Simple question. Answer depends....
When you fill your pants, poop yourself, load your diapers, do you:
1. Sit in it an mush around?
Yes but only when I have time to clean up..
2. Avoid any contact with the stuff loaded into your pants for as long as possible?
Not really but if no time to clean up it is easier...
3. Immediately begin self-loathing and figure out how, when and where you are going to get yourself cleaned up?
No but I do feel silly about the whole thing sometimes. I do worry about getting caught
4. Decide how long you can possibly stay in the mess, enjoy it, and deal with cleanup way later on down the line?
That is all part of it..
5. Rue the fact you've pooped your pants, and beat yourself up for being ...
Not into the baby thing but, Same as 3
6. Enjoy every moment of a favorite activity, spend the time you can, and then plan for clean-up as you can, when you can and return to life again.
Yes enjoy it then clean up and return to real life