Enemas, need or a want?

Occasionally if constipated I guess they could be considered a need but that would be rare. Enemas are definitely a want for me.

In the "Want" vs "Need" department, "want" wins almost every time!

• I want to feel my slippery silicone nozzle penetrating my anus and sliding into my rectum.

• I want to feel the warm enema solution invading my bowels.

• I want to feel the delightful fullness that only an enema can provide.

• I want to feel my sexual tension released as I clinch the soft nozzle with my anal sphincter and pleasure washes over me.

Do I need to do this? Absolutely!

Deb

Need: before a long road trip, getting on a plane, or sometimes just going into the office, where the bathrooms are nasty and I don't feel like hearing/ smelling other guys destroying their stalls next to me. Or just in general constipated. Usually, it's pure glycerin in a lube syringe for this one; not a complete clean out.

Want: all other times!

Both, of course. Mom introduced me to the enemas that I need. Discovering the pleasures of combining enemas and masturbation during my early self-administered sessions provided a life-long want.

Enemas fill my needs for relief of some Crohn's disease symptoms. However, I want to feel the insertion of the nozzle. I want to hear the metallic "CLICK" of the clamp. I want to feel the surge of very warm water filling me. I want to feel the warmth spreading through my gut. I want to see the distention as 3 quarts fills me. I want the feeling of being very full. I want to feel the tension & stress melt away. I want the explosive orgasm that always comes with a good enema. And I want the total relaxation that follows all of the above.

Best,

vapor

I do not need enemas for any reason, other than maybe for occasional constipation. But sometimes, quite often really, my want becomes my need. Know what I mean?

Because a good enema, or series of enemas, is such a great tool for a variety of conditions, my needs and wants are quite entwined. The physical aspect is a great tool for my health and well being and the psychological aspect will likely never be fully explained by the best of shrinks.

Want probably trumps need in most cases!

Growing up, our mom gave my sister and I enemas once or twice a week, and daily if we got sick. They were purported to be for health, but I'm pretty sure Mom was a klismo. At any rate, I didn't "need" enemas, but eventually, both Sis and I came to want them. We still do them when we visit each other, and over the years, have become enema dependent. So, I suppose our answers would be "didn't need, learned to want, evolved to needing."

I want my enemas. 🌹

Unquestionably a profound WANT which has been there since I was a teen, experimenting with mom's rubber douche/enema bag. It hasn't changed since, though the number of real enemas I take varies a lot over time. Sometimes circumstances or desire only result in a couple over a few months time, but there are times like now when I feel like taking them large and frequent. My son lives with me and these days I need to plan them around his work schedule. I'd love a large enema bag or JBL session right now but today won't work due to short alone time. Hopefully I can get in a JBL or 3-4 q bag sometime this week. I'm really craving the fullness, submission, and orgasmic release.

Eric

I have reached that point in life where my battle with cancer has made me rely on a good 2 qt. enema at least once or twice a week. Right now, the only nutrition I get is from liquids through a peg tube attached to my stomach. I have never been so constipated before. The best of news about this is that now my enema gear is left out in the open. I also have told family about the benefit of a good enema. Although they don't realize I'm a "klismo" and they see only a very small part of my enema gear, that's OK for now. I have tried prescribed laxatives as well as OTC products yet nothing ever works as well as a warm 2 qt. soapy does.

Best of all, I got into enemas when there were several good sites for quality enema and colon tubes for sale on the web. My collection includes bulbs, nozzles and bags that are no longer available. Perhaps in a few months from now I'll be back to enjoying an enema strictly for pleasure or occasional constipation. Until then I am so glad to have not only great equipment but the know-how I've learned by being a member of the Zity community.

Again, thank you one and all. MRay.

It is rare that I need an enema. Want is more like 99.9% of the time.

Needed when young want now that I am older.

My x wife would complain about being constipated or mention she hadn't had a decent bowel movement in three or four days. That was her way of telling me she wanted to be given an enema

I'll put myself in the "both" camp. There are times when the WANT is strong but not necessary, and at other times the NEED is absolute. At those times it gets done quickly and with no waiting around trying to decide if its "time" yet. My wife thinks I use them more frequently than I should (she never has a need and would rather bust a gut than take one) and she is probably right. The want is always more frequent than the need! I wish you all "Happy Filling".

I agree with Karl39's post.

I also put myself in the "both" camp. There are times when the WANT is strong but not necessary, and at other times the NEED is absolute. And recently the NEED was not pleasant after a hospital visit.

Seven days was not good.

At those times it gets done with no waiting around trying to decide if its "time" yet.

