Colontherapist
I see no reason why you (and your wife) might not be able mutually to enjoy some bare bottom spanking, but you may well have to approach it rather more subtly than your role-playing fantasy session idea suggests. Moving straight to an OTK scene from a school uniform role-play may be too big a step with which to start.
I don't have much direct experience myself of spanking as yet, but am discovering (over many months) that - rather to my surprise and, I hope, eventual delight - my wife might enjoy it in some form or fashion. Part of the start was to slap my wife's buttock just a few times, and not very hard at all, when we were having sex and she was on top of me. I did this just before I was about to come. The rhythmic smacks are now to some extent associated with me climaxing inside her. She loves me cumming in her and so I hope she links it in some way with the ass smacks and likes them too.
Over the months since this started, I have also given her bottom more attention with playful slaps when, for example, she bends over in the kitchen to get something from a lower cupboard. She now laughs when I do this, so I take that as a positive sign and hope to develop this into more direct spanking activity in due course. But I reckon 'due course' might turn out to mean anything from another six months to even several years.
What did you mean by "swatted" and "it ticked her off"? How long ago was that?
Have you made any progress since your original post in October?
Would like to cultivate some understanding of how husbands can bring initially-reluctant wives to enjoy spanking activities, so happy to compare experiences and ideas here of course.
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