Should a slave or sub have shaved genitals?

I tend to go with what the woman wants (I am a Dom), because some women get bumps & other discomforts. I do demand that she be "trimmed up," so that her genitals are evident, & also her anal area. That's not so much of a problem now as in years gone by, since many women wax or shave "just because."

I believe subs should be shaved, it puts them in their place. In reality when I work with a sub most are not because a number of reasons but at a minimum when I like them to have the pubs shaved or at a minimum trimmed. No pubs when I do age play if they are a pre-teen age player.

when I am the sub depending on the setting, I make sure at a minimum pubs and bottom are shaved. It age play, I am the 9-10 year old boy, so definitely no pubs and a smooth bottom in that role. I do my arm pit hair trimmed anyways. For the age play it puts in the boy role mentally realizing boys in this age don’t have pubic hair. Also, since I am grower with regard to my penis, when my penis is flaccid and tight to my body, shaved my crotch does look like much more like a boy vice a man.

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I wrote this when I was on here once before. I still believe that playing around with a sub’s pubic hair and finding out how it imprints her is part of good bdsm play. I have found that when they squeal and say “no!” It’s just another way to assert dominance in a sensual way. Trimmed is ok. Shaving a woman’s genitals can be a very sexual experience for both people. Especially when you flip her over and shave around her anus and if you do this, be sure to inspect her frequently. Again, erotic play for both. Just my thoughts

I see two general schools of thought when it comes to D/s, with variations that seem infinite. As a preface, i'm not making a judgement call here and saying one way is 'right' and the other 'wrong,' i think it's much more complex than that and an individual thing.

Some believe that a sub does whatever the Dom wants. For some, the power is through force using things like punishment, but ultimately making a sub do what They want whether they like it or not. Some even relish going against what the sub wants (needs?) and both the Dom and sub in that type of relationship seem to experience what they want/need in that arrangement.

The other type D/s dynamic i have seen (and fits for me) doesn't employ force or bullying at all. It isn't 'role play' because it's real. i see Dom or sub as a part of ones nature, with the versatile person being more fluid. Personally, i am at the one end of the spectrum as sub/bottom, so someone from the other end of the spectrum (Top/Dom) synchs best with me. And i do see it as a matter of synching, that our gears mesh. Like naturally charged negative and positive ions, we attract to each other and bond (bondage?). As i see it, as humans were a lot more complex than our underlying nature, which to me is where the 'fun' is. To me, all our various "kinks" are the deep expressions of our individual natures.

i do see a part of D/s as the natural desire/need to control or be controlled, depending on ones nature. To me, the nature is already there, it doesn't have to be forced into existence, but identified and manipulated? i'm naturally sub. For me, my kinks represent places inside of my psychological make up that a Dom can collar.

Things like shaving or not, represent individual outward expressions of something deeper. emotional, psychological. Shaving, for me, can get complex. As noted in an earlier post, being shaved makes me feel more vulnerable, naked, less masculine. But shaving myself is totally different from a Dom doing it or arranging it to be done, and the feelings i mentioned deepen, because i am no longer in control of them.

For me, the most powerful Dom is a Dom Who is able to identify a need in me and cultivate an use it for Their need and desire. To me, that is what "collaring" is. It's not like a forced collar, but one where i walk along side, not pulling on the tether, because we are tuned to each other, just in different positions.

Yes I think the slave should be shaved. If that's what the Dom wants. To me I would want to be shaved and cleaned everywhere, even better done in front of others to watch. To me being cleaned just makes it easier and more realistic going back into my childhood. If I had a Dom mistress I would most definitely do what ever I was told.

I do not shave myself regularly, thus the times when I do, simply because they are infrequent, become special and especially arousing for me. Recently, while arranging a play session with a dominant, I was told that I was expected to be shaved and smooth on that day, hearing which I got turned on. But to make it more interesting, I suggested to my dom to shave me, which was met with approval. Just the act of me as a submissive allowing the dominant partner to run a sharp razor on my genitals was an exercise in submission. After shaving my genitals and ass, it felt that the dominant had now "staked claim" on that part of my body, which, having groomed it according to their liking, was now theirs to play with as they pleased. And just the handling and touching by the hands of the dom during this was on its own arousing and a sort of 'foreplay' to the play session that followed. So, apart from practical considerations and personal preference, I can see how shaving the genitals has its place as part of a D/s dynamic.

I've no idea what men do, but from my experience most younger women shave or wax completely, or just have a small landing strip, particularly if they're in an active relationship. Being bald down there isn't a sign you're in a dom/sub relationship but always being presentable and ready for action plays its part. I'd rather be bald down there anyway, it looks nicer and feels better to me, but people's tastes vary.

I guess this depends upon their master's or dominant's choice, how they want their slave/sub to look.

They might like tugging them during their sessions.

