Parents, should I tell them I'm an AB/DL?

My parents know I'm a DL, and they don't like it...

They called me a freak, and threatend to put me in a mental hospital... MY DAD EVEN HIT ME! How can I convince them that being a DL is ok?

PLEASE HELP!

I think my parents know 2 but they have nothing to me about it so im not saying anything either

I don't think my parents know...I kind of want to tell them...But I would rather leave it a secret..>I don't think you should have told your parents though

First of all I am 49 and single never had kids. So my advice is that diapers are better than drugs and alcohol any day. I think that there are worse things than diapers for today's youth to be hooked on. I was a diaper lover as a teen and it was hard to hide it. It helped being a childhood bed wetter and having some of my diapers from that period in my life around the house. I think my mom knew but did not say any thing.

My mom once found my stash of diapers; I left the bag sitting in the kitchen when I fell asleep after school. They were baby diapers...I never bought adult diapers while I was living at home. I told her they were left in my closet by someone who was there during my sister's wedding a few weeks earlier. She seemed to buy it. A few months later, she found my diapers hidden in a sack in the top of my closet. She removed them, but never said anything. I certainly didn't ask for them back! But, I have often wondered what she was thinking.

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My mother found my stash a long time ago when i lived at home but she never said a word to me about it.The only way i knew she found them was they were moved from my hiding spot to a different area near there but far enough away i knew she found them.Parents can have different opinions about some things. I suggest you tell your parents that they make you feel secure and bring back to a time when everything didn't weigh so much on you ,that you are scared about life in general and the diapers bring you back to a simpler time when none of lifes woes really mattered .You might be surprised how they react, they just might understand but if they don't tell them that's fine you wont practice this while living there under there roof. Then be really really careful till you do move out on your own, find a ultimate hiding spot for them and wear them only when nobody is around and make sure you pick them up and leave no evidence at all. good luck and don't fret over it they still will love you just the same, they just might worry about you more that's all no biggie, they worry about you anyway its there job.

Just tell them it makes u fell safer at night thats what i am gonna do as soon as i gather up the gutts to ACTUALLY BUY THEM

They're obviously frightened about something they don't understand- in most cases there

is no correct way to tell your parents but since they know, try printing some articles

about infantilism or the diaper fetish from the internet, if you think some of them

explain why you're a DL and what fetish is really all about, ask them if they would take the time to read the information.

We are all products of our environment and experiences, we all have value and you are no less valuable because of your desires, as long as you hurt no one.

With knowledge comes understanding, and with understanding acceptance usually

follows.

Just a suggestion- on the other hand getting out and preserving your sanity is also a

good approach-- good luck

I can respond fast cause i have a PC and a laptop. but you are curious about whether your mom will tell your dad. well if that happens and both your parents come talk to you, you end up with only a few options.

1. tell them that you like and want diapers.

2. lie about needing them (i.e. bedwetting or something)

3 lie about the whole thing.

What ever you choose i hope it works out the way you want.

Well it seems like they are not going to accept it no matter what you do and pushing the issue now will only make matters worse--

I would not mention it anymore while there and if you are able-- move to your

own place where you can put some distance between you. After a awhile they may

gain a better perspective-- but it's your life-- don't expect them to come around

-- be yourself and live your life the way you want.

Most people treat Diaper Lover as abnormal, of course, your parents are these people. Normal or Abnormal is no answer, so there is no need to persuade your parents.

There is only two ways for you.

1. give up wearing diaper --- keep the relationships with your family.

2. keep wearing diaper but hiding it --- wearing diaper is legal. We, Diaper Lover, think most people are abnormal because they want other people do the same things as they do.

Wearing diaper is better than smoking because we will not affect other people. However, no one treat smoker as abnormal --- this our world. >😢

Well i say you should start wetting the bed every once-in-a-while and tell your p's after a while. that oughta get u in diapers. or try messy accedents at night. if u need any more info ask mamasboy. he's the same guy that helped me get them. so do what u please. hope this helps.

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Mind just found out one day cleanin my room... they still despise it and don't want to even understand it spite all the shrinks and docs and all. Still hasn't stop me yet 😎

Tell them you stumbled across this tpoic by accident were intrigued that people actually did stuff like this read a conversation about this is a chat room and were curious as to what your parentals thought

Hi Dike, Why do you feel it necessary to tell someone, be it your parents or health teacher?

If you're looking for some other items to substitute for a diaper that you can find around the house, you can try a bath towel. You can either pin it on with safety pins, or just line the inside of a pair of underwear with it.

Luvs It.

I would keep it to myself for now-- by now you should know there are many others who

share your feelings and you can always talk to us. Like Luv It says --use some

nice fluffy towels or old flannel blankets-- you'll find a way-- take it easy and

enjoy yourself.

Unfortunately my family knows, so do my wife, my daughter and her ex. I say unfortunately because my family sees it as being pretty sick, they only see what has happened to one failed marriage. Not my present wife tho, she is ok with it and even diapers me and baby's me. My daughter doesn't care and my ex son-in-law doesn't want me to mess up my granddaughter so is cautious about the whole thing.

