SWITCHES--Do you prefer the Domme or sub roles?

I lie the sub role but if the need is there I will play the dom role

I started off playing patient, but now play mostly doctor. I think it helps you a lot to be a better doctor to have experienced and understand the role of the patient.

I am 99% dom. I give GREAT spankings and better enemas and have for over 30 years.

But I really don't have the medical knowledge to be a credible doctor or nurse. In this scenario, I'm a much better patient.

I like being the sub most of the time but will dom once in a while.

I also play both roles but at different times

For me age plays a big factor as does body build - in general terms I'm happy to examine a younger, smaller guy but examining an order, bigger built guy just does not seem to work. Similar aged, very submissive guts dies fit

When being examined the age and build is less important

I am a true switch when it comes to playing with Doc so I like being a sub and a Dom equally.

Mashie

Id say im 50 / 50 on this one

It depends on so many factors..

If I've been under a lot of stress, I need to be the patient, and have choice and power totally taken away from me. Things get done to the patient, frequently with no discussion or explanation. Frequently in this situation I'm lucky enough to actually get into that rare mental space sometimes called "subspace". It is truly healing.

If I'm not stressed out, I greatly enjoy thinking of fun scenarios to inflict on Mashie. Some elements in these scenarios are things we've done before, some are new things to try. I greatly enjoy being in the doctor roll in these instances. During these scenarios she doesn't have much control, as Doc doesn't let her top from the bottom. I may push her limits, but I always make sure she had fun. I know I sure do!

I mostly enjoy being the patient. However, when BKuggs and I got together, I found I also enjoy being the “nurse”, his naughty nurse, lol!

Subbing is useful for learning, and I find if I have experienced something as the sub I enjoy the same action in the dominant role much more. There's a greater understanding of what the other person in the situation is feeling.

For pure enjoyment in the moment, I enjoy the dominant role much more. Occasionally I'll really just want to say 'fuck it you do the work, I'm DONE for today!' which is when I enjoy subbing. However there's a lot more terms and conditions around my subbing than my dominating.

I’d have to say I prefer to be the sub or bottom it’s more of a natural feeling for me I’m not opposed to being Dom but if I have the choice I’d choose to be sub..love to be controlled and told what to do that’s a huge turn on for me.

My limited experience in both roles leaves me undecided to answer. Perhaps with more contacts I’ll mature in the subject. I do enjoy both roles.

I prefer being a dom. Probably because I have a back ground in the Medical field. The only time I am a sub if it is with someone that has been a dom for a long time and knows exactly what they are doing.

Easy choice for me, I'd love the be the patient any time or the sub whatever the situation is.

I Do love do both role but would be a good... sub

I love doing both, but if I'm Dom I really need to be convinced that my sub partner really enjoys and wants to be sub This is especially since we did a lot of the same things to each other just varying who's doing what to who(m?). For example, I was switching, giving and receiving enemas from my ex-wife, but I initially was not enjoying it like I wanted as I felt like it was too invasive and something we did more for me than for her enjoyment.

Then after being married a few months, one day in conversation she spontaneously revealed to me that 1) she really wanted, needed and loved to be sexually submissive to me and 2) her deepest, darkest sexual secret for decades was that she wanted her husband to give her enemas. Her late first husband had been a Presbyterian minister and though they did have a sex life, she could never bring herself to tell him about her enema desires. Once I knew that, my enjoyment of switching with her, especially Domming her and giving her large frequent intensely sexual enemas, really was enormously more satisfying. We both loved each others' sounds during submission and working up to orgasm, especially in rubber while being "forced" to hold an enema. Delicious.

Eric

I am a switch so when it comes to med play I enjoy being either the patient or the nurse/doctor. I'm a firm believer that if you can give it you should be able to take it as well....smiles.

I've been the patient but wouldn't mind playing doctor. I want to do it with a good set up though: ob-gyn table, with stirrups, for the patient (m or f), speculum, proctoscopes, whartenberg wheel, suction cups for nipples and clit, maybe penis, etc. so much to have on hand...!

I've enjoyed both roles - though not with the same person. I am dom to one and sub to another. It would be hard for me to sub to someone I domed. Just awkward!

Think by switching you know how the other feels when they get or give. Makes for a better experiences

I like both. I used to think that if I could only choose one it would be the sub, and truthfully that is probably still the case, but I also like being the dom.

I had thought that I was just a sub for enemas... until one day I walked past my wife who was lying on her side in a perfect Sim's position (clothes on). I could only think about one thing...

I agree on both counts. I adored being consensually forced to take an enema, or several, from my strict Domme exwife. But she also enjoyed getting them forced on her when I wanted to Dom her. And when she indulged me in one of my other intensely strong major kinks, watching her (or both of us at once) wearing sneakers, I'd instantly want to give her enemas and watch her orgasm while filling or holding for me. Fortunately, she agreed with me - we had a really nice intense switch D/s sex life together, switching often. Great memories........

Eric

I guess I don,t have preface but back several yrs ago when my wetting started had to return to diapers due to wife she is younger and has a dominate side so been that way also hard to control someone while in a diaper.

I find I like both roles equally .

I would say dominance and submission are the flip sides of the same coin. Personally I like for the coin to land on the submission side more ofter for me but whichever side it lands on is fine with me.

Rob

I'm an introvert so subbing is most natural to me. In Feb I went to a Valentines party with my partner. We dressed up, as most did in some kind of costume related to relationship. He came up with an idea of the fringe of that (the host was a close friend). I was dressed a dominatrix. I was all in black but not the high heels (I had been quite sick days before and balance was taken into consideration. I wore my black platform clogs because I'm short and they're shiny at least. It was kind of a new role for me, that side of it was very new. He spanks me with bare hands often, but they don't know that. Several couples borrowed me leather whip. In the end, I did enjoy being dominant in that way and I've spanked me on our kinky camping trips aka "kinky camp" with paddles. I didn't enjoy it with paddles. I don't know why. I think I would love it with a whip on naked and very horny men led into the room, where I appear and they are blindfolded. I would rather a far more dominant women yelled at them and commanded them. I should add that my dad is a narcicistic bully who would back me into corners and hit me often if I even disagreed. He is "always right".

I prefer to be the patient or the sub I am naturally submissive so it’s easier for me to just be subby

Natural switch sub here, but when my partner likes it, I adore domming her, forcing her into sneakers and rubber and forcing big enemas into her as she moans and groans as my sub. She would love it, too.

Eric

I like to go 50/50 sub & Domme that's allot of fun

I Love being the sub !!! My wife (mistress) loves to be the dominant one . But every now and then we switch it up. But for me it’s the best!!!