Why is there mostly guys who like diaper

IM not knocking men as AB/DL but why are so many GUYS wanna be in diapers and why do they wanna be babygirls ? Females are VERY hard to find who are into diapers .. Just a question please dont hate me just curious if you are in diapers and a male care to share why you like em ? what made you wanna stay in diapers did something happen to you as a child and if you are male and wanna be a sissy why do you like it .. I know all sissys are not gay but can you help me learn why ?

Even the psychiatrists have a hard time answering this one. From what I've read, there's no consensus on what causes a guy to like diapers. As to why some men like to be sissy babies, I have absolutely no clue since I'm strictly a dl. Personally, I've given up trying to figure out why I enjoy the sensation of wearing diapers, I just do (and have for as long as I can remember).

I think that there are far more women out there that share our interest, but the difference is that women can get away with hiding it more IE it,s normal for women to wear girly stuff or frillies, they can walk into the lounge dressed in the most babyish of outfits and more often than not no one would batter an eye lid, but if we as males were to do that then well, what can one say,likewise a girl can have has many teddies as she wants for has long as she wants, and it,s ok, where as we, as males are stereotypically, expected to be the protectors, the fighters the leaders, but when we feel different, when we want to be little for ever, or more fem, orientated, it,s not considered normal, and so we tend to seek out sites like this, as a course of reassurance, that we can be different, and that it,s not wrong to be like we are, and so all of a sudden we are talking to other like minded adults, and starting to feel better about our selves and our leanings, where as girls are expected to be daddies little girl for ever, and can continue to be that little girl without anyone asking questions, thats why, in my opinion, we see more males becoming involved with sites like this, it,s an outlet for moral support, and reassurence that you have nothing to be ashamed of, whilst girls can just carry on regardless without the same back lash that we as males could come to expect if we were to become more generally open about what we really enjoy, WELL thats my belief anyway.

regards Dave.

I don't really know why guys are into diapers more than girls but I would guess it's more than one thing. Some of us have great memories of being nurtured by our mothers when we were growing up and wanting to go back to that time. Of course, if we go back far enough we're in diapers. In my case she was the strongest influence I had and I suppose I was a "momma's" boy. Therein lies the most likely reason that I am a bit of a sissy. Also, as men, most of the time, we assume the role of bread winner and all of the pressures that go with it. So for me when I come home from a stressful day at work there's nothing better than putting on a diaper and getting into a frame of mind where I have no troubles or responsibilities. Even though it may only last for a couple of hours or maybe an evening it makes me feel so much better. OK, sorry I rambled. That's my thoughts anyway.

Sometimes I wonder if maybe women don't admit their fantasies as much as men do

Maybe it is, because the guys are more extravert with it.

But there can be also a reason that there are guys who think that every woman, is a mommy and they 'attack' them with that they must be there Mommy.

It sounds to me that that isn't a very good start, to welcome woman and girls in our 'lifestyle', community and so on.

For me a Woman is a person, who needs what every person need, attention, kindness, honesty......

Melissa (SAB)

I believe it comes from things that are somehow ingrained in our subconcious at an early age, experiences we had in diapers while being changed as an infant etc, i remember sneaking them when i was like 5 or 6 years old. I myself believe that i as an infant began to enjoy diapers and changes etc, as an infant, my mother has said i took extra long to potty train etc... and.... its just something that placed in my mind at an early age and now its had a very lasting effect on me.

If your mind can be taught to relate certain objects or experiences with pleasure... it can create patterns and follow them in the future. Kind of like your mind thinking you need to urinate at the sound of running water or hearing the same bathroom light turn on becuase those events have always been together for years.

diaper changes were a pleasant experience for years as an infant...and it just creates patterns that your mind doesnt realy know to stop. thats what i think anyway hehe....

Well i am not a sissy but i like them for the fact that all my days worries are taken away when i am in a diaper but seeing i am in them 24-7 they dont have that effect much anymore but once in a while i like to be babied and cared for. as far as the woman go well i think theres more out there then seen but like someone said most guys attack them needing a mommy. they are human also just like us and maybe they need a daddy to care for them like we need a mommy. So give them a break fellas and maybe some more will come out and play dollies with ya lol

Actually,I don't think girls are too much different than guys on this one, I think they are less likely to come out about it-- but the internet seems to be changing that.

