Enemas, need or a want?

Wes, so you needed to have an enema, but did not want one. That sounds pretty familiar to many of us and perfectly describes growing up. But it is only the physiological explanation. When I need an enema it is often in an emotional sense and certainly that is an enema that I really want to have.

I can't help it. I like static language with RULES that are followed.

We should be talking like Henry Higgins and Hugh Pickering (with new words as needed for technology and some idioms are fine) but the lowest common denominator of the population seems to drive how language changes rather than the better educated people.!

A language, any language, and especially English is always in a state of flux and transition. Only dead languages never change and that only because no one really uses them anymore.

English has no defining authority to watch over it. There is no English Academy like the Académie Francaise that tries to guard the 'purity' of the language. There is no English Language Union like the Dutch Nederlandse Taalunie that defines correct Dutch usage.

And besides, even with the Académie and the Taalunie, people mostly go their merry way and talk like everyone else does, not like some ivory towered academic.

And yes, less educated people can at times drive how a language evolves - not always though, take as example courtly English which borrowed from French to give names to meat. But because the less educated are far and away more numerous. the advantage of numbers plays a big role. And this is for the good in a way since this causes languages to become less complicated over time. Many archaic and useless items are dropped - take for instance the now archaic usage of thee, thy, thine.

I fear that if you want a static language, you will have to wait till everyone uses Esperanto ...

In case if "Esperanto" was the universal language, I am sure it will also evolve, because "the crowd" have a mode for words and the way to use them.

Sorry for my globish french accent.

In case if "Esperanto" was the universal language, I am sure it will also evolve, because "the crowd" have a mode for words and the way to use them..

Right on!

Languages evolve and change in a similar way as Nature changes: by mutation, which is another way of saying by mistake. People make mistakes, make something up and perchance it happens to be a better way of expressing something or other people just like it for some reason, and before you can say 'Oxford Dictionary of the English Language', presto - it's been adopted into current usage and becomes part of the normal language. Happens all the time. And the larger the number of people speaking a language, the faster the rate of change.

Okay "word-smiths"......I gotta put my 2 cents in. I'm currently writing my second major work. I have evolved my writing to reflect how I talk. Most of the time it's against the rules, butt I've been told that it "reads good".....so, WTFOver.

the boxcar

I enjoy a gentle, warm enema. The tingle of anticipation, the warm insertion, the sensation of building pressure, the release and feeling of relaxation and well-being are there whether need or desire prompted it. ..... So lube up your favorite nozzle and enjoy!!

I have to go with both. I physically need one or two a week to help my system keep up - otherwise I tend to load up.

Fortunately, I enjoy the hell out of them so I always have the desire to go along with it 😃

I have not needed an enema in years. I take an enema series at least every two weeks so that I never need one. Works great.

On occasion, I feel the need for a good enema, and the more I think about it.......the more it increases my desire. The two seem to go hand-in-hand.

The best enemas are the ones you don't need, but want anyway. Sometimes the "want" feeling is so strong it feels like a "need".

One time I remember being in bed with a strep throat. My insides we're feeling ok, so I wasn't thinking at all about taking an enema. Then my husband casually asked if I needed an enema. My first reaction was no, I'm fine. I was going to try and take a nap. He returned to whatever he was doing, and I began feeling little tingly waves deep inside. Ladies, feel familiar? Later he came in to check on me and sat down on the bed and placed his hand on my forehead. I looked up and the words just came out. "I think I need an enema, after all." In reality, my brain (and other places!) had turned a want into a need.

All I know is that if I want an enema and putting it off sooner or later my want turns into need or desire.

"Need" or "desire. . .Who cares!!?? We mostly grew up getting enemas as our mothers were of the mind we needed them. Some place we got to the point of desiring an enema, and as for me is mostly because I just love doing things that are pleasurable to my butt. Do I need, or desire to masturbate? Seems to me like it could be a lot of both!! I say, if you like, need or want an enema, , ,GO FOR IT!! I spent all my youth being afraid of my real desires of what I liked to do between my legs on both sides. Now, that I feel free of doing what I like to do in those areas, and that I'm amongst millions who like and desire the same things, I see little sense in questioning every, small detail. Just enjoy what we like to do, share it if it is a commonality to whomever is present, and accepting, and be thankful we no longer need to hide, feel guilty or get spanked by our mother because we were caught! Speaking of spanking, do we need or desire one?? Who cares, please spank me!! :-)

[quote}In reality, my brain (and other places!) had turned a want into a need.[/quote]

I just had to borrow this quote from VickiV. It is so true with me!

