Do guys who like being pegged want the real thing?

Going back to my husband as an example, while he loves things up his ass, men do not turn him on.

I often love the way you put things. That's exactly it. Far too often I'm coy and verbose.

I've had lots of things up my ass including fingers, vibrators, fruits and vegetables, anoscopes, rectal speculums, etc. from myself, my wife and another man (in a very realistic play exam).

But I have no desire to have anal sex with another man.

The drug and disease part of sex with another man is the tough part. You can't trust someone by asking. An HIV neg. report FROM THAT DAY will help (not from yesterday, who knows where he was wiggling his bean last night) but only with HIV. The chances of getting a full STD screening from anybody is zero.

That leaves two choices. Put a rubber on it, or go with the HIV test only, and hope the other creepy bugs don't find their way into you.

HIV tests take less than ten minutes, are available at any public health, most Drs., and planned parenthood. Don't be embarrassed for both of you to get one. Be proud that you and your partner are taking care of yourselves. DO NOT tell the perspective partner that only he needs to get tested. Why should he trust you?

I seriously miss bareback, but it's just not worth the risk.

Not this guy! I only see women as having any sexual relationship with me in any way. I'd never let another guy see me in anyway other then as a friend.

I'm with BabyBoy...I love a well-wielded strap on, but the idea of sex with a guy is a turn off. BTW, CVS Pharmacies here are now advertising free HIV screening. I wouldn't dream of easing into an unscreened lady, in any of her docking ports!

My wife Pam to whom I've been faithful for the last 25 years has dido-ed me, pegged me, and fisted me. (See my recent fisting images.) I love anal and she loves making me happy. I'm not that attracted to guys, although that's changing, but every time Pam pegs me lately I end up imagining it's a guy instead of Pam pounding my butt and I have a real dick up my ass. I can't help it. I'm mainly straight, but obviously I have a bi streak because something in me makes me want to experience the real thing at least once.

Only if Pam were present would I fuck another man or let another man fuck me, but I'd try that in a heartbeat to satisfy my curiosity if Pam would go for it. I'd never cheat on Pam. She's almost psychic. She'd find out, she'd be very hurt, and our marriage would be in jeopardy. I've tried to persuade Pam that we should befriend another couple who want to explore every kind of sex that two men and two women can have with each other--all safe sex with condoms of course. I'd love fucking the other guy's wife in front him and Pam, watching the other guy fuck Pam, and watching Pam and the other guy's wife have sex, but the most thrilling new thing for me would be to live that fantasy others have expressed here--I and the other guy take turns fucking each other as our wives cheer us on.

Is there a couple out there who's done this? I'd love to hear the details, how you arranged it, how reluctant spouses or partners were persuaded, how it went, did you or would you do it again, and so on. PM me about this if you think it's too personal to post.

No.

If a guy fantasizes about other guys, well then yes, but if not really, then he just likes things up his ass and should be grateful his lady is willing to accommodate.

I'm with @radio and @babyboy20. I love anal play both ways but it has to be with women.

While very anal erotic I,ve never wanted to be with another man.Not dissing anyone just my own preference.Jim.

My late wife and I enjoyed a very active and kinky sex life. She encouraged me to try anal beads and a very small vibrating butt plug - I was hooked and she bought a strap-on dildo with harness one Christmas! Part of my Christmas present was me wearing fishnet stockings and suspenders being pegged for the first time. Since then this became part of our regular sex life and I gravitated to a larger dildo. I consider myself to be straight but love having my arse fucked - not interested in a real man but if Hazel Tucker, Amy Daly, Delia Delions or some other TS porn stars I've seen offered to do me properly I'd be on my knees sucking them and begging to be fucked.

Mimi1cat, I know you loved your Christmas present. I love it too when my wife fucks me with a strap on! I'm sorry you lost your wife.

I'm not that attracted to guys, except that I want to get fucked by one just to know what that's like.

For some reason I'm also attracted to TS porn stars in sexy lingerie who have ultra-feminine features including big tits, except for that one exceptionally masculine feature between their legs. I guess a lot of men in addition to me and you like them too, and fantasize about being fucked by one of these odd, beautiful creatures. It's a significant porn genre.

I wonder how much of it is real, though, and how much is just for the specialized porn appeal. A pre-op trans woman wouldn't look like this. She'd probably be on hormones. She'd have only small boobs from the hormones, (smaller than most women unless she had a boob job.) Her cock and balls would be tiny after taking hormones. They probably would be too small or dysfunctional from the hormones to fuck anybody.

