What kind of enema stories you believe are not fantasy?

I'm with liquidsky and some others here in that I don't want to read fantasy presented as real experiences, no matter how entertaining it might be. Aside from just wanting to continue trusting posters, I want to know if something I might find interesting and want to try myself is real and not made up, for my own safety if nothing else. I've read a great deal here the last 3-4 years and gradually tried new things on myself based on people's postings, including increasing my enema volumes from 2.5 up to 4-4.5 quarts (and even 5 q one single time) and using a long thick colon tube for the first time. I've also tried increased Castile soap concentrations as well as my first ever use of baking soda or glycerin and even rare uses of alcohol in my enemas. Now to be clear, before trying any of those new things, I also traded Q&A with other members with numerous postings to assure myself they were writing about reality and not fantasy.

As far as my own postings here, it would never occur to me to post anything that was made up or fantasy unless I labeled it as such at the outset. I don't want anything I posted to be tried by another real person unless I know it was at least safe for me. I've only ever posted items to the main Discussion threads and not to any other section for stories or fiction. To date, there were only two stories or proposed enema experiences that I wrote here that were a wish or a fantasy that I clearly labeled as only a proposal and not a real experience of mine. I'd planned on writing them as a fiction story at some point, but a thread appeared asking something about the wildest or most intense enema you'd ever had.

I wrote at least two responses on that thread, one being my own true wildest enema done to me by my ex-wife. A bit later I wrote that while that evening really happened to me, I also had a fantasy or two I'd like to see happen at some point, but they were so unlikely to happen that I specifically stated they were only proposals or fantasy stories. One was a woman going to a colonic clinic for regular machine colonics (which I've really done), but then progressing beyond reality to her taking more and more of them dressed in total enclosure latex suits and masks, ultimately having the clinic staff give her orgasms during her colonics while dressed in rubber. Now that's clearly not reality.

A second proposed enema story that was labeled as fantasy was going aboard a SCUBA diving charter boat with my GF and a lot of her friends, with me being the submissive for all the people on the boat, ultimately getting multiple forced episodes of enemas in diving gear on the boat and underwater while everyone watched and participated in dominating me. Another fascinating but clearly made up story.

It is difficult at times to tell how real some of the stories are, such as very high volume enemas like 6 or more quarts or liters. It took me many years to finally decide to try and work up to higher volume enemas on myself, but after reading Zity for a couple of years, I worked up to 4 quarts with great satisfaction and one single episode of taking 5 quarts which was almost accidental. So now I know that someone of my fairly large stature (6 ft tall male) taking 5 quarts can be real, but I'm still somewhat skeptical about reports of 6 -8 quart enemas. Of course no one reading this would really know my own real 4 and 5 quart enemas were real unless they came and watched me actually do it. Such is the nature of writing. We can only trust who we choose to trust, try to verify if necessary, and hope for the best.

Eric

@Thomas893 Right on my friend!

With regard to your remarks Eric, I think obviously if a story is presented in the 'stories' section, however believable we might think it, we must allow for the possibility that it is fiction.

I'm not generally a health and safety freak, but most definitely my advice to everyone would be never never never never never try something just because you've read it in a story... unless you're very sure that it's a safe practice from having researched it.

I think when it comes to people posting in the forums, if someone should describe an experience, without explicitly labelling it a fantasy, that in fact they have made up, that's very much a bad thing to do.

And now more ramblings... feel free to skip!

I think requiring that any story about enemas and the like be entirely probable leaves one in a world of very prosaig fiction. Outside of a straight collection of remembrances, people tend to write stories, true or not, *because* they concern unusual or incredible happenings. Few would find them very interesting otherwise.

In my experience very few plain accounts of everyday... for enemas, experiences do much to press my buttons. Nor, conversely, do stories that are out there with the fairies. I can only think of one story I've read that I seriously think might be a true account that really excites me.

