My mom once found one of my stashes, and she accepted and nurtured my fetish, she would even diaper me on very special occasions. This was back when i was 11. She bought a changing table, a locking strap pacifier, Adult onesies the whole kit and kaboodle
It is too bad that your parents could not be more understanding. My girlfriend and I spent the weekend at her moms house and Cindy was afraid to wear diapers only because she didn't know what her mom would say. She begged me to speak with her mom, which I did. I explained to her that Cindy occasionally had to struggle with holding her bladder and diapers were a great way to combat the problem. Mom and Cindy talked about it and although mom is still not too keen on the idea, she accepts it because she loves her daughter.
To be honest I was in a Foster home at age 11. I got caught in a make shift diaper Soaking wet and Was bombarded for years about it and when I would go and visit my Real parents they never mentioned it or never hinted there knowledge I am sure they knew because when i Started having Day time accidents at school because of People Teasing me (was the Nerd and the teachers pet that could do any thing and never needed a hall pass) and had to ware inserts and then Pull ups I honestly love that my mother doesn't show any sign that she is disturbed about it but my advice to you all is if your not sure about it then wait a bit there will come a time and a place mine was at age 12 but because of my black Close i never was caught wetting my pants before that seeing I wet my pants from kinder garden any time I was either scared or had a bad cough.And for those wondering, no I didn't go to a doctor and I won't bother now if it can go on for 22 years and I am not dead then it can't be something that wrong
I wouldnt ever tell... I know my mom sorta knows... but she is too weirded out to talk about it because we dont even talk about sex or anything and I'm 25! My friend decided to tell my sister and she hasnt treated me like a sister since... some things are sadly, better left unknown and the day that i die and everyone sees my stuff... i rather them be educated then weireded out
I moved back to my parents house when my business failed...I was wearing diapers on and off to help deal with stress. I don't know when my mother found out that I wore diapers but all of a sudden my dirty diapers that I had hidden to dispose of when I had a chance started to disappear. I started getting notes left by my mother to put my dirty diapers in the bin. I'm a private person and never talked to her about me wearing diapers but as far as she is concerned I wear them for a medical reason...and I see no point correcting her.So, tell them if you must or want to...but most people if they find out you wear diapers will just assume that you have a medical problem.
I guess that the point of telling to parents would be trying to get them accept your diaper fetish.In some rare cases they might say that it's okay but they would probably still feel somewhat uncomfortable with the idea of their child wearing diapers. I don't think that they would newer support your diaper fetish.So I would say that don't tell. Just go on your diaper wearing for your fun but don't try to get you parents involved. It's easier for all that way.
I broke down mentally to her and admitted my teenage plot of getting diapers via lying about bedwetting. She took it well we spoke little about just discussing that it explained some of my nervous tendancies and odd animosity that would break now and again. I asked her if I shoulld either give into my desires or abolish them. As a mother the best she could offer me was that she herself wouldnt feed into those desires if it were. So as we all know the choice to decide whether its right or wrong is in our hand. Thats the scarriest thing about it I have to be able to accept it no one else can give me that answer or approval.
There is absolutely no reason to tell them.They don't engage in the activity with you.They probably won't support you in your fetish and at worst, they might form a bad opinion of you.
NO, NO, NO! I kept my fetish a secret for 31 years until someone at work uncovered my fetish. He thought he could convert me. It ended in a battle. Cost me my job and career. My dad disowned me. Even my mother wanted to convert me but final accepted me for who I was. A relative was an open lesbian in high school. Her mother spent big bucks sending her to psychiatrists. After she graduated she left home never to speak to her mother again. My advise - stay in the closet and keep your mouth shut.
Listen up Boys and Girls . This is a sexual or love fetish thing. It is a private part of you. You would never talk to your mom or dad about the girl/boy you had sex lastnite with, and how wild the sex was would you? Ok this is no different. Just enjoy it by yourself or with understanding people. But keep this to as few as possible, its hard enough to find good diapers nowadays let alone have extra people grabbing up the supplies. Well that and your parents would prob dis own your crinkly white butt. But then again some of us wouldnt mind that at times lol. Enjoy diaper kids or the world but keep it down some of us older kids are taking a nap 😉 .
Some fetishes are easier to defend than others.Enemas and Diapers, since they both result in excrement are definitely harder to explain to people than other "clean" fetishes like S&M or Bondage.In general, DON'T tell anybody you don't do the fetish with. If they find out, it can be a problem, but there is no sense in outing yourself.
Personally, I think telling your parents is a mistake. Most parents would not be supportive of this behavior and thus would probably be more suspicious of any activity that you engage in. They would probably scour your room for diapers or whatnot, and may 'punish' you for finding anything. My parents found diapers in my room when I was younger, they were not too pleased, and did check my room pretty often for diapers and such.