There are sissy girls too, after all baby girl's clothes are just plain cuter. The reasons for liking diapers are as varied as people. From my own experience I

was a late trainer and became attached to the security of diapers. Also I was

starved for affection and disciplined in diapers so the diapering experience

became a source of affection that I was missing in my life. I was also dressed

in girls clothes from time to time so this also played into the attention or

humiliation issue.

I've always considered myself fairly masculine and enjoy heterosexual relationships

but I also enjoy some sissy clothing.

It's easier for me to accept that I was made this way by circumstances beyond my control and I'd rather enjoy the ride than fight it.

I enjoy wearing diapers and wetting them like a baby-- sometimes a big sissy baby

Why not be cute to boot?

Hope this helps you out-- I'm still enjoying the ride -hope you do too.

Same horse-- different color-- just like the gay community, you have a hard time

defining a whole community buy the action of one sector. not even all sissy's

are the same, as to why some display sissy tendencies - who knows?

why are you a baby boy? or girl?

It could be that it is seen as a way to just let go, let someone else make the decisions, to be incharge as it were.

Guys are taught thsat they have to take care of things and that they can't show any weakness, this could be a way around those socially imposed standards

I think it is like this plain and simple us guys are just too lazy to get up frm the tv an walk all the way too the rr, that is my idea

There are sites out there that have a lot of girls that are members. I belong to a few Bunny Acres and Pee Search Community to name a few. They have a lot of girls there.

Well for me, it is becuase i had to wear them for medical reasons while i was growing up. and i was wearing them i began to explore sexually, so it was a simple classical conditioning for me. but now that i don't have to wear them, i still do because they fullfil a need to being taking care of. also becuase of reoccuring medical episodes, they provide confidence and relieve stress. for the most part that is the only reason i still wear them, to relieve stress, which they do well.

Dl farmer

That's a tough one But my opinion is that it's more of a sexual thing for a man

From what I hear the number of women and women ab/dls are about the same. However, because men tend to be a little more adventurous than women (no offense women) about their sexual fantasies, they find sites and become apart of their community.

I'm going to have to agree with the "genitilia on the outside" theory. I know that's what keeps me wetting my bed on purpose before my parents wake me up every morning.

According to some females' point of view, they have to use the pad during the period and therefore, they will not enjoy using pads, on the other hand, they will not enjoy wearing diaper.

In my opinion, this is reasonable, period makes girls uncomfortable and this makes girls remember the bad feeling when wearing diaper.

I do think some girls are DL but they will not admit it. This is the same as most girls told us they have never watch the sex movie 😉

Moreover, diaper girls can earn a lot of money, I do not think cute diaper girls will show up free.

...a part of the answer has to do with role, a female can act/be as child like as she wants and the world does not have a problem with it. Not the same for a man. Also boys/men once they are "potty trained" that soft fluffy world goes away to a large part, not so for girls....but it is only a part, there is no one answer....

It's the way we are built. There is something about that thick feeling between the legs that drives guy's crazy.

It just cuttles the genitals in such a nice way...not quite as good as a women, but the next best thing. I don't think it is so much mental as just the physical feeling for guys.

As for the Sissy...they just love the way a sissy girl looks in their frilly clothes, and they dress up like that to be close to it - to feel it - expereince it... 😮

The first person I told about diapers was this girl I worked with. She was about 8 years older than me. She was big into BDSM. I asked her why she thought more guys were into diapers than girls she said...

"I think it's because guys are external" (meaning are sexual organ is outside of the body). And she said diapers are external and go over the penis. That was her theroy. I think it might hold some water but not much.

Well the females don't know what their missing. I love my diapers and I am female. The feeling of freely letting go into a diaper no matter the location is so personal and intimate. The diaper bulk nested between your legs, the feeling of wetness, along with the slight smell of pee and powder is enough to bring a DL girl to orgasm. My diapers are so comfy. I'll never give them up. 😉

I believe of the roots of this problem is simply that it is rooted in our sexualities. Men's sexualities and wom ens sexualities typically act diffrently, the most basic explanatin i can give and one that I am most sure of is just that. Men and women are very diffrent on a sexual level thus the way they deal with fetishes and sexual desire and compulsion is also diffrently. Diapers also came from our youth, whatever happened in our minds that created a lasting link and bond with diapers probly happened at an early age (that part is more subjective to the actually person). Men become sexually aware earlier than the typical female does. I believe that also plays a factor is men attaining fetishes that come from youthful experiences.