Sometimes, while I'm working from home, the random thought of an enema may dart across my mind. And, as expected, that random thought begins to manifest itself into a growing desire to indulge in a date with the bag. It may take several hours for the desire to evolve to the point where I put everything on hold and head for the bathroom, but during that time, my brain begins processing the delightful sensations that come from a nice warm enema. That's when the line is crossed from "needing" an enema to a voracious desire for an enema. And nothing will satisfy me after that point, but an enema!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

Is it wise to make that distinction?

I find that it can lead to nit-picking

Most of of us here a slaves to our bag I love enemas

In my case, I both want and need an enema. I have chronic idiopathic constipation and I literally never have a bowel movement that is not induced by a laxative, a suppository or an enema. I usually intervene every four to seven days when I can no longer stand the backup. Sometimes, an enema is not possible and I will use either a Dulcolax suppository or Dulcolax tablets. However, an enema is always my preference and works better than anything else. Sometimes, I think that I am just doing enemas because it is a fetish and swear off of them. Then, I realize that I truly cannot poop without one and get so much relief from a real problem when I do it. .

No problem here. I rarely need an enema. But I often want one. On the rare occasion I need one, I also want it.

I, too, rarely if ever really need an enema, but I always desire to take one... or two... or three.... I just love the feeling that enemas give me...

How many of us ever really "need" an enema? Probably not very many at all, and even those probably only need them once in a great while.

As for me - I just simply like and crave enemas. Nothing can compare to the completely "all about ME" arousal and fulfillment that a nice, warm enema gives me. I might be in the one percentile, but that's how I really do feel about it.

If enemas were only for "need", there probably wouldn't be a Zity, and there certainly would be a lot less money spent on manufacturing/marketing/buying enema products.

Just my opinion....

It seems to me that you can have a need without it being a desire but a desire becomes a need inorder to satisfy the desire.

I guess a person can make a reason to do anything, but to know whether something is out of need or desire when it comes to enemas for me its a simple choice, i believe deep down we all know when we take one if it is out of need or desire, now saying that,either way i see no harm done

Why botherl it all feels good

I suppose the best will be in taking enemas for both issues.

We've had similar threads before - there are some in each camp and some who take for both.

I have IBS-C, enemas are part of the way I stay comfortable from the constipation, bloating, and mild cramping that comes with the territory. There are times when my bowels go on strike and the only way I can get things moving is with something strong, and enemas are fast and effective (vs. oral meds that take an unknown but generally long time and can increase cramping).

I'm trying to move towards the "both" camp and get some thrills from the enemas as well because I'm taking them anyway, so why not? It's taking some time, though, because there's a part of me that feels safer having them be "need-only"

I use them for both issues. My short gut syndrome and no internal rectal sphincters make them a need and I enjoy them.

My spouse has bad IBS and asks for a couple 16 oz. bulbs every morning before work. She finds nothing erotic about them.

Definitely a WANT. I have no medical need for enemas. I do enemas for the erotic physical pleasure they give me.

My spouse has bad IBS and asks for a couple 16 oz. bulbs every morning before work. She finds nothing erotic about them.

I wonder if that means I will have limited erotic potential from enemas as well. Perhaps I should try taking some at a time when things are calm in IBS-ville (when will this be? Who knows, sadly things seem worse) and see if they feel more erotic.

Put me and my hubby into the "definitely want" category .. although, on very rare occasions there is a need ... very very rare ... my last need was in March, his before that.

We both enjoy a good nozzle insertion, the warm liquid entering our bodies, and all the other 'play' that goes along with activity, prior to holding as long as we can before expelling.

I would say at different times and in different situations an enema can be a need or a want.

It's a need at times and when that happens so be it!! Do what you know you need to do.