Male sensations from fisting or other anal penetration

In so many sex stories, we read about the male character getting an immediate erection from any kind of anal penetration; dildo, finger, enema, fist, whatever. I'm just wondering if that's artistic license on the part of the writer, or if it's really common. Personally, it only very rarely affects me that way. Generally, any kind of anal penetration is very pleasurable for me and is definitely a sexual sensation, but usually doesn't result in an erection. However, if I have or achieve an erection while being anally penetrated, the erection is enhanced and an orgasm is enhanced exponentially. How about the rest of y'all?

Ladies, we'll be glad to have you comment too, because I'm sure that female responses to anal stimulation vary as well.

I can tell you what happens to my husband.

He is usually aroused, but does not always have or get an erection until I start playing with his penis.

Being fisted while being masturbated or getting a blow job and having an orgasm ranks at the top of his list.

I'll second Susie's husbands experience. The feelings from simultaneous penile and anal/prostate manipulation can only be beat if you add nipple play at the same time.

When engaging in solo anal play it is incredibly rare for me to attain an erection. Indeed, a pre-existing boner is almost always killed off by the introduction of a toy in to my backside leaving me to enjoy the sensations that the anal stimulation brings about. Leaking pre-cum or expressing cum via prostate stimulation, through a flaccid penis is a wonderful feeling.

If, however, my wife goes to town on my rear end then I'm as hard as a rock. I have, therefore, to conclude that she's causing the physical arousal.

I love anal play, either alone or with some help. My erection is good while being rimmed or a finger. When toys, multiple fingers, fisting, etc. start, the erection goes to half erect or less, but the feeling from being filled and stretched are wonderful. After playing for a while, with help from the magic wand or my girl's mouth, I get semi hard and have extraordinary good orgasms. The same goes for sounding and stim sessions. Another odd thing, the volume of cum is usually double of that from regular sex or masturbation. I always wondered about this as I start out with a really hard dick.

I get an erection when I think about inserting a toy into myself, and then the erection usually goes away when I put the toy in. But then the anal pleasure exceeds the pleasure of the erection, so it's worth it. After all, it was the anticipation of the anal insertion that had aroused me in the first place.

However, if I leave the toy inside my butt when I fall asleep, I wake up a few hours later and get an erection that feels much better than usual erections.

I usually get strong erections under normal circumstances, and it is hard to imagine that those erections could be enhanced. But something about the erection experienced with an anal toy just makes even a maximum strength erection feel so much better. Perhaps that is because the toy adds stimulation to the internal part of the penis. A certain portion of the penis, something like one third of it, is inside the pelvic floor. This is called the corpus cavernosum penis. So it's possible that a great deal of the stimulation experienced from anal insertions is also penis stimulation, but just from a different direction and affects a different part of the penis. Similarly, women have a corpus cavernosum clitoris, an internal section of the clitoris that is many times larger than the tip that you can see on the outside, which is the glans clitoris. And it is also common for women to experience stimulation of the internal part of the clitoris from anal insertions.

So, anal insertions can offer more than just anal sensations. Both the penis and the clitoris can be accessed in a pleasurable way from anal insertions.

In light of this information, anal play does not exclude the genitals, it accesses the genitals in a more intimate way because the stimulation is from the inside rather than the outside. I suppose that is bad news for anyone who enjoys the idea of the kinkiness of anal play as a form of denying the genitals, whether it be the penis or clitoris.

Often my wife will be sore from long sex session. If she is not quite up to being pounded she will have me get into the knee chest position. She will stimulate my prostate with a small vibrator inserted with lube. It is only a few minutes before I dump a big load under me. She then will have me clean up the mess licking all the drops from a towel that was placed under me. I don't think I would like a fist. A small vibrator does a great job and I unload about a tablespoon each time!

I will usually start out hard with some stoking to my penis- just to warm me up. When I insert my prostate vibrator there will be a noticeable dip in my erection but a huge increase in the anal / prostate stimulation. Slowly I work on my penis by stroking it and it gets hard again. Now I have both anal stimulation and penis stimulation going at the same time which results in a huge orgasm. When I have an orgasm combining prostate and penis stimulation it takes it to a much higher level which I feel more deeply throughout my entire pelvic region. Sometimes my hard-on doesn't fully return after I insert the prostate vibrator, but that really doesn't matter- the orgasm is still very powerful even if I am simi-hard.

