A girlfriend wants us to try it. She's interested in the butterfly thingy with the straps. I've heard it's way too noisy and makes a bulge in your skirt or pants. Also, if I feel I'm close to orgasm, and I shut it off, it's still there, pressed against me. I'm afraid I might have some huge embarrassment from an orgasm I couldn't stop. Someone else said we should check vibrating panties, whatever they are. Anyone tried just using a bullet?