How much a part of our excitement for enemas comes from giving someone control of your bowels

The whole enema process, from the very word thru that delicious filling and over filling of my body with warm water or solutions that make me cramp up, like hot milk with molasses, just gets my motor running...ok, ok, "revving". For sure with me at least, a definite component of the excitement and eroticism of the session is ceding control over your private parts to another person. Early in life, with most of us that tended to be our loving mothers. Later, other partners or friends. Just wondering if other tube fans feel similarly?

Knowing that I am getting ready to give a good looking guy a large hot soapy enema and it's going to make him go to the bathroom turns me on like nothing else!!!

Surrendering control of my body's most private activity to my friend and lover Sirensong is what creates the excitement for me. When I kneel before her exposing myself to her I can literally feel her eyes on my opening and that sends an incredible rush through my body in anticipation of the touch, gentle massage, and penetration that is to follow. When she starts to fill me, I imagine the fluids as hers and I open up to receive every drop that she lovingly offers. How much a part of our (my) excitement for enemas comes from giving someone (sirensong) control of my bowels?....... All of it!

I hope you let her watch you expel.

If I have a partner who enjoys it, I'm delighted to let her watch or let me watch her expel. As I noted in another post, it has nothing to do with enjoying the smell or attraction (NOT) of the waste products, only sharing the privacy of the act and the facial, body and vocal expressions while it's happening.

I have always had my partner present in the bathroom as I prepared his enema(s). I want him to see the enema bag as I fill it with whatever solution he is to receive. He needs to see it bulging and know that he has to take every drop of that hot enema. I can see the "apprehension" on his face as he watches these preparations; watches me attach and lightly lubricate the large nozzle I've decided to use on him. In truth, that anxiety is part of the performance. There will be discomfort, but he knows and expects it...he wants it! His eyes are already slightly glazed with excitement and he has, needless to say, as firm an erection as I have. And when the situation is reversed, as it sometimes is, I experience all those 'receiver' emotions as well.

I really only had 2 very uneventful enemas as a kid. My early experiences mostly were as an observer... some how I grew up with the idea that an enema was very naughty and secrete. Even today I find the idea of enemas very embarrassing.

For me it is the most enjoyable part. If someone is watching the expulsion, that only makes it more embarrassing and thus, more enjoyable.

Being helpless, having the enema done to you, being at someone else's mercy inside and out, that's a huge part of the enema experience for me. I can give myself an enema, and while it does have some quite powerful sensations, it's way down on the Richter scale compared to having an unswervingly determined woman override all my whining and protests and give me an enema to remember.

During an enema, I surrender control of my bowels to a bag of chemicals. It's NOT to someone else, because I almost ALWAYS self administer, except fr the occasional foreplay enema, more designed to arouse him than t do anything positive for me!!

For me, it's not so much giving up control of my body, but rather, knowing that I'm with someone who really wants to pleasure me in the most intimate of ways, even more so than the standard BJ or penis rub. With an enema, all the senses and physical sensations are heightened.

I never got enemas growing up but my 2 best male friends did, and would tell me all about them, and me, being turned on by playing doctor with them anyway, just had it go to a whole new level!!!

I believe as a receiver that is the excitement of being give one the giver had control and they new they were in control

Absolutely, the best part of being laxed by my wife, in any way, is her control of me.!

Yes there is a big psychological component to receiving enemas. There are several different mindsets or reasons for getting/giving enemas. Surrendering control to someone as the receiver can be very sexy and erotic or call up memories of being a child and getting enemas from an adult making you submit to the process.

Although I have been doing enemas solo for many years, I too feel that loss of control as I fill and retain- essentially the enema process is in control of my body and I feel as though I am a passenger on a wild exciting joy ride experiencing all the hugely erotic sensations.

So we all have our mindsets with our enemas and that combined with the physical sensations is what makes them so addictive.

Being given enemas as a child, they were mostly for health reasons, and we were embarrassed and uncomfortable to say the least. Especially if they were given as punishment!! Rare>But those of us who developed the passions for the tube are there for the ENEMA. For whatever reason you like the enema. It's the enema, not the giver. I will admit, that having someone loving and caring, or controlling and dominant, whichever you prefer, does add to the pleasure, But it is still the enema; however much you can take!