As to many other seasoned anal lovers, anal penetration makes my hardon go from hard to semi hard or even soft completely. If stimulated cock will get erected again, however I do this less and less as I find anal stimulation so much more pleasurable and intense than cock stimulation. Many times I prefer to do my butt and don't even touch my dick, nevertheless I'm completely satisfied at the end of the romp, even if I don't orgasm. Cock stimulation has never brought me to the verge of passing out, while butt stuffing almost always does.

I find the combination of anal and penile stimulation to be the best of both worlds. The presence or absence of an erection is inconsequential to having spectacular orgasms. I often indulge in rectal stimulation for an extended period and then complete the pleasure with penile stimulation while something is occupying my rectal recesses.

I've been a lover of anal insertion/play ever since I can remember. As a younger fella just thinking about touching or fingering my wife's or my own ass say in the shower or in bed got me instantly hard or harder. As age and ED have crept "up" on me, I find I now NEED anal penetration to achieve even a half-hearted hardon. Getting fisted is a tremendous turn-on and my massage lady grasps and holds my half hard penis while I pump and thrust into her hand. This combined stimulation of humping while her other hand and wrist is buried and working deep in my ass gives me the strongest orgasms I can ever recall - even over any of those from my younger days.

When engaging in solo anal play it is incredibly rare for me to attain an erection.

Same here. However, it is quite common for cum, sometimes a lot, to start oozing out of my urethra, which only makes it more fun and adds to the nice feelings afterwards.

I usually don't have an erection during anal play but I leak a ton of precum. I get rock hard thinking about anal play but once I stick something up there it typically disappears. I've come really close to a hands free orgasm but even then I'm still pretty soft. Even though I'm soft I still come super fast once I decided to start playing with my dick with something in my ass.

On the subject of losing an erection after anal insertion, I have often wondered if it was that the 'inserted object' impeded the blood flow to my penis, which in turn decreased the erection.

And, during play with the penetrator removed, the raging erection normally returns. And, upon the anal reinsertion of our friend, the two ultimately find lasting harmony, and the penis and anus share the pleasure of a tumultuous orgasm.

Educated opinions please; thank you.

I don't get an erection when inserting various toys in my anus, but it is still an erotic feeling. I will lay on my side while in bed and put some lube on my middle finger and insert it as far as I can and feel the sexy smooth anus walls and sphincter. I can also caress my prostate. ??

If I get any kind of anal stimulation I immediately get an erection and some times it gets so hard it is throbbing!

From the first time I felt my mothers finger penetrating my anus to lube it for the rectal thermometer which came after she took her finger out my earliest recollection around 5 or 6 years old. and for the next 65 years I have almost always got an erection. Only after my prostate surgery I can only get a partial erection.

I've experienced amazing sensations from 'pure anal stimulation', which I define as having nothing touching my cock and balls in an arousing way, while I'm having a prostate massage. Another person can do the prostate massage on me, or I can use a suitably shaped object to massage my own prostate bump. I like to use the metal ball of anal hook to gently rub and press on my prostate bump. Another option is to do an indirect massage by inserting an anal toy and using strong, rhythmic anal sphincter contractions to produce motion and pressure between the anal toy and my prostate bump. A fat butt plug, or an Aneros toy does the trick for me. The direct and indirect prostate massage methods can be combined. From any of these methods, if I can resist long enough grabbing my cock and cumming the normal way, I can experience a very different kind of orgasmic-level pleasure from prostate massage, which has these characteristics in my experience:

(1) Initial sensations, depending on the massage method, that may start with very mild pleasure, and then more intense pleasure focused in the anal area

(2) Sudden or gradual onset of very intense 'waves' of pleasurable sensation that radiate from my anal region and sweep up through my tailbone, backbone, neck, and head

(3) Few pleasurable feelings from my cock and balls, and often no erection if I haven't stimulated that area directly

(4) Sometimes a neutral or slightly negative sensation like feeling the need to pee, which is actually the urge to emit or the actual emission of prostate fluid I think, and which I learned to enjoy kind of like an acquired taste for a new kind of food

(5) No sudden release of a ton of cum, just a slow, steady flow of clear prostate fluid gradually getting my cock wet and sticky--(no semen, no testicular involvement)

(6) A long-duration plateau or orgasm-level pleasure that can include full-body convulsions and uncontrollable shudders lasting several minutes

(7) No sudden, explosive, euphoric, very satisfying grand finale--just a long sustained plateau of very intense pleasure that I have eventually have to shut off because it's too intense or because I'm getting too exhausted to continue

Anybody else react this way to 'pure anal stimulation' of the prostate, or is it just me?

