The feminine mind

I am in my second marriage and 70 years old and have dated a number of women over my lifetime. I have no idea what is in the " feminine mind".

I am in my second marriage and 70 years old and have dated a number of women over my lifetime. I have no idea what is in the " feminine mind".

Amen brother. While my wife hates all things anal, especially enemas there are other women who love a good assful of suds. Go figure!

All of the above. My wife loved anal, but had no interest in enemas - at least not in sharing them. Some women (and men) use enemas as a hygienic practice. Many women like them as a sexual activity, either alone or with a partner. And lots like them for both. Some just don't like them at all. Impossible to put a response out that encompasses all women.

Trying to understand women is like trying to understand what color the number seven smells like.

“Feminine mind”…is that oxymoronic? (Gawd will get me for that!!! lol)

"Feminine mind”…is that oxymoronic? (Gawd will get me for that!!! lol)

You're lucky that many of us are thru menopause because given those certain days of our cycles we would probably want to come looking for you for making such a statement. Not sure you'd enjoy seeing a bunch of POed women who are PMSing.

Not sure you'd enjoy seeing a bunch of POed women who are PMSing.

Oh hell no. A fate worse than death.

Are we saying that woman are not logical here?

If I can speak as a woman for women in general, I’d say:

The way women relate to enemas is largely due to the manner in which they are being given them. I was introduced to enemas as an already mature woman in a very sensual relaxed sort of way and that has become my very preferred manner of relating to them since. And YES! It does have to do with my feminine submissive body AND logical MIND!

You want to know what's wrong with that question and many other questions on this site, Why are individuals always trying to Pidgeon hole everyone, we are all sexual beings some more than others, you would think that anyone on this site would be interested in Enemas, why else would you be here. Some like to give some like to get and some like to watch, and some like to give and get. If anyone wants to try to introduce some one to the sensual, joys of receiving or giving, then do it with style and affection, unless of course he or she has indicated otherwise, and is the rough and ready, then go for it, but why do we need to strip away all of our fantasies, to get to where the rubber meets the road. Just my opinion

I think the biggest differences are

Sexually: We women are diesel locomotives. We need a while to get to speed. But once we do, either hop on or get out of the way Men are more like sports cars. 0-60 in 4.5 seconds! it's also a lot easier to crash and burn in a sports car!

Emotionally: it's just toe opposite. Something really goes wrong, I think we process it faster and more intensely than men do!!

“Feminine mind”…is that oxymoronic? (Gawd will get me for that!!! lol)

@duhwizzard can you see the torches and pitchforks yet?

If I can speak as a woman for women in general, I’d say:

The way women relate to enemas is largely due to the manner in which they are being given them. I was introduced to enemas as an already mature woman in a very sensual relaxed sort of way and that has become my very preferred manner of relating to them since. —anng

Absolutely! Although unexpected, I experienced an enema given from a nurse in a sensual manner. The enema was intended for health purposes, but the nurse recognized what was happening, assured me it was normal and to “just go with it.” In other words, enjoy the ride.

That was my “introduction” as an adult, with an overly reactIve GI system, to the health benefits of the enema. A memorable surprise! I feel better physically and often mentally after an enema, and in those cases times when “normal” happens unexpectedly, it’s nice to relax and enjoy the ride.

Emotionally: it's just toe opposite. Something really goes wrong, I think we process it faster and more intensely than men do!!

… and never forget much either.

My mother would berate my father for things he was said to have done more than 50 years ago.

I believe more men find enema erotic for myriad reasons. Some of which are as follows:

• Anatomy, we women don't have prostates. Not that I am an authority on anatomy but while women's G-spots are supposed to be the equivalent and I have read that it is possible to stimulate the G-spot through the rectum. G-spots aren't the easiest thing to find even when you are looking in the right opening so I would think that looking for the G-Spot through the rectum instate of the vagina would be like trying to find the Washington monument from Northern Virginia.
• Most all of us were given enemas by our mothers or at least I was so therefore you got the opposite sex angle from the early years. I know that there is one poster here that says her father gave her enemas but I think that would be the exception, not the rule.
• If mothers used the over-the-lap position, a male's sexual organ is touching the administrator's warm thighs. As you know, a female's clit is sorta shielded. Even if the administrator is using the over-the-seat position, as my mother did, the penis is making contact with some surface. Again a female's clit is shielded.
• Last but not least, men are more easily aroused.