Perhaps in this discussion we have slightly confused stories that seem plausible or at least possible with those which really have a high probability of being true. That is to say, you can write a work of fiction which would have no difficulty in being real given the right circumstances, but which nevertheless is unlikely.

Of course the more wild the things that happen in the story, you could argue the less likely it is to be possible. But without actually knowing that the facts of something are in error, I think it's a daring judge who declares that many stories could never ever conceivably happen... simply because we're talking about people. And as we all know, truth is stranger than fiction.

To start with, outside of a former Penthouse magazine and one of the Penthouse paperbacks, I have never seen enemas, enema play, enema equipment, or in any other publications generally available. Zity biz or Enemarotica conversely deal almost exclusively with them. So my fantasies about enemas come from these two. Truthfully, what I would be more interested in is would it be possible to somehow have a survey done of the public to see how many men or women are erotically interested in enemas, then how many regularly use them for sexual pleasure, not just cleansing only. I would like to think more than we might guess!

That would be a fascinating study.

Eric

Well, then, let's apply for a NIH grant for the study!!

@4 Enema Guy I know what you mean. I have seen it referenced in some medical books, nursing manuals and the like, and I saw a 1940s training film on administering them once. Nothing erotic about that haha.

I don't think there can be any medical procedure that was apparently so ubiquitous and yet so little mentioned even in its day. I get that it was kind of a very private thing, but it is surprising it doesn't ever seem to crop up say in a novel as a casual reference ever. I have seen some nurses mention them in memoirs.

Another thing that surprises me is that many Americans have an idea that the... culture of enemas comes out of England. However references to them are even thinner on the ground here than in the states. They do seem to have been a hospital treatment, particularly for birthing mothers, but I've seen only one reference ever... outside of erotic fiction, to enemas in the home in the UK.

Nowadays in my experience, the majority of people don't even know what one is. Certainly my parents don't, and they were children during the 'golden age'. It's funny I have just remembered a reference in a memoir to a 'rubber bulb thing' which could conceivably have been an enema device, though the author didn't seem to know... unless he was being delicate. Funny that because it was a long time ago when I read that, I would have been in my teens.

I think agracier’s post about his own experience (link below) very nicely makes the point that certain stories that may seem like sheer fantasy are indeed factual!

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=619043#:~:text=Slightly%20related%20to,your%20own%20experiences.

I can back his post up by a true story (also involving suppositories) that I was told by a good friend of mine when we were teenagers. He told me in vivid detail about an event he had witnessed involving his little cousin who, along with his family, was vacationing at his parents’ house. Apparently the kid had become constipated and my friend’s mom suggested to the kid’s mom (her sister) that the quickest way to deal with his ailment was to give him a glycerin suppository. My friend then went into great detail, and with considerable relish, about the “family event” he witnessed first hand in their kitchen. Apparently the kid had got wind of what was about to befall him and had run off, so after being chased down and captured by his mom and my friend’s mom, he was placed, kicking and screaming, on his back on the kitchen table. After a frantic struggle, and the added assistance of my friend’s older sister, they finally managed to remove his shorts and undershorts and pin his legs back. My friend’s mom then did the honors by separating his buttocks and inserting the suppository whilst the kid’s mom and my friend’s sister forcibly held him down and kept his legs pinned back. My friend then described how his cousin managed to expel the suppository before it had done its job which prompted re-insertions by his mom and finally by my friend’s sister. This final part of the story had a very strong impact on me because I had a huge crush on her and couldn’t get that image of her inserting that suppository out of my head.

I still think about it because it really happened and I knew the people involved.

I agree in that there is typically some fact and some fantasy. If the fact is the basis for the story and fantasy is the embellishment that makes it a far more readable story then that's all for the good. If a story has enough fact to support realism then the mind being a powerful thing makes us believe that we are right there. That, in brief, makes for a great story and it is those that I love reading.

