Rectal exam lubrication technique

In the legit medical training videos I watch, the doctor puts a glob of lube on their finger and shoves it in. This "aggressiveness" is a big turn on.

In most porn, however, it seems like the "doctor" spends plenty of time smearing the lube around on the patient. Sometimes they even lubricate a piece of equipment, like an anoscope, by running it back and forth along the patient's anus, picking up some lube. Even though this may be more "sexual," I find it to be a turn off because it's unrealistic and because it desensitizes a patient to the doctor's touch by giving them a chance to get used to it.

What sort of lubrication experiences have you had, both real and play, and how did you perceive it?

In my real exams there has always been plenty of lubrication. The doctor is gentle when inserting her finger telling me I will feel some pressure. If I was ever "jabbed" it would be the last time I saw that doctor.

I have even had 2 RIGID sigmoidoscopies and have never had separate lubing of my behind. They put plenty on the rigid scope, slid it in, pumped in some air to make the sigmoid "drop" into place, so they can insert it all the way.

No medical professional has ever lubed my backside before any kind of internal exam. I have watched about 50 colonoscopies right in the GI lab and after the patients are out, the gastro. will insert a finger to lube the inside and feel for hemorrhoids, fissures, then insert the tip of the scope.

Thanks for the replies, guys :-)

I am almost sixty, and have never had my butt lubed.

One of the strangest things I have ever seen, though, did involve a great doc,... although a little strange.

I was turned, after the genital, and before the digital. He too the lube, squeezing a strip of lube onto the paper on the table.

He then took his finger, dragging it through the lube, telling me to bend over,...

For myself anyway, it is absolutely necessary to smear the lube around on the outside before sticking my finger inside myself or someone else. It does not "desensitize" the anus to the insertion because it increases circulation to the area and awakens the hole. Similarly, I have read that when fingering a woman vaginally, only a real schmuck would stick his finger right in without first stroking the outside of her vaginal opening, at least until she becomes slippery and the lips begin to part on their own. So that is what I have done, whether inserting my finger anally or into a woman's vagina. As far as I am concerned, it is more "realistic" to warm up first in this manner than to expect a positive effect from poking or jabbing right through.

I have had two rectal exams from my general practitioner. On both occasions, he was very rough and literally "jabbed" his finger into my rectum. Both times, it was very unpleasant and the second time, resulted in bleeding. This bleeding was the basis for a colonoscopy, not to mention my age. The gastroenterolgoist insisted on a full exam to include a rectal exam as part of the colonoscopy workup. At that time, I told him my general practitioner had caused a lot of pain when he did the rectal, he stated that he would be gentle/careful. He was and there was no occult blood this time. The colonoscopy was administered some days later with no issues or findings. I will return to my general practitioner because I do like him. Should it be necessary for him to perform a rectal, I will caution him before hand and remind him that his gentleness will ensure my repeat business.

Maybe the solution to doctors being rough about jamming their finger into a person's rectum is to warm up first at home with some dildos/butt plugs before one leaves to go to the appointment. Then the finger will just slip right in.

In a play exam, when I get to the rectal exam I lubricate the pad of my (gloved) index finger, then press the pad onto the anus, rotating the tip of my finger downward to relax and open the anal sphincter. This seems to cause less discomfort than just poking the tip of your finger straight into the anus.

My doctor is very gentle in this process. She puts on the glove and puts a dab of lubricant on the tip of her middle finger, which she very slowly works into my rectum, going straight in, and then when she has inserted her finger as far as it will go, she bends it to reach the prostate.

Having been present in the room while my wife's gyn performed a rectovagjnal exam on her, I can say that it's not a long drawn-out lube process like some of the fake movies portray it. That said I noticed the doctor had a very sizeable glob of lube on his middle finger before he began. He rested his finger against her anal opening just for a second while asking her to "bear down". At that moment most of the glob of lube transfers and there's little need to "smear it around" as is shown in some movies.

