Anus looking as part of the punishment

Sometimes as part of a spanking, yes, but sometimes I have done it as a sort of punishment on its own.

I know with a couple women I dated the humiliation often came from the unexpected surprise, related to feeling unsure if she was ‘clean’ enough for me to be looking at her bottom so intimately.

Definitely anxiety mixed with excitement, embarrassment mixed with an erotic desire to be submissive.

I know the feeling as I have been on the receiving end of this too.

I did this with my last g/f while i was spanking her OTK i spread her bottom cheeks wide open to expose her anus. she told me it was very embarrassing for me to do that and look at her there but she liked it!

another little thing i like to do is to blow a forceful stream of air right onto her anus like i am whistling but i just blow air very forcefully directly onto the outside of her anus in the center. wetness increases the sensation for her.

I think that should always be part of a good spanking ritual.

Before I get rectal temps, my boyfriend spreads my cheeks, looks at it for a while and applies the lube liberally with his fingers, circling slowly, both inside and out. My anus is on full display to him at such times.

Not looking in and of itself, but have had my anus spanked as punishment and so obviously it was on show when that happened. Always seems the most vulnerable part of the body to me.

That could be very emberassing, but..😃

Mom and grandma always did this after the spanking. I think they would check if i wiped properly.

Sometimes they get a baby wipe and made remarks about better wiping.

Sometimes after a spanking I had to spread my cheeks so my anus could be seen. However, more often I was directed into positions where my cheeks spread on their own. I often did corner time with my cheeks spread by the position I was required to assume. If people witnessed my spanking, this corner time was very embarrassing and exciting.

I would enjoy that.... after enduring a good spanking being asked to spread my cheeks for an inspection ... and if all was well... be rewarded with an insertion or enema

I was dating, having sex with basically, a colleague for a few months some time ago. She was extremely shy for a while about her body and then one night she made it apparent that she enjoyed having her bottom played with, and once she realized I enjoyed it too, that became a big obsession. Her shy attitude never disappeared, her feelings of embarrassment, but were accompanied by intense feelings of excitement to have her bottom get the kind of attention I was giving it. Explorations. Spankings. Playing doctor. Rimming. Fingering deep in her anus. Anal intercourse.

So after a night when I spanked her hard, the next day I told her to come over to my apartment after work. She knew she would be getting another spanking, plus some other intimate attention to her bottom. When she arrived I knew that she would want to take a shower before we began any fun stuff. I told her, NO, the shower can wait, "I need to look at your bottom and see how red it is from last night's spanking." She was hesitant, but I turned her toward the wall and told her to pull down her pants and panties. She was clearly nervous. She asked if she could use the bathroom first, so I allowed it. She came back and assumed the position and pulled down her pants to expose her bare bottom. It certainly was red and I spend some time looking at it as I gently caressed it. I told her to bend over the chair and hold it. She asked why and I just told her to do as I say. She did. Then I placed my hands on her cheeks, thumbs along her crack, and pulled her bottom open. The first thing that was obvious was that she'd used her time in the bathroom to clean herself with water and toilet paper, because there were many tiny pieces of toilet paper around her anal area. Obviously she was very concerned about being clean since she'd not had the chance to shower. She didn't know what I was seeing, but anyway I held her open like that for longer than she was comfortable with, and HMMMMed and MMMMed, like I was concerned. In fact she was very clean, but she didn't know that for sure.

"So do you think you should take a shower?" I said. This comment, as I looked at her anus which I knew to be her most vulnerable spot, triggered a response. She was so ashamed, thinking she was unclean, that she began to shake slightly and speak in a nervous, broken voice. "Ohh.. oh my, yes, yes, please... Ok, I'm sorry. Oh..." Off she went for a long hot shower.

As I spanked her later, her facedown on the bed, I paused to pull her cheeks open again. I loved listening to her loud breathing whenever I did this. I told her "Oh you are so clean. Good girl." Which made her bury her face straight into the pillow.

I loved playing with that woman.

I look at the anus of every girl I spank as it's an extra for of humiliation

Oooooh absolutely. I think almost the biggest humiliation is to bend over in front of someone, naked, and spread your buttocks apart with your with your hands so they can see right at your anus and inspect it. I confess it turns me on enormously to do that, just thinking about it excites me. But I was never actually been ordered to, I've chosen to do it to demonstrate my readiness (and desire) to be penetrated. Even so, as an admission that is humiliating enough.

Have posted on some of this but some other memories have come to mind.

