Good Enema

Defining a good enema is as hard as describing a good meal. It all depends on the person, the mood and hopefully a close friend. Relax and enjoy!

I've gotten a little more particular in selecting those who give me a "good" enema. I recently reconnected with a lady about 15 years younger than myself. She barely missed the "Golden Years" of enemas, but is a skilled and enthusiastic provider. I supply a 3 1/2 quart open top bag purchased from Medical Toys.com. She prepares several solutions, including a mild solution using a few drops of Dr. Bonner's Peppermint Soap. Each enema is followed with a bit of prostate/anal massage, and at the conclusion, I have her do an infusion solution of probiotics. Just typing this post has me looking forward to a mid morning appointment in 3 days, mmmmm!

"Good" could have a lot of definitions. However when combined with "enema" how could it be bad? In my opinion, any enema is good, as long as you have a solution, a bag, a nozzle and most importantly the time to enjoy it.

The only "BAD" enema I've ever had was when I ate a HUGE dinner beforehand, then filled up with 2.5 qts. of soapy water. It aggravated my vagus nerve and I vomited in the bath tub. Thinking back on that, I was stupid to even attempt that. Just because you've lived for many years, doesn't mean you always make good decisions.

For me a good enema is:

...when I am in the mood

...a series rather than one quickie

...gentle, warm, and relaxing

...leaves me feeling revitalized and energized

You make some great points klip!

All enemas are "good" enemas.

For me a good enema is:

...when I am in the mood

...a series rather than one quickie

...gentle, warm, and relaxing

...leaves me feeling revitalized and energized

While these are ideal, when I'm backed up or the colon isn't cooperative a single enema that goes in, kicks ass and takes names is still good! I guess you could say that when I'm not feeling good because of bowel obstreperousness I'm always "in the mood" so to speak, so at least #1 is still valid, and after you knock the crap out you feel pretty revitalized under most circumstances.

For me a "good enema" is one where the expulsion is almost uninterrupted and total without any effort or straining on my part. Very few of my enemas are like that, most of the time I have to pull all sorts of stunts and positions to have gravity assist the evacuation.

I love it when my colon's peristaltic action does the work of expelling everything automatically without any (or much) aiding by having to strain. This morning's enema (a plain tap water job) was one like that - exhilarating! Not that other enemas are unsatisfactory, it's just that the "good enema" is something special, and I have not been able to nail down any particular combination of solution, volume, temperature or whatever to increase the frequency of their occurrence in my daily routine. They happen when they happen.

I guess my IBS-C (which I manage to control with daily enemas) still manifests itself by only occasionally resulting in a "good enema" as per my definition.

For me a "good enema" is one where the expulsion is almost uninterrupted and total without any effort or straining on my part. Very few of my enemas are like that, most of the time I have to pull all sorts of stunts and positions to have gravity assist the evacuation.

I second that!

Not that other enemas are unsatisfactory

For me some certainly ARE - the ones where it just isn't coming out. Sometimes that's even when I've tried a second filling of cool, strong soapsuds and... still nothing. At some point you give up and go about your day, hoping that you'll be able to get to a toilet if the intestines start working again and no one will notice what seems like loud sloshes when you make a move and the frequent trips to offload the enema via your urethra. I'd much rather have the ones where you're bent over moaning from cramps but everything comes out. Fortunately both extremes are rare, for me at least.

I have not been able to nail down any particular combination of solution, volume, temperature or whatever to increase the frequency of their occurrence in my daily routine. They happen when they happen.

I guess my IBS-C (which I manage to control with daily enemas) still manifests itself by only occasionally resulting in a "good enema" as per my definition.

That's IBS. I have a menu or "battle plan" that lists things that work with notes on how to figure out what will work best and a plan for when they don't. Rotating management strategies (except for the added fiber) can also be a good strategy. On the plus side I've been at an "easy period" for the last two weeks or so, where light soapsuds seem to be working. When things are worse I use strong soapsuds, bisacodyl and soapsuds, Mayo or the like. Don't want to jinx it, but today things even worked on their own. I've given up thinking that its "over" during these little breaks, though, as it makes it harder when things stop working again.

Having grown up from earliest memories with weekly (sometimes more) enemas, I have to say that a good enema is one that does whatever you wanted it to do well. Infrequently, I get enemas for constipation...usually, they are for pleasure. A good enema is one that leaves you satisfied, whatever the reason. I have had enemas that were relaxing, erotic, medical, and sometimes painful...yes, sometimes a painful enema can be good. Overall, my best enemas are the ones shared with friends/lovers.

For me, a truly good enema has several qualities. First, I get the required amount in me each time, without leaking or having to get up and expel.

Second, it's always up to my capacity.

Third, it is easy to expel, meaning the entire enema comes out withoiu me waiting for hours, and without me having to keep emptying all day. Having said that, most of my really good enemas come in threes--three enemas, three quarts for the last one, and less than three hours start to finish...

I might also add that the BEST enemas are ones I receive from my wife.

I think any enema between two consenting adults is as good as it gets.

A good enema is where all the pieces of the experience fall into place in exactly the perfect order. The buildup, prep of solution, perfect water/coffee temp, and wonderfully long lubrication and insertion of nozzle. A long slow fill, crampless which takes me into my zen mind set.The soft caresses of my wife and massages. Then as others have mentioned, that perfect effortless expulsion when the entife enema seems to leave my body all at once. This doesn’t happen all the time for reasons still unknown to me. But when it does, there is such a mind and emotion and mental clearing of anxiety and stress that can stay with me for up to 24 hours or more. Only my wife is capable of getting me anywhere close to such an event. I cherish those enemas that bring me into and through to the good enema. Isn’t that what brings us back time after time? Beebe.

