Dealing with sexual urges

Mommy-domme/LtleBoy couples...how do you deal with sexual urges?

Consider this a follow up to my chastity question that gets to the heart of the matter: how do male littles relieve their sexual frustration? I'm assuming that most mommies don't have PIV with their littles while they're in character...

If i am good mommy makes my duaper changes extra special. If i have been bad. And she puts me to bed early in a thick punishment diaper then my hand tend to wander.

Masturbate before hand. That relives pressure and eases up considerably. Of Course you will get an erection but Mommy will understand that it's' natural but you won't feel too much of an urge to act.

Good ideas here for daddies and little girl wannabes also.

Well, I have a related experience, a Daddy/son relationship (my last boyfriend). What made the relationship sexually satisfying is that "daddy" would engage in intercourse with me while in character, even though the ABDL thing wasn't completely up his alley. He did like spanking though, so we would incorporate both into a single session.

As for "mommy/son" scenarios, less experience there, but generally milked during diaper changes if I was good.

We live in a Female Led Relationship. I am only allowed to have pleasure once a week on the weekend. It is usually in my diaper or my "practice pussy" I please her about every other day. She says my once a week release keeps me better focused on her and my chores.

The only way to release is prostate milking, no penis contact, so the energy always goes back to Mommy, basically you feel as thou your going to pee, and the sterile milk comes out,, and all done!

Moms are always the first to see their sons grow. They first notice their erections and should be prepared to answer the questions as well as find a solution for a problem. I do not remember how my mom dealt with this problem. But I learned from other 9-11 year boys when at school that it was not uncommon for their mothers to touch their erect penises. One boy told me that when he had erection, usually in the morning, his mom would sit beside him on the bed and gently rub his hard willy until the problem would be solved. I was envious and wished something similar would happen to me. However, I do remember that very often, when I had constipation and mom would administer enema to me, she would lay me on the stomach, spread my ass cheeks and gently rub my asshole and balls. My penis would harden under my tommy and I felt something similar to almost sexual satisfaction.

I was born with a micro penis and small testicles so not much to deal with mom never said much she did give me enemas which might have relieved some of the urges.

On special nights I get diapered with continuous attention to my diaper area. Then I get to come in my diaper rubbing against mommy's mons.

Most enema sessions left me with the feeling that something was left undone, that somehow there should be more. Confused more than frustrated ,I pondered this a lot. Teen years solved this question,after my first real orgasm. If I did not climax during the enema, I did so afterward

When i was in the early yrs between 8 and 10 , I remembered that I always had those "DRY ORGASM" type feelings as I ground my hips hard into my mothers lap as she held me tight (another sign of her dominant character) as I held an enema in for awhile.

She never said anything , but it seemed

like she enoyed watching me struggle for a release , (even though at that time i wasnt fully aware of WHY it felt so strangely good!)

When I finally stood up, most times I did have an erection...then she smiled and said..."thats my good little boy!"

There’s something appealing to me about my role as a little not coming with any grown-up privileges or responsibilities when it comes to sex. This very well could be a reaction to performance anxiety, and wanting to experience sexuality in a no-pressure scenario, but I think it goes deeper than that. It’s a turn-off when ageplay porn turns to ‘normal’ sexual acts since it breaks the fantasy for me, for example. I enjoy ’normal’ porn and sex very much too, but it doesn’t mix well with ageplay.

By this I mean mainly that intercourse with mommy is off the table. This could be accomplished in a gently humiliating way — “Baby, it’s very sweet that you want to do that with mommy, but that’s something only grown-ups [or daddy, to add a little cuckolding to the fantasy] can do. You’re much too little!” Or it could be that my little self doesn’t even know about sex. But I don’t even want full on oral sex, or to be jerked off; nor do I want to perform equivalent acts on my partner in this space.

That’s not to say I don’t want either of us to have intimacy and orgasms, though! For me as a little, I like the idea of my arousal as something mommy takes care of in a somewhat clinical, but nurturing way, almost as if it were equivalent to being constipated. The key is that it’s something that’s done to me for my well-being. This could take the form of a gloved prostate milking (with the anal aspect further tying it to an excretory function), or perhaps a vibrating toy (bonus if it has a cute/silly form) applied to my frenulum while I lay still, either directly or through a diaper or underwear. Linguistically, the phrase “making love” could be twisted to refer to this act, following the usage of “making” to refer to excretion, as in “your penis is very swollen, baby, do you need to try to make love for mommy?”

Mommy needn’t be subject to the same restrictions. She, as a big, can take her pleasure as she desires; it’s just that I’m not able to fully participate. Her masturbating could be part of an anatomy or sex-ed lesson, where I only am allowed to watch. Her use of a dildo could further the denial aspect underlying this fantasy. Or it could be that it’s not appropriate for me to see her genitals, and she could use a vibrator while I nurse, my view restricted by not being allowed to un-latch.

This is a somewhat elaborate fantasy, and I certainly don’t need all of it to have a good time!

While bathing at the age of 11, my mother supervised whether I was pulling my foreskin nicely, since I didn't do it nicely, she took it to pull my foreskin, on that occasion I had a strong erection 1 time in front of her she laughed and said uh I pull now she almost came out I was very uncomfortable and she was laughing.

My mom diapered me for bed every night until I was 17. That entailed taking my clothes off, lying on my bed and mom putting a cloth diaper under me, wiping my pee-pee, powdering my bottom and pee-pee, pinning my diapers with two pins on each side, and pulling up my rubber pants. Around 12 or 13 I regularly became excited at some point during her diapering me and my pee-pee would grow, often quite hard by the time mom was pinning the diapers. She would often make a comment or two about my erection, like "you're getting to be too big for me to continue diapering you. Don't you think its time to be potty trained" or "don't be embarrassed, that's just what boys do" or "do you sometimes touch yourself when mommy leaves" or "you're just like daddy" or "some day that pee-pee of yours is going to make some little girl very happy." Of course as soon as she turned off the lights and closed my door, my hand found itself under my diapers and playing with my pee-pee until I squirted into my diaper. Usually it found its way again under my soggy diaper in the morning before mom got me up.

My mum just ignored my little twitching willy. She cleaned my bumper and willy and plums, tucked my willy down in my nappy. I am small and pinned me in nappy, put my rubbers on, and then let me go.

I do remember mum saying I always had my hand in my nappy…not always at the best time!

I was masturbated during my diaper changes . My aunt felt that it helped the muscle relaxant and pain meds work better and i didn't suffer those frustrated teen times .