While there are probably others, those are the points that come to my head.

Anatomy, we women don't have prostates. Not that I am an authority on anatomy but while women's G-spots are supposed to be the equivalent and I have read that it is possible to stimulate the G-spot through the rectum. G-spots aren't the easiest thing to find even when you are looking in the right opening so I would think that looking for the G-Spot through the rectum instate of the vagina would be like trying to find the Washington monument from Northern Virginia.

I have met several women who really enjoy the anal stimulation of an enema and toys while using a vibrator on the front. The anal stimulation seemed to make their orgasm very hard so I disagree that men are more anally stimulated. There are nerve clusters that run from anus to vagina.

Most all of us were given enemas by our mothers or at least I was so therefore you got the opposite sex angle from the early years. I know that there is one poster here that says her father gave her enemas but I think that would be the exception, not the rule.

I never considered the opposite sex theory but I do know that I wanted to give women enemas from a very young age. This was a result of having mine forced on me by my mother. Would I have had the same fetish if dad had done it. I'm really not sure so I will concede thisa one.

If mothers used the over-the-lap position, a male's sexual organ is touching the administrator's warm thighs. As you know, a female's clit is sorta shielded. Even if the administrator is using the over-the-seat position, as my mother did, the penis is making contact with some surface. Again a female's clit is shielded.

I got mine on the bed and didn't masturbate to the thought of giving enemas for 5 or 6 years after my last. I don't buy this one.

Last but not least, men are more easily aroused.

I don't think so and females can have multiple orgasms one after the other. Guys just can't have more than one or two even when they are 20 years old.

While there are probably others, those are the points that come to my head.

@ddell2 said,

I believe more men find enema erotic for myriad reasons. Some of which are as follows:

• Anatomy, we women don't have prostates. Not that I am an authority on anatomy but while women's G-spots are supposed to be the equivalent and I have read that it is possible to stimulate the G-spot through the rectum. G-spots aren't the easiest thing to find even when you are looking in the right opening so I would think that looking for the G-Spot through the rectum instate of the vagina would be like trying to find the Washington monument from Northern Virginia.

When my wife an I were first married before we had kids. We did enemas during sexual intercourse occasionally, meaning one or both would hold a two quart enema during intercourse. Once the two quart enema and butt plug were in place, if she was the one holding, I’d mount her and we’d have intercourse. I could feel the butt plug with my penis through her vagina and she in turn could feel the butt plug moving back and forth in her rectum just enough to be erotic and very pleasurable. She never failed to have a big orgasm during this method of sexual intercourse. Was it her G-spot, I can’t answer that, I don’t know for sure. What I can answer is that, when I was holding a two quart enema with a butt plug. The movement of sexual intercourse caused the butt plug to move just enough in my rectum to tickle my prostate, really making my orgasm last longer, filling her vagina with more cum than normal.

I can’t speak for other women, but I can for my sister, girlfriends, and wife. They were all anal erotic and enjoyed a good enema with anal masturbation using the douche nozzle. This never failing to give them an intense orgasm and was especially true at the end of their periods.

• Last but not least, men are more easily aroused.

Don't mean to pile on ……

This is probably NOT a juried scientific response, but Dr. Sherry Ross (ob/gyn Dr. , author and health expert) was asked if men really get aroused more easily than women.

"Women are highly sensitive down there because it’s composed of millions of nerve endings — similar to that of the male genitalia. BUT, us women have reason to be smug, because we have 8,000 nerve endings below the belt, while men have only 4,000 – that’s twice as many! So, yes, you can definitely get aroused faster than your hubs!”

I'll just sit on the porch with this thread and appreciate the woman's position.

@That_Australian said,

I'll just sit on the porch with this thread and appreciate the woman's position.