A good enema i one that gets me to a clear return in as few rounds and with as little pain as possible.

One that I can love more than I hate.

I think a good enema is one that is enjoyed by both the giver and the receiver and gets the job done.

I think some of the members get too clinical when it comes to a “Good Enema” my best good enema was a number of years ago when my wife was not ill and we were on vacation with our children, we had taken them to a water park (no pun intended) they were having a great time when my wife whispered to me, that She needed to give me a good enema, unbeknownst to me, she had purchased a folding syringe while we were away and was ready to use it. We left the children in the watchful eye of one of the security guards (I paid him) and told him we would be back in about an hour. I never expected what was to follow. Back at the condo she had me striped naked and was all set up with an overflowing bag, and told me that Wow this bag was very heavy, and holds a lot more than the ones at home, now get on your hands and knees, I did as requested and soon I was receiving A 3 H enema, when it was done I asked to get up she said No, I said a Good Enema! stay there while I get it refilled, I complained but she insisted, she returned with another overflowing bag, I complained that it would be too much but she insisted, and put the nozzle back in and started the flow, soon I was complaining of being too full and telling her no more, no more she kept it going until finished, I thought I was going to explode, when she let me up to go to the bathroom, when I returned she was naked and the sex was great. She got sick in 2013 and things have never returned to our play time since. BUT THAT WAS MY BEST ENEMA EVER. Nothing clinical just a Man and a Woman pleasuring each other.

Not that I have had anyone give me a "good enema", I have always thought that the term "good enema" meant a large volume (as much as they could get into you) warm, soapy water enema that really worked your bowels over and cleaned you out good. I can't say if that requires more than one enema or not. But like the Lays Potato Chips slogan (You can't eat just one!) I can't stop at taking just one enema. For me, it's enemas until clear and sometimes if I have the time and privacy, it's even more enemas after I'm clear, just for the fun of them.

A “good enema” is one that cleans me out, and gets me ready for sex. Sometimes, it is accompanied by an orgasm. It's okay if it cramps.

@Moppys_jalopy I think a good enema is one that is enjoyed by both the giver and the receiver and gets the job done.

I love this description! When my husband gives me an enema, and vice versa, there is a special bonding that takes place between us, much like lovemaking. And if that experience can be enjoyed by both of us, then it’s likely to result in a “good enema.” It “gets the job done” when I need a cleanse to get my Insides moving.

I remember being invited into the bathroom to find the “enema bag” hanging on the back of the door or on the towel rod next to the toilet. Either way there was no conversation, no voting, no consent required… It was "a Good Old Fashioned Enema" and you were the recipient! Mom would sit on the closed toilet, put me over her knee, and gently insert the enema nozzle up inside me. Yes there where cramps, pauses, encouraging words, like: “Just A little more”. I bet anything I've nailed it. They didn't go to school for it, to the best of my knowledge, they just learned it from getting theirs. Now that makes sense. My mom was great at it and while I might not asked for them, in retrospect I loved them all. I missed growing out of being a child an not getting enemas any longer.

That's no “shit”

A “good enema” is one hopefully given to me by a loving wife with a little tease in it. Knowing that I am getting cleaned out to be comfortable and relaxed later when she probes my ass and pushes my button. The prep, the thought, the intimacy and the fingering all makes the “good enema” as each part builds up to the next and a final climax.

Any enema is a good enema!

Any enema is a good enema!… (Amen)

What exactly is meant by the term "good enema"? I think it is often used but has various meanings. I remember my mother using it in the context of "what you need is a good enema" or "a good enema will fix you up." But I've also seen it used as in "For that, you're going to get a good enema." Or, "I usually masturbate while taking a good enema." Or, "I love a good enema." How have you used or heard the term?

A good enema can relieve constipation. It can help my sub relax and remain calm in stressful times. They can help reconnect us with me giving and him receiving. Whether both of us is naked or I am clothed as he receives.

The better “Good Enema” is when my sub is getting filled and he is fucking me. The resulting orgasm can be wonderful to feel, see, and hear. Those are my favorite enemas to give.

Any enema is a good enema!… (Amen)

I think a good enema is different things to different people. For me ANY enema is a good enema!

A good enema can relieve constipation. It can help my sub relax and remain calm in stressful times. They can help reconnect us with me giving and him receiving. Whether both of us is naked or I am clothed as he receives.

The better “Good Enema” is when my sub is getting filled and he is fucking me. The resulting orgasm can be wonderful to feel, see, and hear. Those are my favorite enemas to give.

@MissStress,

Nicely written. As I’ve told you, I’ve been delighted for years here to follow your sub/husband’s and your D/s sex and enema life in your posts. I’d speculate this is very likely because I’m a lifelong Switch but with a very strong love of being sub when my also switch ex-wife or GFs enjoyed acting Domme and gave me very large, long challenging enemas. We really loved it, and even divorced and solo now I still take my enemas with her Domme likeness running in my fantasy.

Glad you enjoy giving both his naked NFNM and CFNM enemas. Just a query. Are your referenced wonderful resulting PIV orgasms with him full or being filled his, yours, or both? 👍🏻😊 Thanks,

Eric

Any enema is a good enema. The BEST enemas are when I can give a sweet woman a nice warm filling enema and watch the enjoyment on her face as she is being filled, the excitement of her as she is trying to hold it for as long as possible and that final satisfaction on her face as she is releasing the enema.

To my late mother-in-law who was a head nurse at a local hospital, “a good enema equals good results”. She was an expert enema giver, you never even knew when the nozzle was inserted, and she regulated the pressure, somehow knowing when things were going too fast. When I got a cramp I told her and she would stop, and I wouldn't know it when she turned it back on.

May she rest in peace