Reaction of parents to masturbation

When I was a kid growing up, masturbating was totally prohibited. I was never caught, but if I had been, I'm certain there would have been lectures, and possibly a good whipping. My parent's view on this, was both religious, and very "old-school". Since I was given lots of enemas, and was always very excited anally, and did love to masturbate, I was always afraid of being caught. I'm not certain as to why the stains in my underwear, and on my bed sheets were never questioned, but always had that fear, for certain. Also, I had hidden objects that I used in my butt, for added excitements there. A few times I did get an erection during an enema, was always glad that wasn't questioned. Also, did get my butt spanked, on a regular basis, for punishments of various things. I didn't like that at the time, but that has always been an erotic excitement to me, also.

I would not like for kids to be that scared of themselves today. I think it should be discussed with kids, and just told to them to do that if they want, in a private situation. It's a normal, natural part of life, and should be treated as such. Mike.

My parents never caught me, but my younger brother once came into my room while I was humping a pillow. After giving him grief for not knocking, I eventually explained what I was doing and why (felt good, of course!). He surprised me by saying that he liked to rub against objects too. We ended up have an awkward but enlightened conversation about favorite masturbation techniques.

I was never caught but I recall being told masturbating was bad for my health, and weakens my bones (or something stupid like that). I guess it was that generation.

I am guessing my kids do, but I respect their privacy and never "caught them". I have always told them from a young age that is a "private" thing and normal. I am not about to make the same mistakes my parents did.

I was never caught by my parents or siblings. Or maybe they choose to ignore any signs. Who knows?

My wife was sometimes very ignorant about the practice I think. She'd had a strict upbringing and must have been really lectured about masturbation as evil so much that it was still something she was uneasy about.

Anyway, at times she would complain about what were olive oil stains on our son's clothes, especially undergarments or towels. I tried to turn her attention away from it, but once she got all worked up and wanted to confront our son. I then spilled the beans to her: the olive oil was probably for lubrication when he masturbated.

Well, uhum ... I think she turned 50 shades of red when she realized the truth of what I said and never brought it up again. I was laughing uproariously afterwards at her otherwise uncharacteristic naivité, but never joshed her about it again afterwards though. You don't do that kind of thing to a lady. 😃

Good for you jce3106 thats the way it should be, masturbation is a natural thing kids at a early age start discovering them selves nothing wrong with that. If I had children I would understand perfectly what was going on, I would tell them it was private thing and to do it in their bedroom not in public.

Sis and I both masturbated at an early age. Since we got our enemas together naked, we saw each other doing it as we held our enemas. Grandma never said anything, and when we started doing each other's enemas, we also masturbated each other.

That is really erotic.

I am anxiously waiting to hear you finally did the deed!

Sis and I both masturbated at an early age. Since we got our enemas together naked, we saw each other doing it as we held our enemas. Grandma never said anything, and when we started doing each other's enemas, we also masturbated each other.

That is both one of the most arousing, and one of the most disturbing, things I've ever read.

Agracier: Wow! Any idea why your son needed lubrication? Most uncircumcised males do without it, don't they?

Pecan nutjob said

Agracier: Wow! Any idea why your son needed lubrication? Most uncircumcised males do without it, don't they?

The kid likes it wet--like pussy. What's not to understand?

Twice I was caught. Both times with a vacuum cleaner. Once with my mom trying to see what the noise was behind my closed bedroom door. Not a word was said by her to me following that incident. Keep in mind a vacuum cleaner is not as quiet as a vibrator. I would place my flaccid penis inside the nozzle and it would shake and pull and get down right hard as a rock quickly increasing my heart rate. I found out by chance once what ejaculation was for the first time ever with a vacuum cleaner hose on my dick. Never before had I stimulated myself to orgasm. It was violent, down right scary and felt really good. I did not have any idea what this preteen boy had just done. I just knew that I had to do it again. It became habit forming whenever no one was home.This was a canister vac that was round low to the ground and on wheels and had a long hose that connected to it. The nozzle was higher on the top and the hot discharge airflow blew air out towards my anus and balls. I could squat down and hug the vac with my knees and thighs thrusting my pelvis forward and back. It is like it was designed for this purpose. I lived only a house away from my grandparents home. One time during the holidays. I went home to what I was thinking was a time for a quickie with the vac only to have my sister and a couple of cousins walk in on me. Again no words were discussed, I was the oldest of the kids there. I am sure that that embarrassing event has been discussed in later years. The vac I used disappeared only to be found again decades later when my grandparents were moving to a sunnier state. I took the vac home with other items they were giving away, anticipating to use it whenever I got a chance to be alone with it again. Unfortunately my body was not as young and virile as my youth and it took much longer to get the same results and I inadvertently damaged the skin at the edges. It healed quickly, but the days of the vac were over. Now it is a Venus 2000 to help out. Married almost 30 years with ED as a result of drugs treating congestive heart failure.

Agracier: Wow! Any idea why your son needed lubrication? Most uncircumcised males do without it, don't they?

I never asked and never gave any indication I knew. He was old enough to know what he liked. Why humiliate and embarrass him beyond words, to ask about an unimportant sexual preference?

Well said agracier, a parents only involvement (for want of a better word) is if catch is to apologise for walking in on them and letting them know its normal and healthy. As long as not doing something potentially harmful then who cares if male likes to use lube or girl likes a toy its totally no one elses business.

So unless its auto asphyxiation or some other potentially harmful thing that I have not heard of I would say nothing either,

I was never caught, though in retrospect, there may have been times I wasn't as discrete as I thought.

My parents didn't talk to us about sex, which means I wasn't indoctrinated with ideas about sin and going blind and never developed feelings of guilt for doing something which felt good and didn't affect anyone else.