My mom has finally come around and I had no idea she was opposed to me wearing them. I knew she didn't like it then and thought it was all sick but yet she let me wear them. Now she has told me she has gotten used to it and knows it's something I "need" and she has realized it's part of who I am. Even back then she said she knows it's something I "need to do." I am not sure when she started to accept it, I thought she always had or else she wouldn't have let me worn them in her house and would have kicked me out or something. She used to slap my butt and has finally stopped doing it and she used to make comments about my diapers and has stopped. She has tried to get me to quit several times and since moving in together, she has not said a word about it. I keep it out of her hair by throwing them away outside, using air freshener in my room, keeping my used cloth diapers in a bucket with the lid on, and I don't flaunt them nor discuss it with her unless she brings it up but it's always awkward to be open about it with her and completely honest. Compared to other AB/DLs whose parents have found out, I have been very lucky with mine because they never threatened to kick me out or bullied me to quit or humiliate me with it.My dad on the other hand never seemed to care. But back in 6th grade, my parents were extremely opposed to me wanting to wear diapers so they said no for me to wear them vs at 17 when they found out, they didn't do anything about it because I was nearly an adult. But mom expressed some concerns about it like it was going to be a problem again like it was in 6th grade for me and I had to tell her it was not the same because I am older and not 12 years old anymore and am not stupid about it like I was before when I discovered it. But she decided me wearing them is another reason for me seeing my therapist and told me until the diapers are out of her home, I will keep seeing him. But after I finished high school, she told me I could quit seeing him because I was over 18 and done with high school so I was officially an adult. She also acted like me wearing them was some phase because she would ask me every now and then if I was still wearing them. Now she knows I am not going to stop and I will always wear them. She admits she still doesn't understand it and she probably never will because it's an alien concept for her.
I never told my parents when I still lived with them. Once my mother found a pair of home-made "training pants" (made by sewing several pairs of white jockey shorts together) in my closet and asked if I had a problem. I got rather angry about her poking around in there. She later apologized for invading my privacy but never said another word about it (also I was very careful to hide all my "stuff" in the future).I'm sure that if she really thought about it, she'd remember finding wet pants in my closet when I was in first grade, finding a bag full of wet / messy underpants hidden in the basement when I was in third grade, wondering where half of the bath towels were when I was 13 (they were pee soaked and in a bag and hidden in my closet until I could sneak in and wash them), etc and "put the pieces together" but, as far as I know, she never did.Had they found out, she would have wanted to take me to doctors. My dad -- an ex-military guy -- would NOT have tolerated it at all.As for the original post and for others with similar problems--I'm not sure you can convince them it's OK if they're that against it. Might be best to just do an extra good job of hiding it until you're able to get out on your own.
My parents made me wear diapers due to my night then day wetting. Over the years, they dont suspect anything else I use diapers for except to catch pee. So no, they dont I'm a DL.
My parents know i wear--my mother and father helped me put on diapers. Do they know I'm a DL? Not really.
I wish I had had the courage to tell my parents when I was a kid (50's now). It would have been hard, but would have given me no reason to keep it secret from everyone else. It might have even resulted in some kind of punishment, but probably not, and would have just made things easier now.
Hi Freyja,I'm curious, and not trying to pry, so please tell me if you'd rather not say. If your parents don't know that you are DL, what do they say about you wearing diapers, esp when they help you put them on?
@eddyj,I have to wear 24/7 now so I sort of became DL. My parents don't know that i do stuff with my diapers (not AB).I dont thing they know I get aroused when changing
I don't really know, but I suspect my mother knew. We brought home about a dozen cloth diapers when my cousin grew out of them. Somehow they ended up in my bedroom. The first night I laid on one and learned how to jack off. The next night I did the same thing. After that I got brave and took a couple of diaper pins out of mom's dresser and actually wore the diapers before going to bed. I don't remember how long I got away with this. But I do know I loved it.
I am sure my mom knows and that my husband likes diapers too but its never mentioned and thats the way i like it 😃
My worst fear is my parents finding out. I never want them to know not evenater in life. I feel like they'd think less of me because of it.
I never knew for certain but I always thought my mother knew I enjoyed being a bedwetter during my teens and often did it deliberately.
My parents know because when i broke up with one of my exes he went around and told everyone out of spite that I wore diapers, including my parents.
That is pretty serious bullshit. Why the hell would he hit you. Everyone has their own proclivities, their own likes and dislikes this is nothing different. Just because you like to wear diapers doesn't mean you're gay, a child molester, a sick perverted deviant. It's just that you like the feel of diapers. When it comes down to it it might even be his fault not to say that it's anyone's fault that you like diapers. Maybe there's something that he didn't do when you wear youth and your energies work directed elsewhere to the Safety and Security of wearing a diaper. This is a subject that is now finally getting some attention and people don't quite understand it. but the things that make us different makes us unique, don't forget that. Also understand not to force this on to other people this will make them resent you. When you are ready and you feel the other person is ready you can come out and tell that person who you really are.