Voyeurism

I have always been a fan of voyeurism & exhibition and have enjoyed both in many different scenarios and it never gets old.

However, last year I went on a Cruise to the Caribbean and was on the 8th floor with a balcony room. To my surprise, one of the times I went out to my Patio to take some pictures, the couple in the room next to me were also on the Balcony. I didn't think anything of it until I heard familiar sounds, grunts and sighs. I stood back from the railing a little bit and in the reflection on the Balcony glass, I could see he was going down on her, going to town like it was his last meal. She was sitting in the chair and he was on his knees until she turned over kneeling on the chair with her ass up as high as it could go. The positioning of his face, he had to of been rimming her. Because when his tongue obviously changed locations, her muffled sighs and words of passion said "Ohhh my god, Fuck Yeah!"

I still think about that to this day. They were an attractive Couple, about late 20's. They knew I was on the porch but I am sure they had no idea what I could see. It was enough to turn me on and wished I could go over and help.

Throughout the Cruise, I would see them on occasion but never looked at them the same. I could only fantasize about what they were doing and seeing her being orally pleasured. This opened an array of thoughts, fantasies and questions. Are they swingers? Are they horny enough to have someone over for some fun? I could only hope and I am totally looking forward to my next cruise because you never know what could happen. Plenty of horny and adventurous people out there that love to let loose, Especially while Vacationing in Paradise 😃

I've stayed in many hotel rooms over the years. Once when I was paddling the hell out of Petal someone beat on the door because we were making too much noise. Boy were we embarrassed. I have heard couples having sex many times and it is always very titillating to me.

Regarding Gay Talese’s book I’ve been in motels where I felt someone was watching....

Regarding Gay Talese’s book I’ve been in motels where I felt someone was watching....

I read the book a while ago. And it occurred to me that the motel owner was granted an even better opportunity to view truly 'normal' sexual activity than Masters and Johnson. These last two sex researchers of course were among the first to view and scientifically study sexual activity, but their work had one shortcoming: namely that all participants knew they were under observation. Hence they will most likely have adjusted their sex play to put themselves in a more favorable light, leaving out less than savory personal quirks and other possibly embarrassing things. Just as participants in the M&J study probably made themselves out to be more favorable in their sexual interviews.

Of course the motel owner was not a researcher, but it seems he did witness and describe some less than optimum and unusual sexual activity.

I gave the book to a friend to read. He is usually quite broad-minded and open to new ideas and insights, but to my surprise he didn't seem to care very much for the book nor the premise.

I don't know if this counts a voyeurism, but I used to live in an apartment building with thin walls. I think the next apartment was being used as an air bnb rental. Often I would hear couples making love next door. I have to say it was extremely erotic just imagining what they were doing.

The first time I realized it really turned me on to see and hear another couple having sex was when I was a teen at a party. I was with my then boyfriend and we went into a bedroom to make out. There were two beds in the room. We were on one and my best friend and her boyfriend were on the other.

We were chatting and kissing . My back was to them as I was facing my boyfriend. Things heated up pretty quick with them, they were a few years older than me. I could hear them kissing and then some soft moaning and then, the bed springs. My boyfriend was holding me tight against him and trying to distract me by telling me jokes and I just wanted to listen to them! I was getting totally turned on and I think he was trying to somehow protect my “ innocence”. When we started kissing again I definitely wanted to go further but he wanted us to wait.

FYI we never did get to go all the way...I talked to him years later and he regretted missing his chance. 😉

Any chance that couple in the parking lot were in AZ? My GF and I were going at it one night in a parking lot. I was a total prude but she got on me and drove it home. What was I going to do? Say no? As she was finishing me up some, I noticed some mid 20ish age girl watching us. At that point I no longer cared. That GF was amazing!