I was caught several times by my parents. The first time was by dad while I was sprawled out on my bed naked going at it. He told me "You shouldn't do that" and left. The next time was several years later. That time he just rolled his eyes, turned around and left without saying anything then or later. Mom caught me once after that when she opened my bedroom door. She said "Oh, excuse me" and left again.

I was caught several times by my parents. The first time was by dad while I was sprawled out on my bed naked going at it. He told me "You shouldn't do that" and left. The next time was several years later. That time he just rolled his eyes, turned around and left without saying anything then or later. Mom caught me once after that when she opened my bedroom door. She said "Oh, excuse me" and left again.

HA!

As if he didn't do it too.

Parents can be such hypocrites. They frequently want their children to believe they weren't horny bastards just like we are. Shame on them. We are all here because they were horny.

Agracier: Wow! Any idea why your son needed lubrication? Most uncircumcised males do without it, don't they?

But why rub it dry when you can lube up and make it much more enjoyable and comfortable?

Somehow I don't think I'll ever be in a situation where I'd now be able to ask him without us both turning beet red ... 😃

I was never caught but a few years ago I caught my son (11yo) right as he was having an orgasm. I started to turn around and walk out and he just said "look, I can cum now"-----I was more embarrassed than he was.---it is a different world now with kids on the internet

Sis & I grew up receiving twice weekly enemas together in Grandma's bathroom. We were always naked, and took turns releasing until we were empty. When she reached puberty, she told me she was enjoying the"unusual" feelings her enemas were causing. Although two years younger, I had noticed them, too. Although I had not noticed her wetness, she had noticed my erections. One day, while in her bedroom waiting for our mandatory 30 minute hold to finish, She started masturbating, and told me how good it felt. I had been sneaking since I was about 7 or 8, so I joined her. We were soon sneaking enemas together when Mom and Gram were at work. We always masturbated each other as we filled and held. By late teens, we were doing oral. Mom walked in unexpectedly one day while we were in Sis's bed masturbating. She told us it was perfectly natural, but to NEVER tell anyone we were doing each other.

When my two sons would stay with me on weekends, they would take LONG showers. I'd rap on the bathroom door and say< "I don't care if you're jacking off, but please don't run my hot water tank out of water."

Come on, be a sport. It's nice to jerk off with warm water flowing over your body.

I have been known to take showers lasting two to three hours!

I have been known to take showers lasting two to three hours!

Ecologically irresponsible ... ha ha ha.

When I was young I'd take hours long baths, hot as could be. That was even before I discovered masturbation (I liked to read in the bath). So when someone, usually my father, made snide remarks about being in the bath so long, I had absolutely no idea what he was talking about.

Ecologically irresponsible ... ha ha ha.. . .

The showers are nothing compared to approximately three quarters of a million gallons of water we used last summer quarter watering the lawn and gardens!

Hey, if I'm paying for it, I can take any shower I like. 😁

I love the water from the shower heads raining down on my naked glistening body. 😁 😁 😁

The showers are nothing compared to approximately three quarters of a million gallons of water we used last summer quarter on the lawn and gardens!

Hey, if I'm paying for it, I can take any shower I like. 😁

Just to show how relative attitudes can be: we are encouraged to brush our teeth without the water running in a faucet. Just to use water to wet and rinse. And most friends of mine are almost religious in their devotion to such things. You'd be drawn and quartered for using so much water in that way.

Not to mention financially ruined from the expense of paying the water bills alone and we're not even talking the taxes on it afterwards ... ha ha.

We have very high water bills due to volume and I don't have to worry about running water at a sink when I brush my teeth because I brush and floss in the shower where I am kept warm and cozy under the "raining" water and my husband has the habit of drilling out any water restrictors in faucets and shower heads because he like fire-hose forceful showers, except his aren't as long as mine.

On the occasions I brushed and flossed at the sink, I would turn the water off because I tend to walk around the house during the six or seven minutes I brush and floss.

Yes, and what's all this crap about making us feel guilty over letting the water run when we brush our teeth? I first saw that ad during the last Superbowl and swore out loud and often about the "superior" people who paid for the ad. All the "superior" people tell us we should feel guilty for tobacco use, not exercising, eating meat, or not being vegan, using up too much gasoline, instead of driving a Prius, etc. They need to go "F" themselves!

Kids age 8 and above get themselves off. That's the way we are made as humans. Why even some of us stick hoses up our behinds ("How disgusting!") F.O.

My mom noticed a few times and asked me to stop, later some times she checked my fingers (smell) and some times I had done it and she could notice it. She told me its dirty and I should not touch there. Actually I think it was not so bad maybe all moms will have some worry about it, especially in China it is considered very bad. I think she could know I did it often even if I was very careful from the age I could know what it is. I felt really some shame about it because I did so much, even 2-3 times every day since 8 years and some days more than it. Maybe if she could know how much she will be really mad at me. I always think now that I was so innocent looking nobody could imagine I'm not only perfect school girl but also like nymphomaniac in my bedroom cum so hard many times every night, the pleasure feeling is so high I could not resist it. I know now some parents who find this strong behavior will take the daughter to the doctor but maybe nothing to do.

I didn't get a telling off from my mother when she found me masturbating. She once caught me doing it when she walked in on me having a bath. I think she forgot I was still in the bathroom and she saw everything. I was standing there in the bathtub with my erection in my hand and she could hardly miss seeing everything. I was shocked that I had been caught. She never made anything of it but only told me to carry on and left the room.

I know now some parents who find this strong behavior will take the daughter to the doctor but maybe nothing to do.

Certainly nothing to do, normal part of being hormone driven horny teen totally natural

Molliewhite: It sure was sometimes the case in decades gone by that parents took children to the doctor for masturbation... I saw it mentioned pre-WW2 in France.