Chicken… :-)

I have been married twice to two women and both of them could argue both sides of a discussion and that way they always WIN! The only way a man can win? a discussion is rebut with two words. Those words are, “YES, DEAR!” Either way, he sleeps on the couch because he tried to understand feiminin logic. We love the women and there is no other way.

One argument you can't loose is, "An enema a day keeps the doctor away!"

Now, go figure!!

@gape said,

Do women relate to enemas as a sexual preference, a hygienic practice, or perhaps something else.?

My sister, girlfriends, and wife that I’ve administered enemas too, saw them as a means of personal hygiene, stress relief, relief from sexual tension, and just plain fun to do sometimes. It all depended on the situation and need. Understand also, they were all anal erotic, knew I was anal erotic and enjoyed giving me enemas, just as much as I enjoyed giving them enemas when the need arose. I can only speak regarding the girls I’ve administered enemas too, and that is, “they’ve all used enemas, at one time or another, for the reasons listed in the above quote.”

I was lucky my siblings an I could talk freely about anything and everything growing up. It gave me a little insight into my sisters thinking, which helped a little with my girlfriends and wife. On anything else concerning the fair sex, I’ll have to take the fifth.

@ddell2 et al, I have never had an issue finding the Washington Monument from Northern Virginia, well, I do have an advantage as I grew up in Arlington. My parents have a good view from Arlington National Cemetery too!

As for finding what some call the elusive G-spot, I have had no trouble doing so, one needs to take there time and feel around the anterior for that little spot that is a bit harder than the surrounding area that is a tad rougher feeling. Massage it in a rhythmic way paying attention to how someone is responding and what they tell you, and you should have no problem bringing on an orgasm.

@Rick6981

@That_Australian ,said

I'll just sit on the porch with this thread and appreciate the woman's position.

Chicken… :-

See OP .😈

Signed,

TA , the wiley “Rooster” on the porch .😁

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I think it best that I just sit on the sidelines for this topic. As they say “discretion is the better part of valor.” After all avoiding the wrath of pissed off women all with PMS is not even a thought that I want to contemplate.

I think it best that I just sit on the sidelines for this topic. As they say “discretion is the better part of valor.” After all avoiding the wrath of pissed off women all with PMS is not even a thought that I want to contemplate.

That's not exactly “sitting on the sidelines”…..😄😄😄😄

To put it simply, men and woman think differently because they do grow up in 2 different worlds. The games that boys and girls play are different with different dynamics. Men are more literal in thinking where woman are analyzing what is said or done in more complex ways. Dr. Deborah Tannen, Phd. spells this out in at least 2 of her books.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deborah_Tannen

Books she has written

You Just Don't Understand, Woman and Men in Conversation

That's Not What I meant! How Conversational Style Makes or Break Relationships

@Westy says

I think it best that I just sit on the sidelines for this topic. As they say “discretion is the better part of valor.” After all avoiding the wrath of pissed off women all with PMS is not even a thought that I want to contemplate.

Don't forget the menopausal women.

Master Dorson…Just an observation…conversations are one thing…ENEMAS are quite another!!! (lol)

@duhwizzard You wanna bet, ask the woman here what they think…

I have met several women who really enjoy the anal stimulation of an enema and toys while using a vibrator on the front. The anal stimulation seemed to make their orgasm very hard so I disagree that men are more anally stimulated. There are nerve clusters that run from anus to vagina.I never considered the opposite sex theory but I do know that I wanted to give women enemas from a very young age. This was a result of having mine forced on me by my mother.

@Moppys_jalopy You are adding additional criteria to the discussion. You are adding stimulating the clitoris. I was taking about enema only. I don’t have a prostate but I know from reading that massaging one can lead to ejaculation so it’s only logical for me to think that warm water flowing over one would be stimulating.

Yes, women are multi organismic and our organisms are allegedly more intense but most sexologists claim that females are not as easily aroused. I can’t envision a group of men sitting around talking about foreplay. There are countless books written about foreplay and I bet that most are bought by females. And there are few if any female magazines with centerfolds of naked men.