Also, is the pleasure from anal e-stim similar? I'm curious and want to try e-stim of all types.

Also, is anally induced orgasmic-level pleasure just a man thing, or can women also experience it?

Simply stated, No Man can resist or deny the pleasures of having his Ass Cheeks separated and his Anus penetrated with a finger, toy or better yet a throbbing, Hard Cock.

A Man's Ass Hole is designed for pleasure as it is the gateway to his prostate and spectacular ejaculations. Relax your Anus and enjoy the pleasure.

@A_FISTER said

Simply stated, No Man can resist or deny the pleasures of having his Ass Cheeks separated and his Anus penetrated with a finger, toy or better yet a throbbing, Hard Cock.

A Man's Ass Hole is designed for pleasure as it is the gateway to his prostate and spectacular ejaculations. Relax your Anus and enjoy the pleasure.

You can only speak for yourself. Straight men aren't interested in activity with penises, and you can't assume that all men experience physical pleasure in exactly the same way you do.

I'll second what DrZ said.

My husband LOVES when I fist him and other anal penetrations.

He won't touch another man's penis or let another man touch him.

@DrZ said:

You can only speak for yourself. Straight men aren't interested in activity with penises, and you can't assume that all men experience physical pleasure in exactly the same way you do.

I have to disagree and say that yes, all straight men LOVE activity involving a penis, but only if it is THEIR penis!

I don't mean to be pedantic, I have just had a few too many men tell me that they would never do anything with a cock, and I have the absolute joy of asking them how they wank then! Maybe I'm evil for making them squirm, awkwardly try and explain their penis is theirs, but it is just too perfect a situation to pass up!

Of course I agree that we all like different things, and you shouldn't assume that what you like, others like too. Think about the reason we're on this site. We have niche interests. If we could assume that all (or even most) people liked what we did, zity would be next to pointless.

I get hard just reading these stories

A few days later, I got a new idea for using my new double dong, a 2.75" diameter, two-foot long monster. I strapped one of it's 3" heads to a vinyl covered sit-up board I use to work out at home. I prepped myself with the same series of several very hot gallon-bag enemas until my ass and colon were totally clean, empty, and relaxed. Then I generously lubed the entire length of the sit-up board. I also lubed the huge dong strapped to the board, I generously lubed my entire front side, and I covered my anus and its vicinity with lots of lube both inside and out.

I positioned myself on the board with my butt up and my thighs hugging the monster dildo. I reached back with one hand to position the 3" dildo head over my anus and I squeezed my ass cheeks to hold it there as I grabbed the end of the sit-up board with both hands. Then with my arms I pushed my body into the dildo, and 8 or 9 inches of it pushed into my rectum. It felt wonderful and filled me up nicely. Then I started using my arms to pull my body away and push it back. My body and the board were so slippery it took very little effort to pull and push my body up and down the board and force the huge dildo to go in and out. It felt great. My well lubed cock and balls squashed between my slippery body and the slippery board were enjoying the ride almost as much as my ass was enjoying getting fucked.

I fucked myself in the ass for 10 or 15 minutes like that. I could easily have easily cum if I hadn't been holding back, but I wanted that bathtub experience again. I gradually pushed a little harder with each push. Before I expected, one push kept going until my arms were fully extended as a wave of pleasure engulfed me. I knew my inner sphincter had yielded and the giant dildo now deeply penetrated well into my colon. I kept pulling and pushing with my arms. Each push now doubled the distance the dildo slid into me and made me gasp from a wave of that same, super-intense, full-body, orgasm-level pleasure I experienced in the bathtub. I tired to go slowly to enjoy it longer, but I couldn't control myself. I fucked myself as fast and as far as my arms could push and pull me up and down the board. I went into a sweaty, breathless, animal grunting frenzy that ended in my best solo orgasm ever. I collapsed at the end for maybe ten minutes, still impaled by more than half of he massive double dong. When I pulled myself free of it and rolled off the board, my stomach and the board where covered in cum. It was messy, but oh so good.