Yes, I did this with three women I dated. One was when I was just out of college, and she liked being told she was bad for her overtly sexual thoughts, and being punished, having her bottom spanked and then "inspected" over the next few days. During these inspections of her pink skin I began making her bend over then spreading her cheeks to look at her anus, describing in detail everything I was doing to her. I think the narration turned her on as much as the physical sensations. The second woman always said "but I'm a good girl" to persuade me not to cane her round bottom, but of course it always got caned with a long thick plastic dowel. When the punishment was finished, I would straddle her legs and spread her cheeks very wide open, first just looking at her anus but saying nothing, which caused her anxiety. Then I would lick her hole very gently, which she loved, and then would follow a deep fingering and then an ass-fucking with me always coming in her ass. The most recent was a girlfriend who was very anal-oriented, who used to think of anything butt-related as 'perverted' and 'disgusting' when she was younger, but who had developed a very naughty fascination with it around age 28 when we met. Her spankings were often paused so I could spread her cheeks and hold them open, silently, which usually made her squirm and ask "what are you doing? why are you looking inside my ass? noooo". If she was being caned as punishment then sometimes I would insert the tip of the wooden dowel in her anus. The dowel I used on her was finely sanded and oiled btw.

Many of the other women I dated liked the attention I gave their bottoms but few were willing to discuss it, being much to shy and embarrassed to do so. So what my fingers and tongue did to their bottom holes was always gentle and erotic rather than focused on punishment.

One other woman stands out because although she loved being rimmed, like for as long as I could do it, it was never a situation about punishment or something negative. She was so comfortable with her body. Her attitude was completely different from any other woman I've been with. We were colleagues in our 20's and became friends with benefits. No I LOVE YOU's just alot of sex. On just our second date, we were making out and the clothes began to come off. At one point I rolled her over onto her stomach to have a look at her ass, covered in sheer panties. She was tall, blond, in very good shape. It was a stunning view and I was dying to see her bare butt. She seemed so happy and relaxed that I gently gripped the waistband and said 'may I?' and she said 'of course' and so I pulled her panties down and off her legs. I think my breath stopped as her gorgeous bare bottom was exposed to my eyes. I began caressing it and she just turned her head to the side, closed her eyes, and smiled. I think we were both in heaven. The more I touched her round little pale ass and leaned in to enjoy the view, the more I wanted a more intimate view. She seemed so comfortable that I felt bold enough to go further. I laid both hands on her cheeks and gently spread them open, fully exposing her anus, asking 'is this OK?'. She quietly said 'yes'. Looking right at her very light pink and slightly wrinkled bottom hole, I said 'you don't mind that I look at you here?' And she calmly said 'no, it's fine' with another smile. That began many months of anal play between us, mostly me rimming and sometimes fingering her bottom, both of which she described as 'soooo relaxing' and 'like a tickle'. She definitely went to another place mentally when I focused on her ass, though if I eventually started touching her pussy too, she would slowly build to orgasm. The one and only time I tried to "punish" her, just to see if she liked being spanked, I spanked her during sex, one swat to her bare cheek, and she turned immediately with an angry look and said 'DON'T EVER DO THAT AGAIN'. So I definitely never did. Her bottom and anus were 100% for pleasure, not punishment.

When being spanked growing up I am sure my father seen mine up till I was at least 17..

Making me display my anus and the top fingering or playing with it durring or after a spanking is very pleasurable and can trick the mind to flip flopping and keeps me guessing, love it!

@Amy93 Intetesting. What position were you spanked in that your father could see your anus?

Anal sex would frequently be a part of my spanking sessions. When it was, I'd require that my sub position herself on hands and knees at the side of a bed, pull her ass cheeks wide apart, and fully expose herself for my inspection. Then I'd instruct her to use her fingers to generously apply a lubricant to the inside and outside of her anus, and to the insides of her ass cheeks. When that was accomplished - usually by her reaching back between her legs while I watched - the spanking would begin. The moistness and slick sensation of the lubricant in her ass and on her ass cheeks would keep her mindful of what was to come as I administered stroke after stroke after stroke across her ass cheeks with my firm black leather paddle. In time, when her bright red ass cheeks, her moans, her tears, her sobs, and her soft gentle urgent pleadings aroused me, I'd stop the spanking and tell her to reach around again and pull her ass cheeks as wide apart as she could - and that if she didn't do so quickly the spanking would continue. Watching her struggle to pull her reddened, throbbing ass cheeks apart would arouse me even further and I'd quickly bury my hard cock all the way up inside her ass. I'd fuck her rough, hard, slamming my cock into her ass over and over making a loud flesh on flesh slapping sound. All the while she'd struggle to keep her ass cheeks pulled apart which tightened her ass all the more for me. When I finally spewed my come deep in her ass and she wilted, all spent and trying to cope with the pain/pleasure sensations still running through her head and body, I'd send her out of the room to clean up and be ready for a second round after I took a brief nap.

