Enjoying verbal humiliation and enemas

I love that kind of thing how about you

Yes indeed. Very much a part of my childhood enemas. Why I'm getting it, what's going to happen, and always "it's not nice, but we have to wash your bowels.

Still enjoy "being told"

For me personally, being verbal is a big part of the play, maybe not humiliating talk, but being verbal...such as how does that feel, is it hurting, etc!!!

Knowing what my Father went through growing up, I can't imagine anyone actually enjoying verbal humiliation!!

In my little world, enemas are for enjoyment. Even for health reasons, relief is a form of enjoyment. Never did enjoy verbally or physical abuse, punishment or being humiliated. Some people do and that is great for a person to have what they enjoy and not what they don't. Guess what I'm trying to say that if it feels good and doesn't cause harm or discomfort to anyone else, do it.

I'm not into verbal humiliation at any time. Being given an enema by someone is humiliation enough in itself.

View6--You got that right! Thanks for posting it.

hankb

I do not think that verbal humiliation should be part of receiving an enema!

Janet S

Verbal humiliation isn't my thing either. I don't like to hear it and I certainly would not do it to another person. My enemas are very sexual and when I have given them to others I express a caring but very sensual / sexual language that I think adds to the sexual enjoyment of the receiver.

Unless the person is into verbal humiliation, I find it counter productive for the enjoyment of a good enema. While the physical and mental humiliation of either having to watch the enema being prepared, or having to prepare it yourself for another person to administer it to you, then baring yourself for its administration, is stimulating enough, I feel that any verbal humiliation would just ruin the mood set.

Depends on what is said I think

To each his own. Humiliation is an important part of enemas, especially for males. Verbal humiliation can make an enema more erotic.

I'm actually the opposite!

I get better results, and get to my retention goals much better with positive talk. Both self-talk and talk from my husband!! All around, the more I can focus on how much better a clear return feels, and on a sense of satisfaction from a clear return, the better!!

Verbal humiliation is not the answer. I am always positive and caring when giving an enema

I am not at all into verb humiliation. I like positive reinforcement. I like dirty talk but nothing negative.

If it's something consensual , why not?

Between consenting I think it's hard to find words humiliating, provided they are not in the presence of other people. Instead, if you are forced and do not like to take enemas, just a little hint to humble you.

I guess it would ba a punishment enema.

Though it is a subject that comes up often, I cannot get my head around punishment enemas. To me enemas are pleasant and verbal humiliation would detract from the enema experience. That is the case for me, even though I can enjoy, be aroused by, verbal humiliation in another context.

It is a matter of definitions...

I define humiliation as attacking someone's self esteem. I am never in favor of that.

Embarrassing someone is a totally different story. That is OK by my rules and explained ahead of time with my playmates.

Well, verbal teasing is the best! Like the "You pervert" as he/she gives you coy smile. Or the look at me be in control of you comments I'm so tuff. So long as you do it in a coy teasing manner it's really cute and adds personality. Personal degradation stuff on the other hand, I don't know. If it bleeds into personal life definitely not.

Punishment enema's are great too so long as it has a 'I like doing this to you because you turn me on' vibe and not the "you are worthless trash" vibe.

It's important though that we encourage 'sexual dominance' because people (especially girls and women) get so shy about being the controller that they hide their sexuality. We can't all be subs

Well we could it would just suck

I love verbal and physical humiliation if I'm being sub to a Domme partner. Hearing about how much I'm going to get and how long to hold or what happens if I can't please her with my enema/restraint behavior all just heightens the submissive, have to learn to please her feelings.

And begging her not to do what she planned on, ignored of course, just makes her ramp up the "oh, honey, you are going to get yours tonight" dialogue even more. Oh, and she knows whatever she makes me do can be reversed when she wants to be sub. Outside such a mutually trusting D/s scenario and relationship, humiliation is just to be avoided. Of course if my D/s-sharing partner wants to spice up a normal day, she can always whisper things to me like "remember what I did to you last night? I have bigger plans for you(r butt) tonight."

Eric

Now, when I'm getting an enema, always verbal description and humiliation are a pert of it and really add to the whole scene.

But back when I was young enemas from my foster aunt (started when I was five), she was VERY verbal about the enema, why she was doing it, what it would be like

and how it would feel. She was quite a stern woman and committed to what she was doing. So as it getting the enema wasn't bad enough, her verbals left no doubt what it was all about.

As I said, Verbal humiliation while getting my bowels washed - a real tunon!

Yes, I agree. Verbal humiliation (including real or fantasy Dommes) before and during an enema makes it all the more delicious. Fantastic.

Eric

"We are going to have to take our enema" and it's just YOU getting it. I agree. The verbal embarrassment is very strong and shows the person getting it that they have to behave and surrender to it.

Sunday,

It is my thought that you are right. "Surrender" is the action that ultimately takes place.

"We are going to have to take our enema" and it's just YOU getting it. I agree. The verbal embarrassment is very strong and shows the person getting it that they have to behave and surrender to it.

I feel exactly the same way, giving or receiving. Since I'm a dedicated switch, I love it either way. Just giving myself a nice calm enema, which I did this afternoon, is really delightful, but the added spice of being "made" to hold still while my Domme pumps her solution into me, making sure who's in charge and how much I'm taking (and how many times and how long) is just exquisite. Same in reverse when I'm pumping enema into my subject. Fantastic.

Eric

My Mom: "You let yourself get constipated again, didn't you!??" (angry face as she prepares the soapy enema solution)

My Mom: "You let yourself get constipated again, didn't you!??" (angry face as she prepares the soapy enema solution)

Was your mom not caring or gentle when it came to your enemas ?

@ethan, She was very thorough and business-like when giving me enemas.