Depending on the type of procedure if you do not use equipment or appliance it will just lubricate the finger will be used and if using any device or equioamento it will lubricate the same

My previous doctor always done a DRE even for a follow up just to get meds adjusted. He would put a glob of lube on his finger and then slide it in. Took all of 10 seconds he was an older doc so I guess he knew what he was feeling. Can't say about my new doc she has never done one.

My female doctor uses a lot of lube for my rectal exam.I always have a lot of excess to wipe off after she finishes.

My female doctor uses a lot of lube for my rectal exam.I always have a lot of excess to wipe off after she finishes.

When I have a physical which includes a rectal exam, I pretend to wipe off all the lubricant but leave most of it there and then go home and masturbate with the lube still there to remind me of the experience.

Witnessed my wife's internal exam and the Dr put a little bit of lube on finger and inserted it. When he did rectal-vaginal he simply said "bear down" and that was it. Whole thing took less then 2 minutes.

I could be wrong here but isnt more lube better than not enough? Anazon has 55 gallon drum of lube for sale. Imagine going into the exam room and seeing this next to the table http://www.amazon.com/Passion-Natural-Water-Based-Lubricant-Gallon/dp/B005MR3IVO

Wow, I can't believe that's a real product! The reviews on it are rather entertaining as well.

I know that the 55 gallon drum is silly, but in real life, individual packets are best to avoid contagion from one person to another. If it's your drum, fine. Don't share.

I'm betting no one has ever ordered it. Unless it was a frat hosting some sort of ky jelly wrestling event. https://youtu.be/679dhCG7-Jo rectal exams would be super easy on these ladies after this.

The doctors who have performed DREs on me have always lubricated one finger of an exam glove before inserting it into my anus. I've seen my doctors use two different methods to lubricate the glove. One doctor puts a couple of gauze pads on the exam table, squeezes a packet of lube onto to gauze and then dabs his finger into the lubricant. The other doctor I have seen takes a packet of lubricant and squeezes it directly onto the gloved finger. Obviously, you can imagine my excitement at watching either technique.

My doc lube and stick not very nice and sore

I think all the doctors that ie had have put the lube directly on their gloved finger.

Personal experience: I never look.

In my clinical career I have done tens of thousands of rectal exams. Always put a fair amount of KY on my index finger, used my other fingers to smear it around the rest of my finger and added one more small dollop before insertion. The "trick" for me was always to increase firm pressure with the pad of my finger while asking the patient to bear down. I never got a complaint tho maybe some didn't enjoy it so much. Maybe some did. Who knows?

Simple in and out in medical context. Male or female doc doesn't mattter to me. It's not interesting, just business.

A play environment is entirely different, of course, hehe.

I have no idea what they do for me. I look at the wall. It does nothing for me. When I do DREs I put a lot on my right index finger and go for it. That does nothing for me either unless I find pathology. The few times when I've found an obstructing CA I wake up very quickly.

Went with wife to GP when she was having stomach cramps. Had her lay face up flat on table. Had her loosen her pants for palpating. Finding nothing he said, “ let’s go a little lower”.

Had her remove her bottoms, put her knees up and feet flat on table. Asked her to relax her knees outward and inserted 2 fingers into her vagina and pressed with other hand on her stomach. Again, no pain.

She started to sit up, he “wait, we will do a quick rectal exam”. My pleasure to watch! Had her roll on her side, right leg drawn up added more lube to finger, and I watched his finger disappear into her rectum. She moaned slightly as he probed. Slowly withdrew finger. Nothing found.

I admit, I was getting an erection. Quite an unexpected show.

The best technique for comfortable rectal lubrication involves lubricating the exam finger, placing a dollop of lubricant on the anus and slowly rotating the finger as it is inserted. Once that has been accomplished, additional lube can be injected with a syringe for deep or prolonged play and the exam or deep insertions may then proceed.

This technique should also be used when inserting rectal nozzles and rectal speculums for exams and colonic irrigation. Simply inserting a lubricated colonic irrigation speculum into a dry anus is not comfortable.

While a I will start with a glob on the finger, the lube shooter helps for deeper lubrication:

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