Who have you told about your enema habits?

You know I don't understand any couple that is married . I mean for your wife to go out of the way to let you give her enemas . Then not do it to you . Or even ask you if you'd like an enema is sad . I mean to me marriage is giving and sharing isn't it . Isn't that why you marry some one . Is because you love each other enough to do anything to make the other happy. If not why get married . If I ever got married my wife would understand first I love enemas . An that she has to both like enemas and be both into giving an getting .

As your colon therapist . I know a lot of them know about people into enemas . I mean a colonic is just one big enema . I was lucky an went to one for years . OMG she was wonderful to me . I well so miss her . Any way I happen to ask her one time if she would just give me a enema with my bag before the colonic . She said sure no problem . Well I was in heaven .

I have told no one that I know personally/have ever met in person.

My FWB is the only person I ever told, besides you guys. We have been FWB for 32 years. somewhere around 10 years in we were talking about our most secret kinks and I told her. She said to bring my kit the next time and she would play. She gave me my first adult enema in a sexual way, and we have been doing them ever since, she love receiving too.

I never told a soul. Not even a log ago fuck buddy.

Only one person, my ex-husband, but he believed it was only for medical reasons, and although he seemed interested in participating, he was never allowed to come in the bathroom while I was giving myself an enema.

I have only told about my enemas to a few people. Many people would not understand my fetish.

I have told no one. Most people wouldn't understand

Since I have a legitimate need for them, and most of my friends know I've always been a poop camel - I've told a couple them. As you get older, the topic of health comes up a lot more often, so in a case where the topic includes regularity, I don't mind telling someone I use enemas. You never know, it might spark up a side conversation if I ever mention it to someone who also knows about the pleasurable side of enemas.

Massage therapist because she was interested, and my electrologist because somehow the subject came up. If someone asks, I'll tell them.

An intimate friend and two MD's because I had a question on medication. The latter two did not seem to understand what I was talking about.

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I have never told a soul that wasn't on here or some other forum. No face-to-face person knows except maybe the cashier at Wal-Mart that wouldn't remember me any more than I remember her.

Other than an enema nurse, I've never told anyone. It is just something so personal that I've never considered discussing it with somebody. On the other hand, I have no problem going to the counter at a store, toting a new bag, and usually put the bag in my carry-on, and will let the bag and hose assembly dry, hanging from the shower rod, when I stay several nights at a hotel. I guess I don't really care that others know that I take enemas --- just don't want to explain it.

I guess it is about time I answered my own question.

I have told my wife but that took several years into our marriage before I had the courage to bring it up. She is not into enemas and essentially lets me solo play when I want to. I still have hope some day she will join me but that hasn't happened yet.

I have told others about my enema use but only within the health benefits context like my regular doctor given we talked about BMs and regularity during one of my visits. The only reaction I got was "don't do enemas so often that I become dependent on them" but other than that she was OK with me doing them.

I have told other sex partners that I do them for erotic enjoyment and to get clean for upcoming anal sex play and all have had pretty much had the same reaction of approval and certainly not grossed out.

So I have told several people but only those when the issue was relevant. I absolutely would not tell a casual friend or even a longtime acquaintance.

I guess it is about time I answered my own question.

Glad you got around to it.

The only reaction I got [from my doctor] was "don't do enemas so often that I become dependent on them" but other than that she was OK with me doing them.

I'm curious to know ProV1, did she give you an idea of frequency that she thought might induce dependence?

Nope Coolbean she did not. There really wasn't much said actually when I raised the topic. I can't recall specifically if I mentioned the frequency which I do them. I do them maybe once every week or two and that would have been what I said. Her point was more along the lines of just don't do them often enough that I become dependent on them without giving any recommendations as to how often I should do them. More self regulating based on how my body reacts.

Outside of this sight I haven't told anyone. I'm afraid of what my friends and family might say about it. I haven't even told my therapist about my sexuality of being bi-sexual or my klismo behavior. That why when I found this sight I was happy because I had others to talk to who were into the same things I was into, and also I could discuss it outright with other people.

Of course my spouse knows about the problems I have after resection and radiation and approves of me cleaning out. I have found one other female I see weekly who has Crohn's disease and I have told her about my enemas as a health necessity. She is the only civilian I can talk to about bowel problems, cause she has them herself. The erotic side of things never comes up.

