Get caught or almost caught having sex when you were young?

High school kids can have the hardest time finding a place to have sex? Where did you have sex when you were in high school? Did you get caught or almost get caught while having sex? What happened? How much would you and your partner undress to have sex in high school? Fully undressed? Pants down only? Underwear only? How modest were you with your partner then?

I was a late bloomer and did not find suitable partners so it was not much of a question. Paradoxically... it's now that I'm married that we have almost have had our own children walking on us having sex.

I never got caught in high school because I usually had sex at home and I had a lock on my door. I also did it when my parents weren't home, although my older brother was often there and did it too. I also never got caught at my boyfriend's house.

In college I got caught a few times in the college dorm and when off campus on nursing rotations at satellite clinics in their sleeping quarters. Always caught by other students, not professors.

Never caught, but lots of near misses. Also left some "telling" signs. Went to pick huckleberries once on a beautiful sunny August day with my girlfriend and there was a mountain stream. We both went skinny dipping. She was very fair and got sunburned. Very difficult to explain the extent of the burn. Also I remember my mother finding a garter clip under the front seat of my parents car. I remember her saying, "its not mine". Hmmmmm

I would always bring my girlfriends home and have then sleep with me overnight in comfort. Being 'caught' was never an issue because sex was not an illicit activity. Quite the contrary, my mother tended to encourage it and always made my girlfriends most welcome as guests. There is more I could say about that, but probably it would be too much information.

I also stayed overnight at girlfriends' houses as well. Sometimes their parents were wary of me and protective at first. I think that my girlfriends sometimes described me in terms of my height, build and also the fact I had been heavily into martial arts for many years might have given parents some misconceptions about me. When they realised that in person I was actually well mannered and respectful, they became more accepting. I am still friendly with many of them even now, despite having moved on from seeing their daughters long ago.

DrZ, We always encouraged our daughters to have sex at home rather than some parking lot or lover's lane where they could get assaulted, hurt or caught by police or bystanders. They had sex many times under our roof and we have welcomed the boys to have breakfast with us in the morning which was usually a bit strange for the boy the first time. Their staying over was never a secret and the girls knew I would never interfere. I just told them to keep the moaning and screaming down to a dull roar! 😁

LOL, Suzie, my daughter was shocked to find out that dad is cooler than she thought. Her boyfriend had been welcome here, and "the dad" has wished them goodnight, as they were cuddling in the bed in the guestroom.

Her dad is the one who loves her, is proud of her.. And wrote her her prescription for birth control pills.

Still, they're discreet.. They make sure their fun never keeps us awake.

When my wife and I were dating, her parents were away for the weekend. We stayed at the house, in the same bed, had fun.. And the next morning my mother called, knowing where we were and what we were doing.. I'm guessing that comes pretty close to "getting caught"

Doc

At high school at my gf's house, her mother was away full afternoon most of the days. But at the time we didn't go for the full thing.

One time she got home much earlier, we had to recompose ourselves very fast lol

I never had sex with anyone when I was I high school so the question isn't really applicable ... sigh sigh ... I had to wait until much later ... and I'm not just talking about real coitus sex (as Sheldon en Leonard would say 😃 ), but even just some light petting or tongue kissing. Nothing of that for me until later, long after high school.

After returning from a date we started to watch TV. After cuddling abit she removed her pants and panties sat on my lap facing me. Short time later her mothers comes out of bedroom looks at us uses bathroom and goes back to bed. As for as I know nothing was said Boy what away to loose a woody

LOL, Suzie,. . . .When my wife and I were dating, her parents were away for the weekend. We stayed at the house, in the same bed, had fun.. And the next morning my mother called, knowing where we were and what we were doing.. I'm guessing that comes pretty close to "getting caught"

Doc

Actually, that reminds me. I guess you could say I was PROBABLY caught once AFTER the fact but no one ever said anything. When I was a girl, I had a single bed like most of my friends and like you, my parents went away for a few days. We slept in their bed, and since my mother has the nose of a blood hound, we washed the sheets and pillow cases and re-made the bed. I am pretty sure she could tell the sheets and pillow cases DIDN'T have the aroma of my mother and father on them. I remember from walking into their room when my father was on a business trip, my mother used to sleep holding/hugging my father's pillow. I do the same thing.

I don't have the keen nose of my mother, so I can't say the girls never had sex in our bed and washed the sheets, but unlike me when I was a girl, our daughters have full sized beds, so they really don't need our bed..

We always encouraged our daughters to have sex at home rather than some parking lot or lover's lane where they could get assaulted, hurt or caught by police or bystanders. They had sex many times under our roof and we have welcomed the boys to have breakfast with us in the morning which was usually a bit strange for the boy the first time. Their staying over was never a secret and the girls knew I would never interfere. I just told them to keep the moaning and screaming down to a dull roar! 😁

Susie, You've identified the other consideration - safety. It is the other reason why parents ought to take a reasonable attitude. To have sex at home is to do so in a safe environment, which should really be the most important thing. Also, it is far less likely there would be interruptions.