Those I share . I am fairly discerning when a writer moves beyond truth into ‘ fantasy ’ but even then , I applaud these folks ‘ gift ’ of imagination . Sometime they make for interesting and humorous reading . Most of our shares I do believe are grounded in true past or present personal experiences then for a few ……….. we enter the ‘ outer limits ’ .

Getting or taking an enema is in of itself not a particularly unique situation. It is the little nuances that make for a great story: something about the circumstances, the giver, the location, the recipient, the equipment used, the time of day, the relationship of giver to taker, or even the weather. How many novels have we read that begin with “It was a dark and stormy night . . .?” Let's just work with that line for a moment and consider “It was a dark and stormy night as she laid in bed, her tummy doing flip flops. That's when she heard the sound of the linen closet opening and closing. Whoever had gone there was now in the bathroom as she could faintly hear water running at the sink.”

What did your mind do when you read these three short sentences from my perhaps overactive imagination? Those were flickers of fantasy, but if we merge those thoughts with some facts that we know about giving an enema then what is the potential? Moreover, do you think that you would be willing to read it?

Fantasy or not fantasy, I still like reading stories that are sexy. It gives me ideas for real life. One person fantasy can become reality. It is the same with dreams. One persons dreams can also become true. Have you ever heard the saying, “Someday my dream will become true?” It is the same with fantasies. We all want our fantasies to come true someday.

What stories give you erotic ideas is the question in my mind

Let's see…the higher the level of sexual talk…the higher the pile of B.S. becomes.

It's hard for me to tell short of them having sci-fi elements. Some of my stories about them might even sound made up/fantasy. I think certain elements are obviously false though for example a person taking a gallon their first time.

Mine .

As a young boy, in the late 1950s, I was given enemas by the old woman next door who babysat me while my parents worked. I am going to write a story about this experience and you can believe it or not.

The best fiction includes fact. When I read a story about an enema, or about traveling to Mars, or even about a tribe of iguanas invading Paris, I want to read a story, not a list of facts or an outline that challenges facts.

A story has a beginning, middle, and end. A good story encompasses fact as well as fiction. I admit, some stories that include enemas, or are primarily about enemas, see too far-fetched to contain much reality, but I don't care - I read enema stories to read about enemas. If the story is well written I'll probably enjoy it. If it's not, I probably won't read past the first paragraph.

If it is on the internet it is true - right? 🙄😁

I have written about 15 m2m enema stories that are on the assgm website but cant get access now. Wish i could get in and re-post here.

Enemas hold a very special place in the universe of activities. They are a “Justifiable Intimacy” !? Well, they are at least an almost believable excuse for intimacy ;-) or maybe a good excuse for an excuse for intimacy. I know it is a wonderful sharing moment that most (many?) of us are eager to take advantage of because we are all starved for intimacy.

I find it easy to believe it's often surprising results, so as long as the post is a testament to the powers of the enema, and not the poster, I'll bite.

My excerpts / comments are based on what I went through growing up until now. By finding Zity, I found out that my “ shameful interests ” are not just me, and other's share some of these too. Face it ! Without the internet, most of us would feel like WE have an issue upstairs. Now I don't feel so alone.

My BSdar goes off on some of these stories like a gigacounter!!!!! I just want to scream “BS” to the heavens and tell them so. But, it's their story,(in their head!!!!) and they can tell it how they want. Whether anyone believes it or not, who knows.

@Paula “BSdar” “Bullshit Detector” - is a great term. If there were such a thing as BS police, they would have a heyday on Zity. This thread is about “Fantasies” so I guess the made up fictional stories are OK.

@Paula “BSdar” “Bullshit Detector” - is a great term. If there were such a thing as BS police, they would have a heyday on Zity. This thread is about “Fantasies” so I guess the made up fictional stories are OK.

On the other hand, researchers in psychology, human sexual comportment and such would really have a rich archive of truly un-embellished and candid sexual experiences, memoirs, anecdotes and accounts. It's here on Zity that people can tell their experiences in anonymity and confidence. Because, even when done by trained researchers, answers to questionnaires are often given to make the person answering look better or to give the interviewer the answer the interviewee thinks they are looking for.

