I've noticed a few guys that listed one of their kinks as "lingerie (wearing)", And i'm interested to explore the significance
What is it about wearing lingerie that makes it a kink for you?. Is it how the garment grips the body & makes it feel sexual? Is it the appearance? Does it excite you the way you look in it ? Like, what IS the excitement?
Then i would wonder: Suppose you considered lingerie for the male, for the male anatomy. If you considered the ultimate male lingerie to be the jockstrap. could that be an even bigger thrill because it's catered toward catering toward your ass & genitalia.