along, though there were a ew times when the enameled enema can was suggested as a remedy for crankiness attributed to constipation.

I must agree with @Cheryl77177 in that there are days when the enema bag is my dearest friend! When it seems the world is piling on and I just simply want to scream, I love to retreat to my nest of warm towels in my bathroom and indulge my senses in a nice enema session. All the crazy deadlines, "fake news" and the ordinary stress makers in life, simply melt away.

How sweet it is!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

...the "Full Monty" for attitude adjustment in our couple is: first, rectal temperature across the spouse's lap while the issues are discussed; then a spanking, with a hairbrush if needed; then an enema in the bathroom, with the red bottom clearly exposed; then expelling in front of the spouse; then having one's bottom washed.

Sounds like it could be effective when used on me. I might need more than one enema, though.

In the fantasies it would end with makeup sex of one kind or another.

It would be a process to get wife to buy it, though. She'd definitely worry that it was hurting me...

Moliere: It often ends up with sex, typically with the culprit at the bottom.

As my wife says, "I don't see why your obnoxious behavior should deprive me of my sexual enjoyment".

As my wife says, "I don't see why your obnoxious behavior should deprive me of my sexual enjoyment".

I completely agree with your wife!

For those of you who prefer BDSM, that's OK with me. Different strokes for different folks I'm not mad at you. But if you want to kiss a rattlesnake, great. I prefer to give a nice slow enema to a purring redhead.

I’ve never had an enema for an attitude adjustment, but it’s something my wife and I have talked about incorporating in our lives. There might be a spanking included too, if necessary. The submissive side of me absolutely loves the idea of my wife declaring I need a good enema and spanking to fix my current attitude or grumpiness.

My wife has on several occasions given me attitude and discipline treatment for a wrongdoing .

It has been as described as a hairbrush spanking with rectal temperature taking while being chastised for my offense. Suppo`s and enemas are often given also.

I once was put into a matching teddy and panty for added humiliation and embarassment and given a enema with more chastising and viewed while expelling still dressed in my girly attire. Fretter

I never took from or gave to any of my exes an enema actually designed as IRL punishment or attitude adjustment. But many, many times we gave each other large, long enemas as Domme and sub, usually with me as her sub. We like a great deal of conversation and dialogue for instruction and domination to accentuate the Domme and sub feelings as much as possible. So for us, whoever is the sub gets their role and attitude strictly and repeatedly adjusted by the Domme to be very compliant, submissive, embarrassed and helpless, to accentuate and magnify the physical and emotional feelings from the enema itself. Great times.

Eric

Yes, got them on occasion for being cranky.