My wife had a younger cousin she was close with staying at our house for a few days. Her cousin had been sexually naive and asking questions of my wife incessantly from what my wife had told me. She was open and liberal minded with sexual education so left our door ajar while we were becoming intimate one night in case her cousin were to walk by our room she would witness an accurate representation of what real sex is between real people in love. We were mostly clothed but bottomless under the covers and my penis rubbing between my wife's labia. She was emitting an audible indicator of pleasure just loud enough her cousin would become aware of what was occurring if she was awake and listening. I was reluctant to the whole situation but my wife saw her cousin down the hall and in the kitchen. When it clicked for her what my wife and I were doing my wife whispered she saw her cousin quietly setting down a glass of water and walking towards our room. I was then audience to a quickly whispered briefing from my wife. She explained to me her cousin was coming and would like her witness how real love is made between two real life people. My wife reached for her phone and quickly opened our smart light app and remotely fully increased the brightness on our bedroom lights. My wife wanted this to be an inspirational first experience for her cousin and her interpretation of that became a demonstration of tender love. She increased her vocal volume to casual conversational asking me to take the rest of her clothes off. With only her bra remaining I turned my wife's body towards the bedroom door. My penis pressed between her buttocks and kissing her neck I opened her bra and exposed her breasts. I cupped, fondled, and squeezed them bringing a small volume of pre ejaculate to the surface and on the small of my wifes back. My wife whispered "she needs to see" and led me by my hand to the bed, guiding me onto my back. Only in her running socks my wife straddled me then asked me to remove them whispering she didnt want her cousin to misinterpret and think it wasn't normal to have her bare feet on my legs. My wife leaned forward and held her cheeks apart clearly exposing everything then asked me to go inside her. I did and said outloud I loved her. We silently moved together with a gentle popping sound. Our speed increased and my wife clearly said please ejaculate inside me sweetie. I told her I was about to and she stopped moving, withdrawing about half my penis from her vagina. I looked between her legs to see my penis clearly convulsing inside her. When I finished she slowly raised off of me and hovered above me for a minute until I felt semen drip onto my testicles. She rolled onto her back legs still open wide and wiped herself clean. My wife opened the phone app and shut off the lights before either of us inadvertently looked at the door. It became a memory in my mind that continually needs suppression if I am to last longer than 5 minutes while penetrating my wife.

I used to live in an apartment building with very thin walls. The apartment next to mine was being used as an airbnb-type rental. Every month or so, there would be a couple that didn't realize how thin the walls were, and would really go at it. It was extremely erotic to hear them just a few feet away having intense sex. Usually it would be the woman that was the most vocal. I loved imagining what they were doing, and needless to say, I pleasured myself as I listened to them pleasuring each other.

I love the idea of watching a couple have sex, but have never had the chance.

When we go to Vegas, I always have anal sex with my wife while she is doggie on a chair right next to the window. She is moaning and whimpering. She role plays and begs me to stop cause she is afraid people can see.

I find it very erotic.

Love to watch.......kinda fits my cuck-kink....especially love to see my wife get a cum load and watch it slowly drain out untill I get to re-insert it with mr dick!! very HOT. Also like to watch other people fuck.

I've never really had a case of Voyeurism, but do enjoy looking at women at the mall, etc.. Every now and then a nice downblouse or upskirt scenario will appear. The time I really got stunned though was when our family doctor's blouse completely gaped open - I described this in another post.

I love to watch....

I guess I've been more of an exhibitionist than a voyer... or somewhere in between? I lost my virginity, to another virgin, while his friend was in the room. I've had sex, with others around, a few times. Also in the woods and other places I might get "caught". I enjoy when a girl wears a skirt and bends over a bit too far. (I'm always pleased when one particular very confident plus size beauty parks in front of me. She wears dresses that cover to right above her knees and is always bending to put things in her vehicle. I've seen her cheeks many times. Haven't been able to tell exactly what she's wearing underneath yet.) I'd imagine watching would be enjoyable as well. Maybe I just haven't had the opportunity.

I rented a nice private vila with a private beach in Bahamas a few years ago, one that comes with 24 hour butler service, 3 men and 2 women at your service 24 hours a day. They would cook, clean, set the pool and beach area, take care of the house and even drive us if we needed. They were always around but at the same time would never really be bothersome. The first 3 days me and my wife were a little annoyed as we really didn’t have as much privacy as we wanted, we were on vacation in a private vila and wanted to feel free to walk around naked and fuck wherever however we wanted. But the presence of 3 caribbean men made my wife and, frankly, me as well a bit uncomfortable to do all the things we wanted to. But after 3 days you just have to forget they are there and let go, so we did. My wife against her nature just let go and would walk around the pool area and the private beach topless and bottomless.

This one time I had her totally spread military position on the pool lounge chair , as one of the man came out to offer us drinks. This guy was shocked to see her that way and me pounding her away. He apologized and went back inside, but that was the beginning of fun week ahead. From that time on we acted as if we were totally alone and would walk around naked in front of the men and the women butlers. We fucked in the living room while they were serving us food, it was fun. A few times my wife would lay down on the couch, spread her legs open and masturbate knowing one of the men would walk in any moment and when they did she would just stop playing with her clit and cover herself.

Overall it was fun experience for both of us, as I also had moments of exposure with the 2 women in the house. Between all the moaning and screaming my wife had in the house I wonder if these men were masturbating privately. I knew one of them really wanted to fuck her by just the way he was always joking and being with her and she flirted back as she would stand naked in front of him and laugh at all his jokes. He even offered her a massage once but wife declined, although we did ask him to put lotion on her entire back once as she was totally nude and we were totally drunk. Maybe she knew she wouldn’t be able to resist , but these guys were on the job and didn’t risk loosing it. Got to tell you watching this guy rubbing her ass and legs with lotion as I lay next to her gave me fantasies of watching him fuck the shit out of her and her sucking on his big cock. But me and my wife were not at that stage and that was just my hidden fantasy. Sharing my wife wasn’t something I was into.

