The angle I approached telling my mom was to try and talk about it as being a kind of condition that I had no control over. I told her how strong these desires were and how much anguish it caused me to want something that seemed so weird. I never wanted to be "bad" kid and not follow rigid morals so it was especially tormenting. I felt that if I portrayed it as something I never chose and would have gotten rid of if I could, I would get more sympathy. Similar to how a lot of people come out to their parents about being gay. I was also prepared to make her watch the Tyra Banks and Secret Lives of Woman shows if she didn't react well. Either way, my mom was very understanding and we never have gotten along better before. (well, maybe when I was a baby...)So instead of them reacting "why are you such a freak?" present it to them so they would be more likely to say "And we'll do whatever we can to help prevent this condition from interferring with you're normal life."
Just told them that i need them when they where delivered and that was it no more questions asked but then 2 years a go just before mum passed away she head to wear them her selfthank youharry
I live in an apartment and my parents have long since left this earth. But my mother knew I was a diaper lover. She had caught me when I was 12 wearing my old diapers from when I used to wet my bed. She came up one morning to get me up for school and saw me wearing them and did not say a word. But when I got home from school that day they were gone. I was heart broken but could not say a word either. I did manage to find a few more around the house and kept them well hid. I also got a few pairs of plastic pants from my aunts house when visiting the next summer too. She kept them in the basement to dry after being washed and I took 2 pair that fit me. I also took a few pairs of my cousins thick training pants too. They wore these for wetting the bed. I wore these to bed until they wore out and I out grew them a year or so later.
I am the parent. My older sons know but not my younger one I don't get any looks or attention about my diapers.
In my case, I still live at home with my parents because I commute to my college classes. Living away at college which I did for 2 years sucked. I was not ready to leave home.
I never had to tell anyone. They already knew. My aunt put me back in diapers for bedwetting and wetting my pants when I was 11, so both of my cousins new, and then kids at school found out.
I don't know how mine would of taken it. it would of been the most random and disgusting thing from their point of view
I told my step mom that I liked to wear diapers and she has even gone to the store and bought them for me... I haven't gotten her to diaper me yet... I just get my girlfriend to do it,.
I doesn't want to tell it my parents. it's something for my own. no one who know me I real life knows that I'm wearing diapers sometimes. I'm really afraid that people think I'm weird because of my diaper usage.
I had told my parents I wore diapers, as I knew they'd find out anyway, as my brother caught me with a paci lol D: (years ago)They told me as long as I didn't do it around them, then whatever. They didn't understand it, and they didn't care to know. They left it at that basically.I am now 25, live with my lovely girlfriend, but we don't wear much, as her 17 y/o son lives with us-Sky
That could be a sticky subject Diaperlover. I would say, you should just go with a don't ask, don't tell stand. Even though you are living under their roof, you have a right to your privacy. It's not hurting anyone or yourself, if you don't want them to know, they don't have to. You'll also need to continue to keep low key, as much as possible anyway. Good luck!
My Mom and me had a very special bond because of the diapers. Of course she was the one who helped me back into them. But we developed a very trusting relationship that saw us thought a lot of hard times. Leaving home, first apartment and girlfriend. She was the one who explained my situation to her!!I think it can do no harm to tell your parents in a calm and considerate fashion. First tell them that you will keep it private as much as possible and that your looking for there love and not there condamnation. Explain to them that they are important in your life and give them as much information as possible at a rate that they can deal with. LOL
When I was 19 I started to wear diapers again at bedting I wet them a lot my diaper did leak a few times I did not all ways have time to change wet sheets befor going to work One time when I left a wet bed mom came over to my apt to clean amd put somr things she got me a way found the wet bed I told her I fell off my bike and started to wet the bed mom did not get mad at all the same thing happen to a friend of hers son a few years befor she jusy got me cloth pin on diapers and a fow pull up plastic pantstoday when I go home she has plastic matterss cover on my bed at home she lets me sleep with my boy friend too he is a bedwetter for real
For me I can't tell you how many time's Mom or my older Sister would find my BABY thing's. My Mom make a point of making sure (and whoever else was around us) knew she had found something new, again, of mine, and I would just stand there while I would be slightly stunned and surprised, (OOOP's) she would lay into me with question's that those diapers where really made for! ie: Is my diaper wet? Am I still a lil baby? Do you want me to go get you some diapers and make you wear them all the time? You little Baby over and over again. Now my sister would find my stuff, move it from where I had put it, to somewhere where I would find it fast, like from the deep back end my closet, to my sock's drawer, but would never say a word about it. My friend's that found out about me, well that would never be something that made it any better for me, but humiliate me more now knowing that "I knew-They knew". The people that knew about me was not a good thing. So my advise to you is BE CAREFUL OF WHAT YOU WISH FOR!!!!!!!!!!!
Lil1swet what about you? How did you manage it. I am sorry your parents could not make the leap of faith and acknowledge your needs. I take it that you did not give them up!!
I agree i dont think all parents should know...you should only tell if u think they would accept it...
I've always wanted to tell my parents, but never can come up with the courage, I think my mom would take it alright, but my dad would never accept it
I can't say I every did. I never wanted them to know. It might have been different when I was really young and told them, thinking maybe they would indulge me, and get diapers for me or some such thing. But after growing out of childhood, no! They didn't need to know.And by the way, my mom might have gotten me diapers to play with when I was young, had I told her, or asked for them. But there would have been hell to pay had my older sister found out back then. Maybe my dad wouldn't have been to happy either :-\
I have sort of but not fully honestly yet, i revealed them by telling her i occasionally wet the bed, so now i can wear every night, the reason i told her was at the time i had no income and wanted more, now i can get my own so i can get more than i need and wear while out and about if i want.
That's too bad ,I feel bad for you as a parent I support my children as Long as you are discreet the should at least look the other way and compromise by letting you wear a diaper at home
Nope, and I pry never will, just because I wouldn't know how to tell them. I figure, they don't need to know, so, I'm not gonna tell them. My boyfriend knows, however.
I will never tell I like diaper to my parents. It´s a secret for me. We know diapers aren´t bad and you enjoy with them, but i think tell it to your parent is very difficult to explain and they could undertand it´s good for us.
I told my mom about the diapers. I dont know why I did I guess I was hoping for acceptance or to hear somehow maybe it was normal...I already felt alone...so alone and she destroyed me. She called me a friek. She said I was fucked up she said I wasnt normal. She told my family and they told their friends. She had me commited to a psychiatric nstitute where I was poked and prodded I was giving all this medication I was alone...so alone. I was eleven years old
Wow William, that would seem to be a worst case. That's a shame, you decided to be open and suffered ill effects because of it. Some people just don't know how to handle something such as this, and don't or won't understand, even if it's their own child. Well, you did make it through that bad time, and you're here. You have many many people who understand, not just here either. You are not alone!!! You got friends here, and now, so you can relax and enjoy.
Mucho mucho grassy ass bub! I got over it in my own way....I put a few states inbetween my family and I. If it is one thing I want to stress to young people with this "affliction" its to not make the same mistake I did. seek counseling if u want to let your parents know...so that you have he help of a professional.
I would have to say that yes they know. When I felt home one time to go somewhere the came in my room and I know that they had found the diapers that I had.
Lets put it this way kids !!! If there is a reason for you tell them because they found them or something unexplainable then open up and hope for the best. however is your not busted but just feel like you want to tell them ask yourself this question first."what good is going to come out of this if i do tell them"? if it does'nt benefit you to tell mom or dad or sister or brother then dont tell. nothing good can ever come of this even if they do accept it for who you are. Its not like if they accept it they are going to treat you like a toddler again in life so dont.