Men: Orgasm From Fellatio Alone?

I was wondering what other men's experiences have been with orgasm from fellatio alone. I have experienced it, but, it has been rare for me. Typically I need to get a blow job and hand job combo in order to orgasm. Men, are you similar to me or can you orgasm from fellatio alone?

Oral alone never did it for me. Yes, it felt wonderful, but never put me over the edge.

For me, nothing beats being balls deep in a warm wet vagina.

I must have great suction and tongue pressure because I always get my husband (and any man I have been with) off with fellatio alone.

What's the problem, guys? Aren't your women passionately into it?

I've also been hit or miss with cuming from fellatio alone. Maybe it's technique, maybe it's me. I don't mind a blow job, but I much prefer either a mix or just a hand job for intense orgasm.

I've also found that a big ego from a partner is not sexually productive. One GF 'knew' she gave great deep throat. That did very little for me. Another 'knew' what pressure and speed was good for me. She was wrong, very wrong. Partners who listen and learn are the best. I try to be that kind of partner.

Obviously, the two people have to communicate to let the other know what works for them and what doesn't.

I think the of smooth mucosa of the cheek and underside of the tongue in combination with the relative roughness of the dorsum of the tongue, not to mention how muscular the tongue is, makes for VERY good sensations.

I love it when my husband is doing cunnilingus and switches between rubbing me with his tongue and sliding the smooth mucosal inner aspect of his lips over my clitoris and labia. YUMM!

Obviously, we need more women like our very own Susie, and fewer types like JDs4med has run into. He's correct, communication (a GREAT thing when it happens!!!!) between partners is 99% of the battle for some great orgasmic treats!.

In answer to the posters question, yes, I have orgasmed just from a good round of fellatio without other stimuli. Suction and swirling tongue will do it every time for me.

Communication must go both directions - and be groked.

Susie, you're right. Partners who understand both their and their partner's body AND LIKES/DISLIKES are the best lovers.

Good lovers are MADE not born.

Back in the day, every dude I sucked came, too. They loved it. That's why I've always thought blowjobs were the piece de resistance for men. I've known a couple guys who've said their wives would not blow them.

My wife didn't like it. She's among the women I know that convince themselves that guys can't be happy without ejaculating in a mouth. I'm happy with a lover that's happy.

I learned to suck cock from porno movies when I was a teenager. They almost always swallowed, so I made my mind up to do that with boys I really liked--not every guy.

I have to say porno flicks in my teen years played a big role in the activities I engaged in. One ubiquitous characteristic was ENTHUSIASM.

I actually spent most of my life thinking no decent girl would want me to come in her mouth, to the point where the first time i did, i tried to warn her & i was going to withdraw from her mouth, fearing she'd get pissed. She gestured reassurance that it was okay, making me realize i should've held out for better partner choices to someone who would satisfy me in that way,, because i appreciate it to the point i would dig a long term relationship if that were prevalent, I like that it doesn't risk pregnancy, that it is a great alternative during her period, AND, that she says she experiences a rush through her body as she feels the sensation with the rush of my orgasem going through my whole body & inti hers. I guess there's something to that.

I certainly like the idea of fellatio but find I have difficulty having an orgasm with it. I don't know why. I guess I should have tried Susie. Cunnilingus however is just fine. I love that.

I certainly like the idea of fellatio but find I have difficulty having an orgasm with it. I don't know why. I guess I should have tried Susie. Cunnilingus however is just fine. I love that.

I'm with you. I enjoy fellatio but need more. I love helping my partner achieve an ecstatic orgasm or 10, especially via cunnilingus.

Oh definitely yes. BJs are quite nice. But the one giving needs to be in tune with you and know how to perform this wonderful delight.

I would not prefer to cum this way over other types of sex where I am penetrating a vagina or anus, but if you partner takes charge says how about a nice BJ as a treat- I am all in.

Oh yes, and it is just fantastic

My husband loves fellatio. It's sex with no work.

All he has to do is lay there and enjoy it!

The times I have orgasmed from fellatio, it's never been as intense as intercourse or a great hand job. A skilled hand job is my favorite.

It's not the same. The man still does work.

It's actually hard for an enthusiastic woman on top to fuck a dead man, even if he has an erection. We've tried it, it doesn't work, certainly no fun for either.

You just don't want to do the work 😉

Switchablesusie: I don't know... when I'm underneath I may do a little thrusting, and I caress and kiss her but the hard job is done by my wife, who controls the situation. It's really the converse of the missionary position (I do most of the work, she does a bit and caresses me).

I find this position (woman on top lying on me) particularly enjoyable if my wife is enthusiastic. It's not much fun with a tired woman.

Why all this talk about passive sex? One should be sexually active!

Why all this talk about passive sex? One should be sexually active!

Sometimes, especially in the BDSM world, having the control afforded by active motion removed is desirable.

Why all this talk about passive sex? One should be sexually active!

I have to say, there are times I like to lay back, spread my legs and have my husband fuck my brains out. We also have a special firm cushion designed to hold you in sexual positions that we got on Amazon that supports me in doggie position for a thorough fucking where I just take it!

I also love laying there and having him eat me out until I am exhausted from orgasming. My husband feels the same about blow jobs.

Its the same with the good fucking machines, you just lay there and have it done to you.

I seem to be able to cum no matter what is done.

My husband gets off when i go down on him ... almost 100% of the time when i specifically do him to get him off orally ... other times ... he is a diabetic ... and has some problems with ED ... so i learned .. or adapted .. to going down on him to get him hard enough to penetrate me ... vaginally .. or anally ... and take him that way. Sometimes he isn't able to maintain ... so i have him pull out ... i go down on him until he is up again ... and then i can get me off and he can finish too. Mostly ... if i want him anally ... i do have to go down on him to get him hard enough to enter my ass ... but that is a ... 'one shot' ... event because i don't go down on him ... or any man ... once i have taken them in my ass. But hubby likes my ass ... and once i get him up .. if he needs it .. he can finish the job ... 😄

So ... fellatio alone ... i can get him off every time ... 😄

Definitely works for me, although not every time. Depends who's doing the felatio and how in tune we are with each other.Love to be sucked for a long time after I have come too, if the the other person is into it. Just find it very soothing and relaxing, not to mention there is always the possibility Stiffy will rise to the occasion for another round.

I would have to say - that when I feel, and taste, a man cum in my mouth, I'd have to say that he had an orgasm. Now - I'm no scientist, but when he cums in my mouth, I'm thinking that he had an orgasm.

I have definitely ejaculated from fellatio only though I have not found a lot of guys who want to get me off that way. I love to ejaculate from oral alone but do not like it unless the cocksucker is willing to swallow. If they want to spit it out, I prefer they just give me a hand job.

I have definitely ejaculated from fellatio only though I have not found a lot of guys who want to get me off that way. I love to ejaculate from oral alone but do not like it unless the cocksucker is willing to swallow. If they want to spit it out, I prefer they just give me a hand job.

What's the difference? You had your orgasm in their mouth, whether they spit or swallow, your penis got the same treatment. I've never heard of anybody swallowing while the penis was still buried in their mouth.