Not an easy answer, as I get, and give enemas for several different reasons. When giving, it is the sight of my partner lying naked on the bed, or on the exam table, feet in stirrups, with the nozzle or outer balloon of the dbl balloon peeking from her rosebud. I love the smell of the bag bulging with Ivory suds, and watching that bag deflate as I imagine the soapy water flowing deep into her. I love masturbating her to help her hold it, and squeezing her dark nipples as she struggles to take that last of four quarts
If I am receiving, it starts with her saying, "Get undressed! I am going to give you an enema!" I can hear the water running into the pitcher in the bathroom, sometimes the splashing as she dissolves the Ivory in the hot water. Then, the sight of her entering the room holding the bulging bag...thinking about feeling it filling me. Sometimes, she is wearing her nurse's uniform, sometimes, she, too, is totally naked. I get really aroused in that case, because I know what is coming once I'm full. The pinnacle experience is when she enters naked with TWO bags. Either way, she hangs it on the IV pole, lubes me thoroughly, then says, "Take a deep- breath and exhale slowly, while you push out gently." If she will be joining me on the bed, as soon as she inserts the nozzle and inflates the balloons, she hands me her nozle and the lube. She bends over in easy reach and I lube her, and insert/inflate hers. She climbs in next to me and we roll into an embrace, each holding the other's clamp. We open the clamps, and begin activities that make us forget the water flowing into us...then an activity which helps the enemas work way up inside. Finally, we just lay there, enjoying the full feelings as cramps build.
If she has her uniform on, then I just enjoy the lubing, the insertion, and feelings as hot soapy water fills me to the point of hurts-so-good pain. She usually massages my abdomen, and frequently massages another part, giggling as her massage results in it spewing a fountain. Sometimes, she removes her uniform and straddles me, letting the fountain become either a douche or an enema.