Can any of you wear a diaper in public without being scared?

When I wear in public or around my friends and family I wear them just like regular underwear or normal shorts. I don't wear special clothes, I don't wear baggy pants and I don't wear shorts/boxers over my diapers. I wear them just like I would underwear. I have always felt that as long as they cant see my diaper I have nothing to worry about. I don't care if they see bulge or and out line of a diaper. If they cant actually see the diaper they have no proof I am even wearing a diaper. Being scared and paranoid of wearing in public or getting caught just ruins your life. I know there are people on this board who do get scared and paranoid or wearing in public or changing in a public rest room and I just hope they eventfully get over the fear because life will be so much better.

I no longer worry nor care who sees that I wear nappies. I am incontinent and have to wear them. I do enjoy them as well but that's for me to know. Most of my friends and family know I wear a nappy all the time and they are fine with it. If anyone was at all observant I'm sure they can tell but so what.

I wouldn't say scared, but cautious..if i go outside in my diapers, i usually look around first to see if anyone is going to see me.

Wearing a diaper in public, under your normal clothes, should not even be an issue. Who knows what anyone else has on under their pants, and more to the point, who cares what anyone might think? Your underwear is YOUR business, no one else's. Diapers without pants is another story... Again, what someone is wearing should always be a matter of personal choice, but it is not always that simple. People are often Too complicated....

Being an incontinent male , all my life , I have no fear about wearing my diapers in public . All the people who matter in my life , know totally about my situation.The rest of the general population does NOT matter, and I could care less what they think , say or do !!

No problem at all with wearing and wetting in public

I've been wearing in public for years. I'm not incontinent at all so it would be hard to explain if I were outed. I don't even think about it any more. I just enjoy the warm and fuzzy feeling of going about my business the way I like to dress. If I have an "accident" I get a tiny bit self conscious but that get gives me a little naughty thrill.(heehee)....

The only time I was scared was when I was out diapered and broke my leg and ended up in the hospital ....talk about a stressful moment..... If it were to happen again I would try to chill out, stay diapered up and see what happens. I'd claim a "little problem" with not being able to hold it.

As a teen I was very paranoid over wearing in public. I'd put on my diapers, then jeans over my diapers, then wear a low hanging coat and I was absolutely positive that everyone within a mile could tell that I was wearing diapers.

But over the years I've gotten to the point where I no longer worry and no longer care. In fact, sometimes I make them pretty obvious to anyone who looks closely, and get a big rush when I know somebody else has noticed them. That smirking look of complete unbelief that you see on a woman's face when she's noticed that I'm wearing diapers? I love it.

Hi Folks

I'm English so I wear a nappy (to me a diaper suggests disposables which I have never found snug enough). I have tried nappy squares and found I needed at least three doubled sheets but the contours were never right and always far too many layers at the pins. That's how I have come to use double layer towelling nappy knickers (one or two or three pairs at once) with pvc pants over them. The pvc not only seals in moisture but odour too.

Of course my nappy is quite bulky - I am proud of it's outline clearly visible through my jeans (visible nappy outline). No one knows if I wear for pleasure or necessity but it would not be nice if I wore by necessity and offence was taken.

The taboo naughtiness combined with the tight full cut nappy always arouses me. I am a bit of a sissy so the more feminine profile the nappy gives me (fuller bottom, wider hips and curved tummy) adds to my excitement. I quite enjoy being erect in my nappy. My arousal is not at all detectable as the nappy smooths any bulges.

Why am I wearing a nappy? The answer is that I need it to contain any accident I may have. That's why I don't rely totally on nature. I usually use some glycerine suppositories (occasionally a low volume enema like Fleet) to make sure of a loss of bowel control.

I've had numerous public 'accidents' and have never been 'scared'. Sometimes I have felt self-conscious, embarrassed or even panicky, but never scared.

I would recommend public wearing and using. I find it fantastic!!

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I have worn it in public and in front of Friends and family so much that it's common.

I AM ALWAYS diapered while out in public. I am always dressed by my mommy or older sister with a diaper on. I use diapers 24/7 365 now for many years.I have just grown soooooo used to be in diapers, why should I be scared. It is just one part of MY baby needs and life style!!!

I like to wear in public and try let people see top of plastic pants/nappy exposed especially at Mcdonalds/supermarkets

Yesterday i went to a Halloween party with footed sleepers, diapers, plastic pants, bib and a pacifier

I do this every day when I am not at work. I feel comfy and no one notices or has said anything so why worry. I have even flooded my diaper while I am out with friends. Not a big deal to me at all.

It does not bother me to wear in public at all just as long as they are covered I was caught one time while in a restroom stall changing I saw a guy watching me as I changed my diaper through the crack in the door/wall of the stall

Being incontinent, I really do not have a choice and don't care what people see.

It's fun to read this thread because I've forgotten what it feels like to be in public in underwear, rather than diapers. It's been that long.

It's fun to read this thread because I've forgotten what it feels like to be in public in underwear, rather than diapers. It's been that long.

Good point, I forgot what wearing underwear was like much less in public. It's diapers 24/7 for me.