I will try to do it again on video, and grab some good frames to post. That makes it even more fun!

I don't get hard from anal penetration alone, but it is very sexual and quasi-orgasmic for me as I described a couple months ago.

I recently experienced a new kind of anally induced orgasm while almost totally flaccid. Here's what I did. I gave myself a series of several very hot, gallon-bag enemas with a large nozzle in a bathtub. Then I lubed up a huge, 2-foot by 2.75" double dong I just received from Amazon, and I lubed up the bottom of the tub so my butt and back could slide easily up and down the tub when I pushed off with my hands and feet. I used two hands to insert the huge dildo a couple inches into me. Next I pushed off the back of the tub with my hands, which pushed my butt forward and completely filled my rectum with the huge dildo. Then I went to town fucking myself in the ass by alternately pushing off with my hands and feet. It felt wonderful, but my ass was hungry for more dildo.

I had lots of experience inserting smaller diameter toys into my colon, so I had to try a deeper insertion with this giant toy. I started pushing off harder with my hands. Suddenly, the giant dildo slid 8 or 10 inches into my colon, and it hit a totally new pleasure nerve for me that instantly engulfed my entire body in a new kind of orgasm-level pleasure. I had been planning to leave my limp cock alone and try to fuck myself into a pure anal orgasm, but after 30 seconds or so of this new, super-intense pleasure, I couldn't stand it anymore. I felt I had to grab my cock and end it. Even though my cock was completely limp, just touching it triggered an instant orgasm with several big squirts of cum! I was amazed. I'd never felt anything like this before.

I usually do not get an erection but the sensations are incredible. In the last year or two so I have been playing more and more with anal toys. Butt plugs up to 3" in diameter as well as colon tubes such as the Squarepeg Depth Probe and slowly incresingly larger and larger dildos such as those from Bad Dragon. I was just recently able to get a 3" butt plug in me after warming up a bit and just ordered my third Bad Dragon dildo; this one having a 3.45" diameter. Yesterday while playing with my newest BD dildo Flint, I shot a load of cum out. I find the dildos have a tendency to milk me and when hitting the right spot, precum will ooze out sometimes on every thrust. Though I usually do not have a hard-on, the sensations well make up for an orgasm. The best part being I can keep going and going till I basically just get tired and need to give my ass a rest. My GF and I have given all of my toys names and now I just call them JB and the back door gang. LOL My GF has fisted me a few times and it sent me through the roof with convulsive waves of pleasure leaving me shaking uncontrollably for a few moments afterwards. I absolutely love the pleasures I get these days from anal stimulation and always look forward to playing with my toys again. At this point I do not care if it is a colon tube, dildo, fist or a hard cock in me, I just love the feeling I get.

A long time ago, I would get hard just thinking about dome kind of anal play. Now, I just like to relax my hole and enjoy, It seems now that I enjoy having my butt played with more than having a hardon. Although I do enjoy that too.

Sensations from using a prostate massager are the best and can vary depending on your position and movement. Usually my cock is limp or semi erect during my activity but the waves of pleasure as time progresses make for anal orgasms and body twitches par excellence which get better and better! Anus sensitivity increases and can result in spasms which feel awesome!

I seldom get an erection from anal stimulation. Frankly, I'm amazed at all the films of guys/TV's getting screwed and maintaining a huge erection. Anal penetration of any type is extremely pleasurable, but the erection comes from direct stimulation.

Roger627 wrote: Sensations from using a prostate massager are the best ... waves of pleasure as time progresses make for anal orgasms and body twitches par excellence ... result in spasms which feel awesome!

Me too! You describe it perfectly. Have you tried a 3-ball anal hook, the kind where the balls touch each other? It delivers an excellent prostate massage when inserted backward, (with the ring on the stem of the hook in the front.) Move the ring up and down while maintaining upward pressure on the front wall of your rectum, and it will produces exactly these sensations you describe in a few minutes. You have to minimize penis stimulation, though, or you'll have a regular orgasm that preempts the anal fun. Save that for last.