There are no easy answers to this situation. You personally need to accept who you are, as a person, someone who enjoys diapers and pretty much be damned with anyone who is not willing to accept it. You need to be in a place where you aren't anxious about hidding it from others or feeling depressed because people don't like your behaviors. Others need to get over it, if they can't accept it, that is fine.

Hey sandy were all behind ya the whole gang here lets go find the people that abused ya and kick some diaperd ass LOL im serious man ill back ya up for that revenge, thats just sick of em to that shit to a kid or anyone else for that matter

The towel works well but try using a tall kitchen trash bag as water proof liner on the outside. You can either pin it on with the towel or tape it on after. I use to do this when I couldn't buy real diapers.

As for telling anyone , not yet. Until your sure that you want any one to know. Keep in mind that the moment you tell some one It's on longer a secret..even if you really trust them, once some one knows, you have no control of that information any more.

If you feel you have to tell someone (if) then you could maybe just give your health teacher a letter for her to read in spare time, (make sure thats something you really want to do). You obviosly have access to unscreened internet, so go to hotmail and set up your own email account for free and email whoever you want to.

Just be careful who you tell, since rejection is something you fear, be careful so you do not get hurt emotionally.

I don't think honesty is the best policy here. I think just tell em enough to get them to leave you alone and then leave it at that and don't get caught again.

There is a time for complete and open honesty but not when if your not careful they begin to worry about you wonder what they might have done wrong as parents or wonder what to do with a diaperloving adultbaby son/daughter, thats probly a little closer than you want them, you might even get sent to a counselor or doctor.

Just say you don't know why you had them and it wont happen again if your asked, that it was a passing phase, you were curious, I wouldn't spill all the beans unless they tied you up and threatened to chop off your fingers.

I used to hide diapers in my room and on a few occations my mum found them. Nothing was ever said about them even when she found two wet cloth ones i had not washed out, i got home one day and there they were for all to see drying along with the rest of the washing on the line. Okay she had a load of bath towels on the line with them so they did not stick out but being who i was i noticed them straight away,i waited for the onslaught of questions but none came.

Telling now is a bad idea take plenty of time to consider because you can always think about telling but once you have told it can never be untold your parents may freak and insist on therapy which would suck. Then again maybe they would be accepting but think noone knows your parents better than you if you have to tell tell 1 of them first whichever you think would be less likely tro freak out and ask what they think the other will say. One confidant is better than none

Well god gave me the power to beat the shit out of abusers and im just doing what he gave me the ability to do dont want to let it go to waste LOL. now if he comes down and tells me to forgive him personaly then i will drop the subject right there . but i think god likes to have henchmen doing his dirty work for him seeing he cant hit him himself LOL he just sends me and the rest of the gang here to kick some diaperd ass LOL LOL LOL

I'm so sorry that your parents are so unreasonable. I am a 40 year old father of 3, I am in the middle of a divorce and pard of that is the issues my wife, who knew before we got married, had about my diapers, she tried to accept it but most of the 17 years she spent trying to get me to stop. About a year ago, I told my parents in detail about my desire for diapers since I was about 4 or 5. I also told my eclesiastic leader, who did some research and I think has allowed our friendship to grow stronger. I have sought counsel for it and do not believe it is something that can or even needs to be cured. I'm sure you have had offers in the past for people to talk to your parents, but if not I would be willing to talk with them, I think the best thing they can do is for all of you to seek some sort of behavioral counciling, it can't hurt and you might find out some things about yourself, it might also allow your parents to vent some of there issues on a neutral party.

Don't expect them to understand because I don't think we in the DL world even "understand" most of us just accept it. I love my diapers, they are a huge part of my life, they are my underware, my security my comfort. I wear them almost 24/7. Please let me know if there is anything I might help with, again, I'm sorry.

I lied for years, I don't know exactly how my parents feel now that I have told them but I feel better, I feel that I am free to be more myself.

Be honest, and take baby steps

how should i introduce me wearing diapers to my parents that would make it easier for all of us

If I were you...and I wish I were..I'd start wetting my bed...then have many day accidents. If you're going to do this you have to go "balls out"...you have to do it at school...so they get involved. You have to put up a front that you can't control it. If I could I would turn back time and start wetting my pants on purpose just so I would get the humiliation of being in diapers. DO IT!!! YOU WON'T REGRET IT...I would do it if I had the chance to again.... IT'S BETTER TO REGRET THE THINGS YOU DO THAN THE THINGS YOU DIDN'T DO!

I'm not sure why you want them to know. I don't want my children to know I wear diapers and I'm not sure I would want to know that they do. It wouldn't matter if they did . Just that I'm not sure I would need to know that. Our oldest daughter wet the bed most nights till she was 10 or 11. I once asked her if she wanted us to buy diapers for her so she would be more comfortable sleeping and she said no. She may be regretting that now I don't know but I offered. 😃

Try sending them to http://www.geocities.com/cinardrua/confession.html if you are trying to tell them about it. it seems to have all of the info on ab/tb/dl's. and it gives it to them in steps so they wont just start to look at it and thhrow it away.

Hey kei if they are here and see you its becuase they ave the same fetish so no embaressment nessasary for that