What happens in Bahamas stays in Bahamas! Or maybe we should’ve ended of this crazy vacation with a bang ???

I love watching but I haven't had a lot of opportunities to just watch. My fantasy scenario would be that I could watch from a secret location and the people having sex would not know I'm watching. I don't know how that would work in actuality with consent, but as I said, in my fantasy they would not know I'm watching.

Alternatively, I would also like to watch in the same room as long as they'd pretend I wasn't there. I have issues with eye contact so it would take something away from my experience if they spent any amount of time looking at me.

I would only want to watch two ts or a ts and a female or more of each combination. And I would only want to be watched if a female or another ts was watching me get it from a ts with me receiving the ts at both ends... or possibly watching me be sodomized even from a m.

I used to live in an apartment building that overlooked a hotel across the alleyway. As I was on the tenth floor I was given lots of opportunities to watch couples making love as a lot of people did not close the drapes. I am sure some neglected to do it on purpose, But I think some of them were just too horny to care. Got to see a few people masturbating too, Guys and gals. Lots of women walking around naked too, before or after the shower.

As interesting as I found all this, it doesn't come close to actually watching a couple make love in the same room, mf, or ff. I have been lucky enough to experience this a few times in my life and still find it very erotic to remember it to this day. I certainly have voyeuristic leanings.

I love the Summer months for that reason too. Women wearing revealing clothes and giving the occasional glimpses of naked flesh or pretty underwear.

I've seen a few good ones over the years. My back door looks out at the house next to me. The bed room in it is clearly visible from my doorway. Some of the couples living there have not been too shy. A couple of them had the foot of the bed facing the window so I could look at their feet and whatever else they were showing which was mostly skin on hot summer nights.

While I was watching basketball late at night, my window was open and I heard a car park behind my building and stop right under my window, I got up to see who it was and I saw an older boy bring a girl and they immediately left in action first in the car in the front seat but they didn't wait long they got out in front of the car and continued and he and she were naked they only had a T-shirt they didn't care that they were surrounded by buildings and someone would see them they were very horny, girl was very good and the guy was married I knew them from the city, later I heard he was divorced.

Does hearing but not seeing sexual activity count as voyeurism? When I was a single, middle-aged man living in a downtown condo, I often heard sexual activity going on through the wall of my bedroom since there was another bedroom just on the other side--moaning, heavy breathing, muffled vocal exclamations, bumping and banging, etc. Normally I am very easily aroused but for some reason, this wasn't exciting or stimulating at all for me at all. In fact, it was a turn-off. If I could have actually seen what was going on, I might have felt different. I think men are much more stimulated by what they see than by any other sense except perhaps direct touch. But I could be wrong.

Many years ago I had a neighbor that was out of town for a few days. She had her brother staying at her house to care for her dog while she was away. Her master bedroom faced my house. One of the days she was gone her brother brought his girlfriend to her house. My neighbor always left her bedroom curtains open during the day. She and I would wave at each other through the window when we’d see one another. On this particular day her brother took his girlfriend into her master bedroom. I happen to be in the room that faced her master bedroom when I noticed him in there getting very amorous with his girlfriend. At first I walked away from the window, but soon came to see what was happening. I just couldn’t help myself. I was nosy and curious. I stayed out of their line of sight and watched from behind my curtain of my window so they wouldn’t see me. I was getting very turned on watching as they removed their clothing and began to play with each other. The girlfriend gave him quite the blowjob. Then they moved out of my line of sight and I’m assuming on to the bed to finish things off. I found myself to be very wet after watching all that I ended up having to finish myself off after that. I was really surprised how turned on I got watching them. I never told my neighbor what I saw after she got back. I didn’t want her to think I spied on her. I moved away a few months later and haven’t had anything like that ever happen since.

Fun thread. I’m usually more the exhibitionist than the voyeur but I’ve indulged when the opportunity presented.

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In HS I was at a make-out party with the lights out. I couldn’t see anything but I’m pretty sure at least one couple was fucking. At the very least someone came. It was sexy as hell and quite the turn on.

At a beach house with an outdoor shower. The boys who were renting it showed me how if you stood on the toilet in the bathroom and looked out the window you could see into the stall. I was shown this while one of the other boys was showering. Of course I had already used the shower before the showed me.

Last was with my first husband at the Sheraton in Boston. The hotel had two towers and some f the rooms faced each other across a distance of maybe 100 meters. A couple opposite us were doing it with the drapes open in front of the window. I got so turned on by it I made him take me there in front of our own window. It was about the kinkiest thing I did with my first husband.