My wife just started getting into spanking. One of my fantasies, as well as video searches, have always been for her to have me tied up while spanking my anus and thighs. The kind of spanking that would take me past my limits. Thoughts?

I think it would be very exciting and a little humiliating to have to spread cheeks apart during a spanking like if the top was using an implement that could achieve spanking the subs bottom hole thin leather belt or riding crop perhaps or prior to a spanking holding the cheeks apart applying lube and being fingered so erotic

I have experience of having ass spread and inspect to try humiliate me.

All subs should try it.

My wife sometimes makes me do chores around the house naked. If she feels like I'm being lazy or if I forget a chore she sometimes will bend me over and spank me. Other times she will make me get in exposing positions, which even though she has seen me naked a million times, embarrasses the hell out of me.

Just the other day, I was supposed to be cleaning out the pantry. She had asked me about 10 times to do it. But I was sitting on the couch looking on my phone. She stripped me naked, spanked my ass and then had me get on my hands and knees and bend way over exposing everything.

She sat there and commented on how she could see my butthole, balls, and penis hanging down. She kept making these comments and it was so embarrassing. Which ended up turning me on and I got hard. So after a while there I am cleaning out the pantry completely naked with a red ass and an erection sticking straight out. So embarrassing.

@eekk Yes I very much agree. Sometimes a random, intimate inspection with no forewarning is sooo good (and a bit shocking, embarrassing too).

Your mention of using a light makes me think of an old girlfriend. Very kinky, very anal oriented, very naughty. One day she brought home a new “toy”. It was a handheld 150x illuminated magnifier. It looked like something you’d use in a science lab. She said “I want to play doctor and you examine my ass with this.” And that’s exactly what I did. I can tell you that I’ve never had a more thoroughly intimate view of an anus than hers. Several days later she wanted to play doctor with me as the patient and partway through she held up the device and said “Turn over please.” I swear she had that thing between my cheeks for at least 30 minutes. She just couldn’t get enough. With her it was always the nastier the better.

If you’ve been extra naughty, I would end your forced anus viewing by putting a generous dollop of Icy Hot onto your winker before pulling your panty back up. A little something to remember me by until the next viewing…

“Go get the baby wipes for Daddy, and let’s freshen you up a bit before the guys get here for poker. We want your anus looking it‘s best for the fellas. I’ll take those panties; you won’t be needing them for the rest of the day. That’s it. Now be a good girl and do as you’re told.”

I had once, by accident, because I held my butt cheeks because it was stinging.

Yes, @sirensong has done that to me. It was simultaneously embarassing and exciting - a most interesting blend of emotions.

I think it is very embarrassing to have to spread those cheeks for an inspection of your most private place. The blush on the cheeks tells it all and for bad girls it can be on both ends!

As Carrie Behave said, I have had my ass spread before and examined many times. Yes, it was to inspect and humiliate me. It has been done to me by both males and females. Sometimes by a male and a female at the same time. It was once done to me in a group setting where I was the only one nude. There were both males and female present. None of them ever took off a stitch of clothes.

My entire body was inspected from head to toe and almost every part of my body was measured. I was also weighed in the nude. All of the results were recorded. I was then given a series of enemas and weighed again in the nude to see if I had lost any weight from the enemas. I did lose about a pound or two.

Before I was allowed to get dressed and go home, I was told that I had to lose about 5 pounds before the next time this was to be done to me or I would be severely punished for it. I did not know what the punishment I would get would be. However, I did not want the punishment. The next time was to be in about 3 weeks. When they had me completely nude, the first thing they did was to weight me in the nude. I did not lose just 5 pounds, but 6 pounds. This pleased them to no end and I did get to see them all nude this time, but I got to do nothing to any of them.

My wife had no problem exposing her anus to me - just happy to present it for what ever pleasure was to be enjoyed!!

Yes, once recently. When I was getting spanked the guy used his right leg to pin my left leg down and then he turned slightly and used his left hand to push my right leg out so I was spread eagle getting spanked. He then spanked my ass cheeks as well as my privates and anus area. He actually leaned down onto me and used his left hand to spread my cheeks open and then used his right hand to deliver the blows between my cheeks. I’d never had this happen before and although it hurt it also felt good in a funny way. When he was done he held me over his lap exposed like that, he told me I had to relax before he let me up. I felt so “exposed” and submissive and I could feel myself slowly settle down and stop opening and closing back there.