Who have you told about your enema habits?

I've told my wife. That's it. Even she doesn't know the full extent of my enema use. So, it's somthing I consider very private.

I went to the chemist about 4 weeks ago feeling really constipated because of certain medications and the pharmacist asked me if I'd used Micro Enemas from Microlax. The pharmacists advice was "forget laxatives, and use these"

I was intrigued because the guy was really young maybe only 24 or 25. His comment was that I should always keep a pack on hand because they are far better than using laxatives. I was tempted to pursue the conversation but I walked out with exactly what I wanted without any embarrassment at all. If only he knew how much I enjoy an enema.

And as I said earlier I have told my doctor and his comment was as long as I'm careful then an enema is far better than laxatives. I've come to the conclusion that an enema is no big deal. I just wish I could have one every other week like some people here. And colonics are expensive but excellent.

Well a few friends I share enemas with . A colon therapist I had . My sisters know all about how much I am into enemas . But never ask me much about it . I watched my older sister once as a kid give her baby girl an enema . After she was done with her . She ask me if I wanted an enema . DUM me said NO . To this day I wish I had let her give me an enema next . I still wish she would give me a BIG enema . But I know it well never happen .

Well guess my mother knows my sister two my children my doc gastro nurse incontinence nurse gastro team at clinic don't over advertise it but have enema bag in bathroom so don't hide it ether

My wife knows it, and a few of my ex-gf know more or less. One of them knows quite well, because she gave me a few enemas. An other knows more or less, I discussed with her the ealrly experiences, but no real action, only chat. And the very person, who knows most completely, a former she-friend. I mean that we have no sexual relationship, but we discussed a lot about sex. Of course I sould have liked to get her into sex, but I was refused any time I attampted. She knew my "perverted" desires inndetailes, I enjoyed these talk sexually quite strong. It is quite strange, isn't it ? At leat I think, it is quite rear.

My wife knows about it, since we play doctor together; actually it was she who got me into enemas.

On one occasion, when asked about history of digestive problems, I mentioned a very bad constipation I had, which was ended by an enema. Except that I said "my wife gave me an enema" instead of "I took an enema". My physician did not blink an eye, I don't know what she thought of 1) enemas 2) "doing" it for the spouse.

I've never told anyone about this and not sure that I'd feel comfortable doing so at the moment

Only just starting out on this journey after having had a few false starts in the past so perhaps my thoughts about sharing may change over time

It's great having a place like this though where it's fine to be open about one's thoughts, feelings and desires with like minded people

Guys i date and bfs

I have told only the most intimate people close to me.A couple of girl friends,a wife, a friend growing up, and medical professionals.

Well most of my family knows I do enemas . My GF did know but wasn't into enemas . I have never thought about telling my doctor . But then again my doctors change like the seasons . If I had one doctor I am sure I would tell him or her . I have done them all my life . So I sure won't stop now .

My mom knew that I continued enemas after she stopped giving them to me arround 13 or 14. After that she would prepare them and show me how to them myself. I am now 67 and still do them most days. I love the heath aspects and also the sexual feeling I get from them. My sister, my wife (non-participanr), my ex-wife, my sons and my doctors. I does seem like the older I get the hornier I get to take enemas. I guess I have too much time on my hands.....

I once discussed enemas with my current wife, many years ago, but we have never returned to the topic. Otherwise no one except those on this site know of my fetish, except a professional enema nurse, who I last visited between marriages.

I have not really told anyone. While traveling, before we were married, my (now) wife and I both became quite constipated. I do not remember how we decided, but we decided to buy two Fleet enemas. When, back at our hotel, she asked if I was going to let her give me my enema, I was caught by surprise, almost shocked, and declined. The thought of her giving me an enema gnawed at me and I found the idea becoming more-and-more erotic. After the trip, we bought a two-quart, folding, travel syringe and gave each other enemas occasionally for several years. She either did not find receiving them particularly erotic or did not admit it. The high degree to which they aroused me was very evident - fierce erections and the need for multiple orgasms and ejaculations to be fully satisfied.

I have told no one but my wife. She would know even if I didn't her. My syringe is hung in the bathroom at all times.

I've told about my enema fetish first to a bunch of friends on the net - one of them I've actually met. Not people from an 'enema community', I'm speaking about IRCnet and social like Facebook, or netlog.

