Grower, Shower, or Both?

Guys, be honest, are you a grower, a shower, or both? I'm a shower, I think, although no one's ever said anything to me about it.

Grower, for sure

What is this about?

I would say I'm a bit of both, but more on the grower side.

What is this about?

It's about penises.

There is a lot of variation in penis size when flacid, but when erect the differences are minimized.

A "grower" starts out looking short, but grows bigger when erect.

A "shower" starts out longer but mainly gets harder, not much bigger when erect.

Of course there is a continuum of grower to shower with variations between them.

Thanks for the information. I never ran across this before.

The first time I heard of it I wondered what they were because I was pronouncing both words as if they rhymed with "shower" as in what you do to clean your body!

Well I'm a grower--or used to be--

I am a grower for sure

Definitely a grower.

A grower.

Grower for sure

I'm a grower.

Grower

More grower than shower.

It seems that most men, myself included, consider themselves "growers". Or to put that another way, they know they don't look very big down there in a flaccid state and sure hope they look better when they get hard. 😃

I head to read switchable Susie 's explanation first, so I'm a grower.

should see that little thing when in a swimingpool. So small, it shrunk to nothing.

but then when it wakes up... ?

It all depends where we put the starting line. As Erwin said, if the starting point is a cold swimming pool, then all men bar a very few are growers. The ones who aren't are probably in the water with a significant other, or at least some stimulation!

That said, I'm not sure what to say: in school showers, (that's warm water squirting), I was always teased about my size (Sies, man, you can't come in here like that!). But then I was a weedy late bloomer everywhere else in my body except that uppity penis. Perhaps it got more exercise than the rest of me? So my peers thought I was a shower - and I think many of them were jealous.

So I have to say,"Both,' at the risk of being considered a braggart.

Johnny

Well I am a grower but not much...sigh

Elaine

Well I am a grower but not much...sigh

Elaine

Remember: Anything over a mouthful is wasted..

I,m a grower always have been but sometimes its been instant looking at the right stimulation

Grower. I have a somewhat embarrassing flaccid size, especially when I'm nervous, which grows to a nice 7 3/4 inches when erect.

I am almost always a grower- much smaller flaccid than erect, much bigger erect than flaccid. On the one hand, sometimes I can't believe how big my erections are compared to how small my flaccid state tends to be. On the other hand, sometimes when I am flaccid I cannot believe how much smaller my penis is than when it is erect. I therefore feel like if someone sees me naked, they have not really seen all of me unless they have seen me in both situations, when I am flaccid and also when I am erect.

One thing I have noticed that affects this, however- I occasionally go to bed with a plug inserted anally. I jerk off, fall into a light sleep for at least a few hours, then wake up extremely horny and jerk off again. After that, I remove the plug, wash it, and go back to bed. The next day or two after this process, I have noticed that I am more of a shower. Has anyone else here had this happen to them? My theory is that the prolonged anal stimulation, provided by the plug, increases circulation throughout the pelvic region and the penis for some time during and after wearing the plug.

Never a shower, many years a grower, but never huge. Nowadays, its more of a hider, likes to stay drawn up inside itself. What diabetes can do to a fellow!

I have always considered myself to be a grower, but others comment that I am a shower. So maybe it is like others on this thread have commented that one's own self image is different than how others see things. So to be honest, I guess I would have to say both in order to cover how I see things vs how others see things.

Hey quincy I' m with you.

Susie you continue to amaze me ( in many ways) when you are on the site it seems that there fewer dorks or dorkettes dare post. Thanks for you info and your no nonsense comments are always valuable.

Do we recognize what we have here? I'll lift a seasonal scotch in honour of the moderaters and all those your continue keep this show on the wire. Maybe we need a secret toast like "up yours"

I consider myself a grower. I would also say that I am smaller than average when flaccid but grow to the high end of average when erect. I have been told that my testicles are larger than average which gives me some sense of pride.

Both, I think.

I would say a grower.

As someone mentioned about the being in the cold water pool or just plain cold weather, that will most definitely produce the smallest flaccid state for me. So the difference between small to erect is pretty significant. I have seen a few guys in the gym showers that are very large without being erect and I would consider them showers. I am not in that class but I kind of wish I was.

Most of the time I seem to be a "shower". I think it's because I frequently think about sex and get semi-erect several times throughout the day. I almost always wake up with a morning hard-on and it's not uncommon to have a couple of random full on boners even on non-sex days.

But for those times when I'm a "grower" it is almost frightening at how small it can shrink up. Maybe an inch long and not much bigger around than my big toe.

What's really odd is that sometimes it shrinks up like this when I'm taking an enema (for cleansing rather than eroticism). Funny how the same thing that can cause such an impressive hard-on can also cause it to shrink down to a nub.