Men - Have you ever had a spontaneous erection and ejaculated in your pants?

Oh @cowboy. I feel your pain ,we had a 15 hour with no traffic train ride to be together , she is still an amazing friend but I had to make her find a guy that could be there at the end of the day,it was out of love that I let her go.

I’ve had many spontaneous erections. Never ejaculated except for a few wet dreams in my youth. Maybe more than a few!

I remember when I was about 9 or 10 years old, my mother would give me baths in the evening before bedtime. I would play in the bathtub for awhile after being washed by my mother. Sometimes I would lay face down in the water, and rub my hairless genitals against the bottom of the tub. I would be fantasizing about a female cousin, playing doctor and inspecting each other's genitals. She was just a few years older than me, but was starting to sprout pubic hair. I would inevitably get an erection. One time, my penis was so hard and laying flat against my tummy. My mother called my father to come look at how "sore" it looked. She rubbed Vaseline on my erect shaft, and then put my underpants on me so that I wouldn't get it on the sheets of my bed.

I experienced very early puberty and was not really given much information on what was happening to me apart from "you're growing up early and quickly". Even when I had my first ejaculation and thought something was wrong when this white liquid spurted from my penis, I was just told "it's normal as you grow and you'll grow to enjoy it". At that time, I was constantly getting uncontrollable erections (as all teens do going through puberty). This was bad enough when it happened at school and the other boys noticed and teased me about it; but was even worse when for some reason I also ejaculated in my underwear; often creating a wet patch, which caused them to tease me for wetting myself! Not an enjoyable time 😢

When I was 10, I was with my grandmother in the village, I waited for my mother to clean the bathroom and for me to set the hot water for me to take a bath, I took off my clothes and waited for him, in the meantime I got an erection said jokingly, so now you're a big boy and that's normal, now at least we won't have to pull the foreskin, but everything can be seen, it was very uncomfortable for me.

Erection - yes. Ejaculation - no.

Freshman year of high school, Algebra I. I was called upon by the teacher to work the equation she'd written on the chalk board. Between my desk and the board my cock (we'll call it Ajax for the sake of story-telling) took on a life of its own and grew to its full measure. I was grateful I could face the board to work the equation, but even the tiniest movement on my part was encouragement for Ajax. After completing the work and thinking I could quickly return to my desk without too much notice given to Ajax's hiding place, teacher had me stay at the board facing the rest of the class while she grilled me on my work.

Honest - my Ajax has never been more than average in size, but after that class some of the more popular girls, even upperclassmen (women?) would chat me up in the halls, during lunch and study halls. And some interesting rides on the band bus after away games. ?

Yes, certainly, I’ve had this happen. Of course, many, many wet dreams as a teen and through my 20’s. I was glad when that began to stop happening so much in my 30’s, I was tired of the mess, and usually the dreams weren’t as interesting as my fantasizing when awake.

Once, I dozed off on an overnight train ride, and quickly had a wet dream. I woke just a split second too late to try and hold it off, so I was cumming a large load in my pants. They were beige colored, so there was a big stain on the front, and going down the thigh of one leg. Thankfully, it was around 2AM, so most other passengers were asleep. I made my way to the restroom, and had plenty of time to clean up, without anyone knocking on the door. But, I hated having the residue still in my pants when I arrived, and quickly got to my car and drove home from the station.

Another time, in college, I remember during a break between classes, I was reading in an empty room. I dozed off, and after not more than a few minutes, in a state of being half-asleep, I realized I was on the verge of cumming. That time I caught myself, and was able to hold it off. I was so relieved, because I probably wouldn’t have had time to go across campus to change my pants without being late for my next class.

Lots of other times I’ve been close to cumming when I’m awake and fantasizing, usually while erect, but I’ve been able to catch myself before reaching the point of no return.