I prefer the CANE , love the stinging sensation , initially then as my bum warms up even harder ones !!!
I like them in batches of 10 , gentle , harder , harder still , even harder , then for final 10 , full blast with me counting out aloud until i get to 10 . !!!!
My late partner used to be superb with this and I still miss her so much !!!
If I felt like I could take a few more all I'd do is mess up my counting , 1,2 , 3 , 4 , 5 ,6, 7 , 8 , 9 , 9 you get my meaning ?
That would automatically inform her that I deserved a minimum of another 10 !!!!