JockP,

7 days is a LONG time to go without going. I am sure the Enemas brought out a lot that was backed up.

You might need to do them several days in a row.

Both. I have to take both psyllium husk (lazy bowel) and prescription codeine for rhinorrhea on an ad hoc basis else I get an allergic asthma running our of control. I normally do a cleanout once a week (want) with a colon tube and distention soapsuds followed by distension plain water rinse enemas. Those are great enemas, good going in, totally awesome going out and leaving my colon empty right up to the caecum - great feeling) . Psyllium husk produces lots of farts, but these don't even start until day three after the senemas. In about five days I'll have a large BM without problems and then nothing further until the enema series. But if I have to take more than usual codeine, there's often no BM, and because of time constraints, I can't always take the next enema on time.

If it goes to nine or ten days and then I take my normal 'want' enema, it's not a whole lot of fun. For a start, it's much harder to get the 1,2 m (48") colon tube in because of the very full bowel, and then it's harder to hold it for the optimum time of 10-12 minutes. Furthermore, the bowel doesn't empty properly with one suds enema (and the cramps are awful), and the rinse (equally hard to get in) is still very dirty coming out. I feel as if I still need an enema afterwards and the farts start the very next day (with plenty of 'fluid drive'. Not at all enjoyable.

So it turns out that need and want are nicely balanced in my case. I had a good one this afternoon. Bottoms up!

Johnny

Definitely Want! I rarely need one but constantly want one.My otherwise lovely wife will have nothing to do with anything anal and would probably freak if she caught me doing one or found my stash! Yes,i,ve broached the subject with her 0nce and got a very negative reaction.Doesn,t stop my want however!Jim.

Mostly, a want. But, on a few occasions there has been a need. Both, reasons give a pleasurable result.

I've certainly needed enemas at various times in my life. When I was taking pain meds after my hip surgeries. Most of the time, however, I want them. The delicious naughtiness of them. The preparation, the insertion of the lubricated double balloon nozzle, the anal stretching as it goes into my rectum. The rectal distention with the inflation of the inner balloon with the bouncing of the outer balloon. That first rush of warm, soapy solution. The distention nearer to complete filling. The desperation culminating in a dash for the bathroom. The splashing with expulsion. It's all good. The vast majority of my enemas are taken for pleasure.

It used to be pretty much need. Now I'm starting to enjoy them and it's moved from "ugh, I'm feeling stopped up/bloated/gassy/otherwise not good, I think I'd better take an enema" to "I'm feeling stopped up/bloated/gassy/not good, I think I'd better take an enema" and looking forward to it.

I think both. Got health reasons and constipation I think they are healthy and beneficial but I also want them. I somehow think my body needs them and certainly it has enhanced the sex life over the years

For me they are a want -- unless you count needing to feel the pleasures as a need.

The want replaced the need a long time ago.

Yes, there are times when I feel the need – and the longer I'm feeling that need the more it morphs into a want. Isn't our body miraculous?!

I want! Started as a compliment for my masturbating, by now sometimes the enema is enough. I like all the aspects of a good fill.

I really like this question as it's food for thought.

My enemas began at an age too early to remember. I was plagued with what was then called "colic bowels" (a term, I believe, no longer used). I remember from a very early age that I was fascinated by enemas and thus had developed a "want" as I was also anal-attentive not only for enemas but also for thermometers, suppositories and anything else that anyone wanted to put in my little bottom. As someone else said, my wants and needs were intertwined from the beginning: the need for enemas to resolve the pain and discomfort from colic bowels as well as the want for the unique feelings they provided as well as satisfying my "anal attention". Fortunately for me, the bowel problems ensured that I would be given plenty of enemas, both at home and in the hospital throughout my childhood and early teen years (I went solo after that).

That intertwining of needs and wants continue right to this day; it has never varied. (Footnote: The "colic bowels", I believe, is an old term for what is now referred to as "irritable bowel syndrome" or IBS for short.) I take enemas for that (and as always they work to relieve the discomfort of IBS), and I take them to satisfy my want for anal/rectal/colon stimulation even when I'm not having a bout with IBS.

But now there's another "need": to share my needs and wants with an equally compassionate, sensual and caring partner who also want someone to help them satisfy THEIR needs and wants in a mutually desirable way. ;>]

Alex

Originally it began as a need to relieve constipation. But then it became a want to avoid unscheduled toilet visits during the day. Finally as enemas became a long term daily habit, it became a need again because of the difficulty of trying to go naturally.

Whenever I have a medically needed enema coming up, it immediately also turns into a major want/I can't wait to do this. All the other ones are just a plain but profound want by themselves. Mmmmmm.

Eric