Stethoscope and Heartbeat Fetish: Did you ever tell your partner about it?

Did you ever tell your partner about your Steth and Heartbeat fetish? If so, on which occasion? And what was his/her reaction?

Me, I lost two relationships, when I told her about my Steth and Heartbeat fetish. Once, when she came back from the Doctor's, I asked her what he has done. She told me that he had listened to her heartbeat with his Stethoscope (hearing this made me rock hard already). Then, I began to put questions ("did you have to take off your bra..."), and at a certain point, she got angry: "Why do you want to know all this - you are a perverted fetishist !!!" Then, I told her anbout my fetish and even showed her my Stethoscope. She laughed (which hurt me a lot) and called me a perverted maniac. Soon after, we separated. A rather sad experience.

Did you ever encounter similar things ? Thanks for your posts.

Yours:

RedStethGuy

^^^ Imagine what she would have thought if you pulled out a filthy big enema nozzle & told her you'd love to check her pulse with it.. 😁 The ladies I know have no such apprehension towards a Stethoscope...Something you really have to "play" by ear..lol.

It's always a difficult decision whether to tell a partner such delicate things, once said it can't be reversed of course.

I told my partner many years ago and it worked out okay, she wasn't as keen as I was but we had some fun with it.

We are no longer together but not as a result of telling her about my medfet.

I guess you have know someone well enough to have a chance of gauging their reaction. The toothpaste doesn't easily go back in the tube I'm afraid.

I've had mixed experiences... one man I was flirting with asked me if I had any fetishes. I was really reluctant to tell him that I love stethoscopes, he coaxed it out of me and when I finally told him, he mocked me mercilessly. It was humiliating. I decided he was a douche and that clearly I wasn't going to sleep with him.

I had a lover I was with for 2 1/2 years, who I told about my fetish. He wasn't really into it but did want to pleasure me, so stethoscopes occasionally were a deeply satisfying part of foreplay.. or if I didn't have a steth handy, he would just listen to my heartbeat and it would turn me on something crazy.

I've had mixed experiences... one man I was flirting with asked me if I had any fetishes. I was really reluctant to tell him that I love stethoscopes, he coaxed it out of me and when I finally told him, he mocked me mercilessly. It was humiliating. I decided he was a douche and that clearly I wasn't going to sleep with him.

Hi Chaomiandra,

what you tell, coresspondences partially with my experience: "...he mocked me mercilessly. It was humiliating..." So, he missused your confidence. Not a very sensual, nore intelligent reaction. Very egoist. Even though he was not into Stethoscopes, he could have shown some interest - or curiosity! He doesn't know, what he missed! Sure, that you didn't sleep with him.I can't even imagine m y reaction.But I also had positive reactions: With a very early girl friend, whom I told that I would like to listen to her heartbeat during intercourse with my Stethoscope. She was a bit astonished that I took out a real Stethoscope (a Multiphon by KaWe with transparent plastic tubes and a red rubber bell chest piece), but she was so curious about it. Soon after having stethes her, she took my Stethoscope and started to listen to may heartbeat. She tried it giving me a hand job and was amazed by my reaction. I wouldn't say, she had a Stethoscope fetish, but she was interessted an courious about heartbeats. So, the Stethoscope became part of our sex life :-)

RGDS:RSG

I always tried it extremly carefully.

1) Listening to her heart

2) Telling her, I like it

3) (if she seems to be enjoying it): Telling her, that hearts are my biggest interest.

4) (if she agrees to that (which hasn't happend yet)): Stething her for the rest of my live

This makes me so blessed to have fallen in love with a cardiophile. ❤ my ex didn't really buy into it at all when I told her about it, but I couldn't be happier now. I do feel for those of you who have struggled with telling your partner or not had them take it in a positive light.

This makes me so blessed to have fallen in love with a cardiophile. ❤ my ex didn't really buy into it at all when I told her about it, but I couldn't be happier now. I do feel for those of you who have struggled with telling your partner or not had them take it in a positive light.

Hey all. 😃 @5172qcl is my other half. We both feel equally blessed to have one another to share cardiophilia with. In my prior years of dating, I revealed my interest in heartbeats/stethoscopes to a few guys. They thought it was cute, but of course no one else really understood it. But two cardiophiles together...it’s been such a blessing - not to repeat that line. ❤️It’s opened the door for the rest of our relationship to flow effortlessly. Honestly - for anyone that’s struggling to tell their partner about their interest in heartbeats/stethoscopes - go for it. Just go for it. 😃 You never know what could happen!

@mumf

what you said is true for any fetish! Talk about it, you may get a surprising answer.

I said, but did not receive reciprocity

Over time, I realized that there is a very big difference when a partner enjoys listening or just agrees to satisfy your desire. There is nothing worse than seeing the surprised eyes of your partner who has agreed to a role-playing game, but in reality does not experience pleasure. An unpleasant feeling.