If you've ever seen the movie ‘Kinsey’ you might have wondered how anyone would have given truly truthful answers to his survey questions. Surely many answers were given to fulfill expectations (or conversely to boast, but even when boasting to boast according to social expectations)

I've often wondered if Zity might not be a sort of research project, set up to gather sexual information of a more truly candid and truthful degree.

@Emom It is the little nuances that make for a great story: something about the circumstances, the giver, the location, the recipient, the equipment used, the time of day, the relationship of giver to taker, or even the weather.

You who have read my “memoirs” on this site and have been so supportive with your “likes,” thank you! I choose not to focus on fantasy, rather on real life moments, or that I have created characters and situations among the “images” based on real-life events or those that realistically could happen. Personally, I prefer reality and agree with Emom that nuances help make the story more interesting. I've been affected by enemas for health-related needs and occasional enjoyment for nearly 40 years. By this time, it's not difficult to spot a fantasy.

I prefer reality and like to keep things real. There is often the temptation to embellish, but it's something I avoid.

Also - I tend to question stories written by men telling of their female partners who out-of-the-blue aggressively do things without being coached to do so. Guess it's because all the gals I knew who did things needed to be prompted and coaxed.

Everything We Ever Did Was All Actual. We have some fantastic Videos and once in a while we bring them out . Enema Videos Are At The Top! I get excited just thinking about this. Preparation was very important! Stockings, Open Heal and Toe High Heels and a bit of Make Up. I'm in my Gynecology Table with my legs opened wide in the stirrups. All I can say now is “Use Your Imagination ” because I did and continue to do it all. I think the older I get the better I get. There is nothing negative about what my husband and I do. We are a team! We don't swing, swap of fool around with other people. We love each other and have been married for 52 years. That's not “Getting Old” That's Opening The Windows For Other Things To Do. However, Enemas and all things about Enemas will most likely be at the top of the hill for a long time. Half Heaven and Half Heartache. In heaven while we are having fun and heartache after we are done. Then There Is Another Day! We Hope!

Have your fun now folks! Tomorrow Is Not Promised To Anyone.

GyneDoll,

Gwen Sorry if I made any mistakes. I'm not much of a story teller!

Despite having a mother who was quite overbearing and possessive of me, the only time she ever spoke of an enema is when I had two hospitalizations as a child. One for a tonsillectomy (age 7), and the other for an appendectomy (age 10). I had six aunts and uncles, many cousins, .and four grandparents who never uttered a word about constipation or enemas when I was around them. From my perspective then in the 50's and 60's, I would think that being given an enema or suppository by any one of them, other than my mother, would be completely embarrassing and bizarre. Now TODAY, I would considerate it highly erotic and pleasurable to give an enema to a cousin or an aunt, or for one of them to give me one.

If the story is posted/written as fiction, I believe it is fiction.

If it is posted as “true”, I am often skeptical, if not of an entire text, but often of details that strike me as unlikely.

I try to keep in mind that truth is merely perspective and not, necessarily, factual. Truth requires belief, but facts stand alone with interpretation.

Many of the “true” stories here just aren't; and many that are true get embellished for more creative reading etc. If I don't know and trust the author, I take everything claimed to be true with a grain of salt. I really don't mind true stories that get spiced up a bit - makes them more fun and interesting to read!!

IF the question is how do I know if it is real or not, I compare it to my experiences with several partners and friends with whom I have had the pleasure of sharing such interests. I know from reading medical information, in the interest of knowing what is ok to do and what causes harm or is outright dangerous, what I can or cannot give them safely to fulfill their wants and needs. That Is how I “know” when the story is reaching the limit. Can someone REALLY do what they claim? Perhaps not- but then again it is YOUR responsibility to do the research if you want to try it. Otherwise- the question is “are you not entertained”?