It sounds as if you gave your daughters the same kind of home environment that I was able to enjoy. My mother didn't usually refer directly to noise, but did tend to let me know with a discreet wink and a smirk that a girlfriend had been loud. 😉

When I was a teenager my mother once walked on me while I was masturbating... She looked disgusted and commented about "what it will be when you have a girlfriend". I reasoned that it would have been insane to try to have sex at home with a girlfriend.

I know that my sister got in trouble with mom about sex, I didn't get the details - whether it was when it was apparent she was no longer a virgin or she wanted to get on oral contraceptives.

I know that my sister got in trouble with mom about sex, I didn't get the details - whether it was when it was apparent she was no longer a virgin or she wanted to get on oral contraceptives.

That's the kind of parental attitude that forces young people to have sex in unsafe environments. Parents can have a "there will be none of that here" attitude all they like, but young people will have sex anyway elsewhere and forces them to be exposed to extra risks. Parental resistance to sex at home is futile and downright stupid.

DrZ, I fully agree but I cannot change my mom's ideas.

DrZ, I fully agree but I cannot change my mom's ideas.

I know. These ideas tend to be deeply entrenched.

Https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gOBztdCAGrU

Only had sex in a car three or four times during those years. Not easy to do because I worried about someone driving up on us or the police coming by or whatever. Not really the place where boys and girls want to be totally undressed so jeans and underpants came down for me and her but shirts stayed on. Quickly learned that the pants and underwear had to come all the way off to make it work. Front seat once and back seat after that. Saw car lights approaching which is enough to kill the mood and the erection completely. Didn't get caught but left my underwear at the scene more than once.

I don't recall ever having sex in a car.

I jerked off a number of boys in the car and I got eaten in the car, but never had sex in a car.

There are far too many clothes to come off and on to do that.

Susie: "eaten" - isn't already complicated clothing wise? except if wearing some skirt or gown and no panties under?

Susie: "eaten" - isn't already complicated clothing wise? except if wearing some skirt or gown and no panties under?

Don't you think you answered your own question?

Susie, you naughty girl... so you were going commando...

(My wife still recalls fondly a time when I fucked her skirt lifted bent over some hay. We wanted to be quick in case somebody walked in. She said it felt like being some peasant girl of old.)

If we could spend the night together or if we going to be alone in the house for an extended period , we could both get naked for sex. Often we just had to settle for pulling our pants and underwear down. Summer time was best because we could take off our shirts and wear only shorts. I am pretty sure my mother knew what we were doing on a few nights but she never said anything at the time. Later after I was out to her she told me she suspected I was having sex sometimes.

The video below looks like an exaggerated version of a boy getting caught getting out of his girlfriend's bed by the girl's father and then getting chased through the streets in his underwear. It is not explicit unless you consider a guy in his underpants something. Two strange things, though. He gets out of bed at the beginning in his underpants after having sex with her (which is not shown). Who puts their underwear back on after sex and stays in bed? The other is that the friend whose house he runs to after getting away from the dad gives him nothing to wear to go back to the girl's house to get his clothes. Not even a part of pants? This video is supposedly based on a true story. I have heard of guys who barely got out of the girl's house when a parent came home early from work but they grabbed their clothes on the way out or hid out in the house until they could get away. One guy I know was really worried because he only grabbed most of his clothes on the way out and left his underwear behind. His girlfriend had tossed his underpants for fun from the bed to her dresser. They were still there when her mom looked in on her pretending to be asleep and saw them lying there. Lots of questions about who the boy was but she never told on him. He got away. She got grounded. But they kept having sex after that.

Two strange things, though. He gets out of bed at the beginning in his underpants after having sex with her (which is not shown). Who puts their underwear back on after sex and stays in bed?

Everyone in Hollywood does it that way apparently. At least to judge by the movies they make ... ha ha ha

Personally I would find it more believable if the undershirts remained on.

I am young and I never Got Caught hehehehe 😜

* Wink *

~Cookie

I don't think I've ever gotten caught...

Girlfriend and I at night, by the lake, on back seat of my car by a group of young campers from a nearby sports and rec. centre. They were looking through the windows. Several times (not sure how many), same girl, in the front seat of my car, in the new housing sub-division opposite her parents home by some of our friends who lived near her house.

In a swimming pool, in our yard then we moved to the changing rooms. And once on a pool table.

So, one time when my (then) girlfriend and I were teenagers we were caught by the police in my car while I was in the process of lapping away at her soaking-wet vagina!

We had pulled off into, what we thought, was a secluded area off a country road, and were in the throes of enjoying each other's body. This was before our sexual activities had evolved to intercourse, and we were enjoying mutual masturbation and oral sex. She had her panties and jeans removed. Our windows had steamed-up, and I was on the floor of the car, with my face buried between her legs.

The next thing we hear is a knock on the window. We look up to see a police officer standing next to our car! Fortunately, he could see that we were just teenagers, and merely requested that we pull further off the road!! He quickly left, and resumed our activities. My girlfriend rewarded me with a face soaking of her pee when she lost control of her bladder while experiencing an explosive orgasm.

That face-soaking was the beginning of my fetish for golden showers!