Love wearing women's clothes... scared of leaving the house wearing them

I love dressing in women's clothes and make up. I only ever do so in the safety of my own home. I would love to wear them out and about but am terrified of someone I know seeing me and the stigma. Anyone any advice?

I to love wearing womens clothes and love bra and pantiesand garterbelt and nylons around the house

I feel as you do I don't want to have anyone see met or know. I mostly only underdress anyway and only do it out of the house in colder weather when it isn't noticeable under my clothes except for panties and nylons you can get away with them almost anytime but I limit them too. I think it wise to be careful.

A very nice lady on this site suggest I go window shoping this weekend and that I should wear a bra (lightly stuffed) and a shirt that is somewhat see through, eyeliner and vasaline for lip gloss.

I think I will also wear a "sex nuetral" wig. I'm still on the fence regarding eyeliner esp. since I always think I have never got it all off.

Hi ibeen wearing womens clothing for many yrs started when after my enemas when young I would get panties put on me by my older sister . Mom whet along with it it was just us three girls when older started wear bras and then dresseswould go out dressed with mom and sister . so it felt ok .I still love wearbras and panties 24/7 and going out with wife dressed as female .

DON'T DO IT!!!

Listen to yourself first. No one here knows your situation better than you do. If you're truly afraid of being found out then it is NOT worth it. This kink or fetish or whatever it is, that you have is no one else's business and not worth putting undue strain on all your relationships just to go outside and feel "the rush".

I'm a closet fetishist and I would NEVER jeopardize my relationships unless it is a life changing move that I want to make which it is NOT. I'm guessing you're in the same boat.

I love dressing up as both a baby girl and an adult woman. If I were to go out like this I'd rather be dressed up to the point no one could see I was really a man. That being said I'm not going out dressed something that would give it away that I was a man. I mean sure I might go out dressed like a baby girl but only to some party or maybe even against my will but I don't want anyone to be able to distinguish me from being anything but a woman. If this level of disguise is not possible then venturing out in public is also not possible. I'd be more then happy to allow a group of ladies to see me dressed like a baby girl but if I can't trust them to keep it between us then it's never going to happen. Heck I don't care if they use that info for blackmail (as long as the black mail is nothing serious or against my wishes) then I might be ok with that.

Try it on Halloween night. That way you have a plausible excuse if it doesn't go well.

And get back home before you have t pee.

The night is your friend. Find a TG/CD friendly bar far enough from your home that the risk of running into people that know you along the way is low. Put on the makeup, less lipstick, and your lingerie under regular street clothes, put on a cap and shades and quickly walk to your car or the metro. Change into your fem clothes and put on the lipstick in the car or a public, hopefully unisex restroom along the way.

I too love wearing women's clothes. The first time I was 6 or 7 years old and I wore my sister's panties. Later I tried makeup as well and found that it really aroused me. Most of the women in my life have been tolerant of this but now I'm with a woman who likes it and encourages me. She also wants to take me out in public in Austin, Tx, about 60 miles away.

It's far enough that I don't think we would run into anyone we know but I still worry about how others will react. Truth is, when I look in the mirror I see an ugly man then with makeup and a wig and a dress with high heels I look and see a pretty woman. I'm not gay so I hope no guys try to pick me up and if they do my girlfriend will say that we are two lesbians and not interested.

So, while I'm kinda scared about my debut, I'm also looking forward to it and if all goes well I may do it on a regular basis. For me getting dressed is like foreplay, it's what builds the excitement and desire.

Try roaming in a new neighborhood so that no one would know you 😃

Basically, I have a very very feminine side, love to play submissive woman (no not all women are submissive or enjoy it, I get it), and dress in women's athletic, diving and other similar clothes and sneakers. Ask me about a particularly intense SCUBA training dive I ran with a group of college women (and men) in a hot sweaty van, all of them in dripping wetsuits and sneakers. Yes, I do get that kink and teaching whatever you teach are totally separate, and I'm very proud of my record of fine SCUBA training courses, mixed young men and women.

Dr. Dick

(Sitting here in my living room recovering from an especially intense JBL run today, wearing a very nice pink-accented "female" neoprene running suit and somewhat "female" Converse high tops [bright pink - I love pink]- [if you don't have the nuts to wear one of God and man's most stunning colors, you need bigger nuts].) (I'd actually love to dress this way most of the time, except when I like a nicely tailored suit and beautiful tie and smart shoes.)

I've always wondered what it would be like to rent a big enough indoor space to have the fun of actually moving around but staying more private...

I've never been out in full dress, nor do I think I could. I have wore some of my flats and even some of my heels. It is so much fun, though I usually go for darker colored shoes. Most people don't seem to care for the most part, unless you wear something flashy that gets their attention. I have got strange looks a couple of times when trying new shoes on though. Always uncomfortable, but usually short lived. Then the fun can resume. The biggest thing is not to act weird.

Oh, and if you go for heels make sure you choose a pair you can walk in well, since you want to adopt your normal walking style not a more feminine one. Stumbling around or walking more feminine will only make it more likely that you are noticed.

Ok, I imagine by reading your post that you are TV rather than TS.?

Although when first venturing out into the outside world, it is pretty much the same for both.

My advice would be to dress sensibly, just wear the same sort of clothing as you see women wearing every day of the week. Wear sensible make up, without going over the top.

Go to somewhere like a shopping centre where there are lots of people, and just mingle and mix in with them.

If someone does look at you a little strange then they probably have read you, or they may be unsure if you are male or female.

Just smile all the time., be confident and sure of yourself, and if someone looks at you, smile back.

If you do see someone who you know, don't panic, just carry on doing whatever you are doing, and don't draw attention to yourself. It is a 90%+ chance that they would not recognise you. Clothes and make up completely change someone's appearance. Where you would need to be careful is going in and out of your house, or getting in and out of your car. People easily recognise cars.

When I first started going out dressed, I was very young and naive. I still lived at home with my parents, so I would have to wait until late at night when they were in bed. Late nights and very early mornings can be dangerous if you are alone and not very confident and comfortable with yourself.

I had a very nasty experience that will live with me for the rest of my life. I was very lucky, as I got away. I could have been raped or even worse. But it was caused by my own inexperience and through being very naive.

I have been raped on 2 occasions since, but I was older then, and I knew what was coming.

When I first started going out I have seen many people who knew me, but I am sure that with one exception, none of them recognised me.

One woman who I knew even asked me if the last bus had gone. She either didn't recognise me, or if she did, she never told anyone.

The person who did recognise me was just as shocked at me discovering her secret, as I was with her discovering mine. We literally almost bumped right into each other.

She accepted me for who I was, and to this day, we remain best friends.

So my advice is, be careful, work out where you are going, pick somewhere with lots of people around, be confident and have your wits about you at all times. Don't go out alone very late at night, and above all smile at all times.

Hope this helps

Visit a gay bar. You'll be welcome, and have a great time. If you're in a city, visit the Gaybourhood. You'll be able to walk around, shop, and be the woman you want to be.

I dress fully from head to toe. Lucky for me, I have an ally behind my house where I always parade around at night. I'm in a small town. I have dressed up and drove around the backroads at night. Halloween is your safest bet until you're 100% comfortable. I have been thru road blocks while dressed and I said I left a costume party or club which really isn't anyone's business, but it was still a rush. I had a cop catch me in my ally behind my house and it turned into a hot sex session. I do get nervous at times due to complete strangers that like to cut thru the ally as a short cut and some of them attempted to get something out of it. I wanted it, but I didn't know what would happen had they found out that I was a male. I often carry concealed while I'm doing this, depending on what I'm wearing.