I wear them when and where I want - I am not scared, nervous, or worried someone will notice I have a diaper on. I've been wearing diapers and vinyl pants for most of my adult life for pleasure. I'm a female. A cute female too... and let me tell you - MEN love a cute gal in a diaper. It is a gaining fad now with the school kids and on college campuses. The images are on Pinterest. Mine aren't - and never will be - but there's a lot girls, and guys, who have put the photo's of themselves diapered on social media. Some of the photos are of creeps and perverts in WALMART running around in a diaper - fully exposed. All of them MEN! Gross!

I know what your driving at patti but, I have to respectfully disagree. Generally speaking most of the vids of people running around diapers in walmart have been girls but, that just me. I would say ignorance knows no gender.

I'll say this, you can wear your diapers in public, as along as your not making a scene or acting stupid. Where I live in a very liberal part of New England, it's even accepted and tolerated and in some places like in VT and Provincetown, MA, it's openly accepted.

Diaperkat, your comments on public diaper wearing mirror my own. As a DL in the years prior to becoming diaper dependent, I fantasized about public wearing, but didn't have the knowhow and was somewhat paranoid. That completely ended after my prostate surgery. Once the choice was taken from me, I was overjoyed (still am fifteen years later) and rapidly learned to deal with it. I couldn't care less about its being known, but am careful to physically hide the evidence in public. I, too, simply wear diapers as I would underwear. I dislike using public washrooms and diapers are an enormous convenience.

While not an AB, I've known several gals who are or have been and enjoyed every occasion to change and care for them short-term. ABs, however, are way too much dependent and demanding of a caregiver's time for the average person, who has a personal life of his/her own. The ideal situation for a DL is to find a like-minded partner and is more rare than one might imagine.

That's why as a Diaper Dependent, I am super comfortable in wearing diapers out in the open and in public. Even when I wear in front of people, i'm more relaxed and calm and even accepted for being me. That's why now, I could care less if someone notices me wearing diapers or sees my diapers. It's why I wear diapers because I hate bathrooms and diapers are more convenient and comfortable.

I always wear diapers overnight. Because they are so absorbent, I can sometimes get away with wearing just one for up to twenty-four hours (or until I detect a noticeable urine odor if in public). I'll usually put one on at about six in the evening for sheer comfort and enjoyment. If I go out between then and bedtime, the pleasure and convenience increases. Such occasions include going for walks, late grocery shopping, dining out, or visiting a pub to have a few drinks with friends.

This is my current favorite that are so absorbent: http://www.healthwick.ca/rearz-inspire-incontrol-super-absorbent-adult-diapers/. Since I've begun to wear these, I've also begun to wear women's shapewear briefs to handle the additional bulk when in public. It isn't likely they'd be needed to contain the extra weight of heavy peeing before bedtime, but are used as "insurance." I haven't found anything similar in men's briefs. At home, with my diapers, I'll just add a tee shirt during the day.

With my actual need to wear diapers (guards/men's pads need to be changed too often and aren't fun when they over-saturate), I could really care less who knows, but have been discreet to date when people don't know. Maybe that will change! I live in a small town where everybody knows everybody and gossip abounds. Acquaintances include the town mayor, the district mayor, town council members, newspaper publisher of the local rag, my member of parliament, past provincial premier (governor - now deceased), and so many others in the public eye, plus I was a former sergeant-at-arms for the local legion branch and led the town's parades. The older ladies of this town sure do like to tell all!

Diaperkat, I’m currently happy with the disposable brand I’ve recently discovered and switched to, but am curious to know more about the "ABU space" diaper mentioned in your post. Is there an Internet link you could provide? In Canada, I use healthwick.ca; in the U.S., the company link is healthwick.com and they have an enormous range of diaper products. A typical order for me usually arrives two days after my online order is placed and via post office delivery for a flat shipping fee of nine dollars. They often feature discounts and offer a free sample of their range of diapers (or other products) with each order placed. That feature is useful for comparing and choosing "the best" diaper. Is the ABU diaper listed with them?

I am in fact more confident in diapers that regular underpants since I don't have worry about pee soaking through and showing.

I will admit that I still feel a heightened sense of awareness when I wear during the day. Usually it is for a plane flight or something like a movie. Even though no one has mentioned I still am paranoid about revealing my diapers.

I don't wear diapers in public. I wear always at home and at night.

When I initially experimented with wearing, I was super scared.

My first journeys were done under the cover of darkness, so IF I was to bump into anyone then they wouldn't see anything but a slightly rounded butt. As I grew more confident in wearing, I then went out and about in daylight - I went shopping in a city 15+ miles from home to build my confidence further.

If I recall correctly (it's now 10+ years ago) I was unable to wet on my first forays, and when I eventually did i needed massive concentration to let go. The look on my face would have given anyone noticing a concern.

On one occasion, I went to the pub with work colleagues in a diaper; and even played a couple of games of pool (think bending over the table). No-one noticed, or they paid little attention to it for nothing was ever said.

Over time, my inhibitions have diminished. I now can go when I want to; whether it be a little sprinkle or a major wetting. If people do notice something strange in the trouser department then it's no-one else's problem but their own in my mind.

D

Yes. I wear a disposable and plastic pants. I wear my shirt out and it normally covers my waist area. I don't think anyone notices or cares. Every once in awhile my shirt comes up by accident and exposes the top of my plastic pants and diaper. I've had a few people notice this, but the minor humiliation was good for me.