I once went to an evening fetish group meet up where the dominant hostess was going to have her new 25 year old male slave on display in her home. When I walked into the front room where men and women were seated in a circle in front of several coffee tables, I observed the nude male slave holding a tray of food and drinks. He was of average height with a smooth white swimmer's build body, blonde hair down to his shoulders, pretty boy face, and large bubble butt. His small circumcised penis and large low hanging balls were shaved. When he bent over to hand a guest food and drinks, I observed that his ass pussy was pink and completely shaved. He was wearing a leather collar and acted shy. He often blushed when a man or woman would stare at his nude body. Feel free to message me for further discussion of this topic.

I always prefer to be bare, I get waxed regularly.

I once had a Dom and he also preferred me to be bare but sometimes as punishment he'd ask me to leave it. He knew how I hated it but if I was being exceptionally bratty would have me grow out a nasty bush to remind me that he decides.

I always prefer to be bare, I get waxed regularly.

I once had a Dom and he also preferred me to be bare but sometimes as punishment he'd ask me to leave it. He knew how I hated it but if I was being exceptionally bratty would have me grow out a nasty I once had a Dom and he also preferred me to be bare but sometimes as punishment he'd ask me to leave it.bush to remind me that he decides.

i guess its a matter of the persons tatse

I think hair just gets in the way of the pleasure

My dom wife likes mine shaved. She told me it's a sign that I take my time to make sure I'm clean down there.

Subs should be shaved but only if it's done by the Master since sharp blades near sensitive bits is part of the fun.

Yes I think the slave should be shaved. If that's what the Dom wants. Hairless genitals are an act of Submission.

Although my SIR, does not require trimming/shaving, it would be an established rule for my boy to keep his pubes trimmed. Periodically, his crotch would be completely shaved and I would do the honors of shaving him down as the act would further reinforce who is in charge. Plus it is a very tactile and subservient act for the boy -- another way to further strengthen the bond between the SIR and his boy.

I think that should be up to the dom. I prefer mine to be shaved. Although sometimes I tell her to grow it out.

It was one of my first orders given to me by my wife when we started this life;;;I was told to shave my legs and just keep a small landing strip like her ,,I’m not a hairy person so but I remember rubbing the shaving cream on my body looking at what I was about to do,,,my clit becoming so swollen my wife smiled at me and told me she was happy I was going to enjoy becoming a girl ,,,

Yes, a sub should be shaved, and I will be the one to shave them whether they need it or not.

I think so

I am a firm believer in shaving, I am a Dom but I am shaven and expect subs to be shaven, it is more hygienic and makes things easier!!

Yes I expect all my subs to be completely shaved

Subs should be shaved. Of course down there and no beards or facial hair a short haircut. A short simple men's haircut or just shaved down to a quarter inch. I never made anybody go bald but certainly could.

When I was a Sub boy in a daddy Dom relationship he kept me shaved pretty well.

Although that was one of his things he'd like to groom me

He didn't shave me everyday but at least a couple times a week.

Subs should be shaved. Of course down there and no beards or facial hair a short haircut. A short simple men's haircut or just shaved down to a quarter inch. I never made anybody go bald but certainly could.

In general I'd say this should be applicable for female subs as well (obviously not about beards though … ha ha).

Even going shaven bald ought to be an option. It can look very alluring and a naked shaving can be both arousing and embarrassing. Besides, a sub can always wear a wig if necessary. Lots of hairstyles to choose from with wigs.

In general I'd say this should be applicable for female subs as well (obviously not about beards though … ha ha).

Excuse me but it is more import for a female sub to have her beard shaved off if she has one. More than likely you will be doing her a favor.

Yes they should be shaved

Tricky one this , as I actually like pubes , but I think on the whole they need to be kept in a state that pleases me . As a Dom I’d strap them down and shave to my requirements . Small black bushes are good , but completely clear also good . Their ass crack and anus need to be fully shaved

If I need to answer right away, it is a “Yes” to me.

But there are some exceptions. Not all subs have partners that are aware of their needs. So when fully shaving the pubic area causes suspicion, I make a specifik arrangment.

For a male it means trimming the pubic area, shaving smooth between the legs and anal area.

For a female it means discussing what can be done. So we discuss if she can shave to a stripe, triangle (above her labia, still covering her labia, etc.) or trim her pubic area to make her labia more visible. And moste of the time it is possible for her to shave smooth the labia between her legs and the anal area since her partner doesn't she her that way. So when she is laying down spread legs for her vaginal inspection or examination, I look at her smooth labia and there is no hair around her vagina.

And of course, if the submissive isn't shave properly, I can always use tweezers to solve that issue.

For me, I'd say it should be shaved, however by myself, not the sub, I prefer to do this with the sub in stirrups

There are more women shaved than there are women into bdsm , shaved no hair for years was seen as sexy and erotic and i had all my body hair every square inch permanently removed and yes it is sexy but now i have semi regrets because now seeing what was once thought of as not sexy at all an over grown thick bush is now to me anyway , EXTREMELY HOT and SEX and EROTIC AF