I told my future wife on the third date... I figured that if I was going to marry her, she better know and participate. I took a risk, but knew that this marriage was not going to have an enema secret. Glad I did because she gives them to me (but does not receive). We sat and talked about it and I told her how important they were in my life and sex life. Best decision I ever made!

As I said in an earlier post several girlfriends and both my ex wives have given me enemas. Usually I pretended to have constipation. I didn't reveal that I was into them. I recently became involved again and my girlfriend has given me several enemas. I simply told her I was into it. I can't say she's enthusiastic about it yet but she does it. She even added her own magic ingredient. I haven't told anyone else about liking them.

There are only 4 people whom I have told about my interest in enemas. Three of them are former playmates who also enjoyed them. The fourth is someone who I talk to daily and hope to play with soon. I am so shy/afraid about my habits that I can't imagine telling someone about them unless I already knew they shared a similar interest. The hardest part had been having SO's who I cared for deeply but still could not summon the courage to talk to about my interests.

I would almost have to split my acquaintances up between those who I met because of enemas and everyone else. Of the first group of Course they all know but of the second group it was a rare few who knew about the enema bags. My partner knows because Iold him up front. Luckily we have other compatible kinks in common. He even let me give him a few enema early in our relationship. Sadly enemas don't tickle his fancy as much as they tickle mine. He gives me a long leash when it comes to having friends over for enemas and general frolic.

Beyond that only 2 or 3 non enema friends knew that I liked them up until the time a 4th friend learned about my enema weakness. He is super sweet but a dyed in the wool gossip. After he found out A fairly large cross section of people were informed. Some raised eyebrows some sent me emails asking for tips. 😮)

So life goes on and one can never have too many enema friends.😃

My wife, two close friends, (one who offered to give me enemas) my nurse-girlfriend (before i was married to my wife) my adult children, my mother and my father (when they were alive).

My wife and a women I met a while back who has giving me several enamas and paddled my ass. Oh yes and my wife's twin sister while having a discussion about dieting she brought up using enemas, we mutually agreed we liked them but I thought I had better not pursue it with her.

I am really very selective with who I share any details regarding my sexual interests with. None of my vanilla friends know that I am a submissive. Other then this site and Fet, have really not told anyone. Told a former play partner that I liked enemas, but while he liked anal play, enemas were not something he was interested in.

My current SO knows I enjoy enemas and that I do them weekly so I am ready for any anal play he might like to do. Since we only have a couple of days a week together right now, he has not given me one yet. I am really concerned that I might leak which would be a huge embarrassment for me. Just bought a double balloon nozzle that I can't wait for him to help me use. We are planning to cohabitate, so when we have more time, I am sure this will become a part of our sex life. We both like for me to be clean for anal play.

Since I live in North East in summer,and Southwest during winter , the only to find someone is ask . I have been fortunate enough to fond a lady on both sides of country , that will come over every second week to give my enemas . This scheduled time seems to keep a bowel condition in check . Several Drs. have tried to find problem over last 40 years , but my treatment works !!

So who have I told ? the people I have asked ! My wife of 54 years wants nothing to do with the process , so allows others to assist .

My wife, who introduced me to enemas.

It is possible that my wife told her mother that she gave me enemas for medical purposes. I should ask her. (Her mother used to give her enemas for constipation and upset stomach so it should not seem weird.)

I once said to my doctor that I had an enema due to intense constipation, but the word I used (in French) implied another person gave it to me. No adverse reaction she just asked whether it had fixed the issue and whether the problem reappeared.

Under pseudonym, people online, especially Zity.

Pecan nutjob says -- "i should ask her"....Well why don't you ??...nothing ventured nothing gained !!

That Australian: I asked her this evening. Turns out that a long time ago she mentioned that she had given me an enema (for constipation) to her mother indeed "it was the first he had ever had". It's a long while but she thinks they were discussing causes of stomach aches, and that her mom remarked that it's nice to have somebody to take care of you when you're sick.

She does not recall the topic being broached again.

Proves a point that not everyone gives these things a second thought or are not prone to being alarmed by a procedure that enables one some degree of comfort

I have shared my enema experiances with a few family members but mostly with nursing personel at the hospital where i go to do exercises