Some long-term friends of mine learned about it during late night, drunk chats at the pub, talking about sex and our kinky dreams. They didn't seem to find it interesting, like something they'd like to try, but never judged me about it - simply we have different sexual fantasies. And, beside that, they're my friends 😃

Nowadays I wouldn't tell that to my friends anymore; I feel like the enema is something really intimate that I want to share only with my partner.

I've told my Dr. about then when he asked if I had constipation problems. My wife knows but she ignores then.

Only one old friend, a lady who is also a nurse. She gave me an SSE once but is not in to enema play.

Waterboy54, so you told your Dr. that you have an enema fetish? and what did he respond to you?

Sometimes I thought to ask a doctor some advices for safe enema play, but I always feared of being kicked out for making him losing time while people is dying.

My wife and a women I hooked up with a year or so ago when I was told her if she didn't stop breaking her office computer I would have to put her in timeout and she responded I would rather be spanked, I just laughed fixed her computer and left, she later text me and asked if I could talk, she then called me and asked me what were my thoughts on her response, I said it was rather exciting, she said she was into a lot of different things, tell me what you like and I probably do it, one thing led to another I told her I like enemas and spanking. We have had a couple of meeting and done both, good times.

Outside of here and Fet life, where I am anonymous, I've only discussed this with my wife. She is a nurse, but has a hard time understanding, so the discussions are difficult, but I wanted her to know.

Not counting all my friends here on Zity, I have actually TOLD a best friend I met back in 1975. His ex-wife also knows, but does not play in the enema scene actively (neither does my friend, but he has other kinks I can also appreciate, so we go through life enjoying others kinks through various eyes and viewpoints!).

My wife has always had an "off-limits" sign on her back door due to an unfortunate run-in with a Proctologist while still in here teens. He ruined any chance for a future husband/boy friend to introduce any form of anal play with her.

My husband, of course, knows. I also shared, but I guess only somewhat, with my OB/GYN some years ago when we were discussing PMS.

I started life totally terrified that someone would figure out that I was in love with the enema. Gradually, through the years, that has changed and now that I am 64-years old, that list has grown somewhat to the point that even I was surprised when preparing to answer this question. I think the first person to know was my cousin, who is a PhD psychologist, and I told him knowing that he keeps these things confidential. However, that list expanded slowly. The next person to know was one of my best friends. We both ended up at a gay bar one night and after we had a few drinks, he shared with me that he liked to be spanked by a dominant woman in a traditional stern mother /son scenario, I then shared my enema fixation involving a similar scenario. As my mother became elderly I felt it important for her to know about my sexuality and so I shared it with her. She became somewhat defensive and replied, "I never gave you that many enemas." To which I replied, "Well, I guess it didn't take many." This conversation was done with no malice or accusatory tone, but simply as an amicable exchange of information. After that, I believe the next person to know was my wife. We were not married at the time but I thought she should know since we were becoming very close and I knew how much that enema thing had turned off a lot of women in the past. Then I confided to another friend when she confided to me that she was into bondage and discipline. And from there I have told one of my cousins who mentioned that she got hot reading "50 Shades of Grey" and another cousin who is a lesbian and was relating the difficulties she has had in coping with her sexuality. I am not nearly as guarded as I once was and have become fairly comfortable with who I am. I recently read Brene Brown's book Daring Greatly and thought it was one of the best books I have read in a long time. Brene Brown is a PhD researcher who was doing research on shame who discovered that the real barrier to self actualization and fulfillment as individuals was really centered around vulnerability and the way we are raised to achieve invulnerability. When we drop our shield and become open to vulnerability much of our shame disappears and we are better able to become ourselves. Regardless, I may not have explained it well, but it is a book well worth reading.

Guys that I've dated over the years of course, and some one night stands that I thought would be fun to play with, and a few other people!!! Gay men really like to discuss theirs and others sexual lives!!! LOL!!!

No one in my vanilla life.

This is something I only share with girlfriends. Some have expressed a dislike, some were curious, and some had to converted.

I wouldnt think of discussing it with anyone that i am not intimate with.

Long ago when I was dating between marriages, I told a woman I was in love with that I had fantasies about giving and receiving enemas. She is a nurse and she told me someday she would indulge my fantasy but we split before it happened. I told my wife early in our relationship and she indulged me once by having me give her and enema. Unfortunately she didn't return the favor and the subject has never come up again.

My massage therapist knows.

My colon hydrotherapist knows that I take enemas. I wished once, when in conversation with her, that there was an enema club in the area. She did not respond.