Despite this, if a pre-op trans woman looks entirely feminine with a great body and face, except that between her garter belt, sexy stockings, and garters she has a tiny hairless penis and scrotum like a little boy's, then I'm still strangely attracted to this trans woman, enough to even want to kiss, hug, an cuddle with her. I've just came to this realization after I got hard from looking at a photo of such a trans woman. I also realized that it might be fun, if the hormone effect was reversible, to take hormones to look like that myself for a year or two. I could easily tuck and tape my little boy genitals under even a little thong bikini, and pass as a woman at the beach.

Thank you Wild Bill. Trans pornstars are a chemical oddity, that results from cycling on and off hormones to stay feminine, and mantain erections. With their chemical makeup changing every few weeks, they end up crazy as a shithouse rat. This is the price paid so men could have their ' fucked by a transwoman experience.'

Regular pre-op trans women, out in the street, just live as ordinary WOMEN and have zero desire to penetrate men, and are saving their pennies for surgery.

Nobody expects science to create dwarves just for porn purposes, yet creating trans women who can get erections just for the sake of making movies is OK.

W.B.- thanks for 'getting it'.

I don't get fucked often but when I do it's usually with the real dick but I really do enjoy strap-ons. Especially small penis guys that couldn't fuck anybody or dominant women.

I love both, nothing sexier than seeing a woman walking around wearing a strapon, but have to admit being taken by a real cock is better.

Not at all interested in the real thing.

I love getting pegged by my wife best feeling ever can never get enough of it !!! Her telling me that that I am getting the real thing as she is pounding away on me !! I don’t need anything more then that I’m good !

Both men and women have lots of enjoyable nerves back there. Love having mine stimulated by a woman. Getting pegged by a woman isn’t necessarily being submissive or being bisexual. Just another way to stimulate that area. Love for my wife anally stimulating me with fingers, butt plug or a dildo. No desire for a real dick. Just me. More power to those who do or fantasize about a real dick up their butt. My wife wasn’t into pegging, but we had no lack of lots of anal play

Pegging is something I have never done. In the right setting and situation it is something I would maybe try. I have no desire to have the real thing from another man. I think I would however like to feel the squirting of something into my ass from pegging maybe lube?

I have often fantasized about a woman pegging me, but must admit have not really thought about a guy doing me.

I'd enjoy a thorough pegging but not interested in the real thing..

For me, I would love to have a erotic woman make me surrender to her will. Woman are my magnetic opposite. That being said, I have not been pegged yet. A mistress with a stap- on sounds enticing.

For me, I would love to have a erotic woman make me surrender to her will. Woman are my magnetic opposite. That being said, I have not been pegged yet. A mistress with a stap- on sounds enticing.

Strap on by my wife is on our wishlist. Not really interested in a real dick up my bum

Was pegged few times, felt great, dildo was on smaller size. Have these fantasies getting real thing but afraid of pain unless his penis would be small and would need a woman for support....

I've been pegged about 6 times from women, it was GREAT!!!!!!!! 😜 I was fucked many years ago by a guy with a condom, but it went so fast he was done in 2-3 mins. 😞 Would like to find a safe guy who would fuck me Bareback. 😜😉

I’d love to be deeply fucked bareback by a safe guy just to feel his gushing cum load being deposited deep inside me.

I've always wanted to get pegged. Got close but never happened. I have had the real thing and enjoy it very much. I feel I would enjoy pegging just as much.

I've wondered the same thing, but I seem to be hardwired for heterosexuality. I'm sexually attracted to women, but have fantasized about getting a real dick up my ass, and even visualize getting fucked by a friend who is polyamorous, or even milking him. The fantasy is sexy, but when I'm near him, I don't feel sexual at all. I've even been naked around him and not felt at all sexy. He has invited me to his bed, but that turned me off. When he was fucking a mutual female friend close nearby but not in my sight, he invited me to join in. That just did not appeal to me, and later she thanked me for not joining.

But let's say my girlfriend was pegging me and in walked a lovely 20 yr old boy, who she had invited for a birthday threesome, with a substantial erection. Being already highly aroused, would I let him take her place drilling my ass? Would I take his cock down my throat? While the fantasy is delicious, I seriously doubt it. But anything is possible.

I like both, personally both are the real thing to me. Pegging is getting butt sex'd by a lady with boobs and whatnot. Then there's anal from a man with a flesh dick. I enjoy both because I enjoy both genders.

I would have enjoyed getting pegged but we only played with hand held toys, wife didn’t want to do it wi th a strapon. No desire for the real thing with another guy.