Nude beach at a lake in Connecticut. Couple was standing in shallow water, fucking.

I do enjoy watching others having sex, it's like watching a porn movie - only in 3D.

I like watching especially when they know I'm watching, then I won't have to feel guilty like sneaking when I masturbate to the sight of them, and it adds to their level of excitement watching me got off.

There's been a few times I was invited to join in.

Have been fortunate to have had several erotic voyeur experiences over the years.

There was one extra sensual experience a few decades ago when I was staying at a hotel in Philly on business. I had just arrived in my room in mid-afternoon, and had a door connecting to an adjoining room. I could hear a couple on the other side of the door enjoying a very vocal sexual encounter. Apparently, the guy was doing a VERY good job licking his partner's sopping wet vagina, much to her delight! There was lots of moans of ecstasy & praise for the adeptness of his tongue!

I was getting so aroused, and hard listening to what was happening just a few feet away from me, but on the other side of the door. I stripped naked, and was VERY hard! I was slowly masturbating, trying not to cum too quickly. I wanted to savor every moment of their shared pleasure. I was even tempted to knock on the door and ask if I could join them, or masturbate while watching them.....but, alas was too reserved.

The sounds eventually quieted down, but not before I enjoyed an amazing, very wet orgasm myself! I love being a voyeur, but also enjoy being an exhibitionist as well.

I see my sister and her girlfriend all the time. They rent from me and live here. We never wear clothes at home unless someone is visiting or one of us is on our period. I have watched them masturbate as well as they have watched me and it is exciting. I also watch them give each other enemas because they use my bathroom due to its size. Plus with the heat lamps, the floor gets warm. I had a girl stay over once and they were unaware she was in my bed. They came in to drunk to notice. The next morning they walked into my room and then into my bathroom. They started giving their hangover enemas and I don't even wake up from the sounds because I am so used to it. But the girl with me started poking and jabbing me to wake up. It freaked her out a little. But then she started fingering and kissing me. After they were done and went back to their room this girl was all over me and was soaked.

I have had the pleasure of stumbling across circumstances that could possibly be labeled as unintentional voyeurism. I will admit that sometimes, the hardest part was not becoming more fixated on the events occurring. Having been around hospitals and clinics, occasionally one might observe someone being catheterized, receiving a colonoscopy, an enema, or other procedure that triggers some involuntary reaction. It was often difficult to look away.

As a kid in a small apartment, I often observed one of my sisters, or my mom as an enema or suppository was being given. As a klismaphile, watching someone receive enemas at EFEST was quite enlightening.

As someone who enjoys the menu here at Zity, I am quite voyeuristic at watching videos or looking at photos of others in various poses or predicaments.

While it seems wholly inappropriate to seek out, or sneak around, to unknowingly observe others in person, aren't we all "voyeurs" to some extent? Even those rather accidental events have provided some degree of stimulation.

I have had the pleasure of stumbling across circumstances that could possibly be labeled as unintentional voyeurism. I will admit that sometimes, the hardest part was not becoming more fixated on the events occurring. Having been around hospitals and clinics, occasionally one might observe someone being catheterized, receiving a colonoscopy, an enema, or other procedure that triggers some involuntary reaction. It was often difficult to look away....

I also worked in hospitals and had the same “ opportunities” to see patient’s undergoing exams, treatments, and surgical procedures. I did, however, have two other instances that were neither planned, nor forgotten. I once lived for a few months in an very small studio apartment in the third floor of a house with a separate entrance. There were windows on each end of the room. From one, I could see into the back yard next door and one time I caught the woman who lived there trying to lose her tan lines. She was well put together and I enjoyed it for a few minutes before having to leave. From the other window I could see the house next door on that side and one day the family’s daughter, who was a 20 something nurse, came home from work and forgot to close the drapes before she undressed. She remembered to close them when she came back from her shower in a towel. Both of those were unexpected pleasures.

Love the idea but have never done it.

But I think I was voyeured on once in college. Ended up with a classmate back at her place, both very drunk after a big campus wide party. Made out in her bedroom, lights off, oblivious to anything but us. Naked on top of her bed. Fondled and sucked her breasts. Fingered her pussy. Then for a long time she sucked my cock. While she did I remember caressing her ass and touching her anus — she asked what I was doing, I asked if she liked it, but it never went further. Eventually we both passed out.

When we woke up there were two couples asleep on the other two beds. Two more couples were passed out on the floor. I have no idea if they were there when she and I were having sex, or if they were watching us. I thought she had her own bedroom, never noticed the other beds or any other people.

I never saw her again, never asked her what her roommates told her, always wondered if we’d been a sex show for the others.