Much of this is entirely in our minds, not in our hearts. Not in the part of our minds that requires decision making but in the parts of our mind that act out of patterns and do only what it is instinctive or trained to do. like the colors we see and the cravings we get, we have no choice or decision to make their, it happens becuase our brains make it happen, fetishes can be the same way.

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I believe the roots of this problem are simply that it is rooted in our sexualities. Men's sexualities and womens sexualities typically act diffrently, the most basic explanation i can give and one that I am most sure of is just that, men and women are very diffrent on a sexual level thus the way they deal with fetishes and sexual desire and compulsion is also diffrent. Diapers also came from our youth, whatever happened in our minds that created a lasting link and bond with diapers probly happened at an early age (that part is more subjective to the actuall person). Men become sexually aware earlier than the typical female does so I believe that also plays a factor in men attaining fetishes that come from youthful experiences.

Much of this is entirely in our minds, not in our hearts. Not in the part of our mind that requires decision making but in the parts of our mind that act out of patterns and does only what it is instinctive or trained to do. Like the colors we see and the cravings we get, we have no choice or decision to make their, it happens becuase our brains make it happen, fetishes can be the same way.

I'm not really sure that there are more guys than girls that like diapers, it's probably about the same. I do think girls are probably more reserved, maybe more secretive about it than guys are, and as been said before there would probably be far more if guys didn't hit on them straight away.

Back in the mid-late 90's when there were a few discussion groups you would never really see any female members, sometimes the odd 1 or 2. Now 10-15 years later on most discussion boards have a signifigant amount of female members.

With the internet and the far larger awareness of others that like diapers I think the number of girls participating will continue to increase.

I rather think that there are more girls than boys who like diapers but it is hard to find them

in the web you can see more pictures of women that wear diapers but in real life it is probably very hard

I don't know but it really sucks right? I think that if ou introduce them to it th girls like it although they may e freaked out at first. I got my x to actually ask me to wherediapers with her and she was not even a dl, I not so secretly leftsome dapers out in the laundry room and when she came over she was like what are those for I told her my grama was over and left them she kept eyballing them and later on that night said lets try thoe diapers out I acted like it was obsurd ten she was like come on it will be fun so "reluctantly" I agreed the rest is istory until we broke up now e is probably diapering soe one else mother @#@&#@!!!!!!!

The old saying, "Boys don't grow up to be men, their toys are getting expensive". This can be said about the feelings. I believe that us girls like to be a caring than being cared for as that the guy usually cares for us and it has been part of our lives. Guys - I guess are told from childhood to be "tough" or "macho" so this has been programmed from childhood until something lets loose.

Another reason you never see women responding to anything is because the second they do, they get asked a thousand idiotic questions from eager guys who get to excited about getting the chance to talk to a women with the same fetish.

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The old saying, "Boys don't grow up to be men, their toys are getting expensive". This can be said about the feelings. I believe that us girls like to be a caring than being cared for as that the guy usually cares for us and it has been part of our lives. Guys - I guess are told from childhood to be "tough" or "macho" so this has been programmed from childhood until something lets loose.

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There's quite a lot of truth in this - especially about men not showing their feelings, having to be macho etc - that was only 20-odd years ago. Boys caring for their girls, looking after and providing for them... Works both ways for me, girls are my equals!!

There is also the line of thought that diapers are more in contact with genitalia in a man - true for many, but is that the 'sole' reason?

The biggest reason for the apparent huge difference in numbers is the thoughtlessness of some guys who pounce on girls the minute they arrive, hassle them with foul and obnoxious emails, hound them to change guys' messy diapers, mother them, etc. Girls just stay in 'hiding', losing out on the fun. Really makes me mad and spoils it for everyone else.

Girls, if this happens, please report them to the moderators - about time these HNGs were weeded out and chucked off site. IMHO...