Discipline for naughty behavior

My wife can't stop flirting with a male friend online. She acts like I don't know what she is up to on her phone and computer. When I interrupt her she acts all startled saying she's just chatting with a girlfriend. I wonder if anyone here could recommend an appropriate course of action to correct this behavior? She is a tall, slender redhead (and below too) in her late 40's. Please be specific and give details.

A few fresh jalepeno seeds pushed into her vagina should do the trick!

A large retention enema would be good. 3quarts held for half an hour?

Or you could use a Ginger Fig. Held in the anus can be very unpleasent, a burning sensation that lingers.

You could try rubbing the freshly skinned Ginger on the open lips of her vagina. OOooohh!!!

"I wonder if anyone here could recommend an appropriate course of action to correct this behavior?"

Ménage a trois.

I'll let you decide the details and if anyone gets punished.

I like your thinking, subgirl. Would like to avoid serious discomfort. I think submission and embarrassment is more effective here.

Endless possibilities with an open mind! Play safe!

How about a large soap suppository, followed by a sound, over-the-knee spanking, and at last a large very warm enema? A crampy retention period, with additional spanks for whining, then being allowed at last to void as her inflamed buttocks sting in contact with the hard toilet seat, might be quite effective in deterring future misbehavior.

A bare bottom spanking OTK with hand and wooden hair brush followed with 3-4 qts very warm and soapy enema for 10 minutes followed by 2-3 3qts rinse..

A sound spanking followed by an enema..grease the nozzle with Mentholatum for a good memory

I just got punished by my wife and her best friend for mouthing off to the both of them, a sound hairbrush spanking by both of them then a 2 qt very soapy and hot enema and paddled for 10 min when the timer went off allowed to expelled, then another 2 qt soapy and hot by her friend and paddled for 10 min by timer,now got four suppository inserted with vicks and two bulbs of hot salt water and pluged until im told i could be able to expelled now got me doing dishes with red bottom on display while still plug and they say there not done with me yet .

Enemas as a punishment is ok as it is always nice to nice a women an enema but enjoy playtime enemas much more

I think a punishment enema would be effective, change the behavior and also be exotic for both of you

I'm thinking that to start off, the disciplinary subject should be blindfolded and gagged. Then stripped of all clothing, hands bound or otherwise restrained behind the back. The subject is then given a good, old fashioned, hand delivered, over the knee spanking, followed while in the same position, with a body temperature two to three quart enema delivered through an inflatable butt plug nozzle. The bottom of the enema bag or can at about eighteen inches above the point of injection. This makes the flow slow but sure. Once administered, the feed to the nozzle is clipped shut and disconnected from the water source or reservoir and given another squeeze of the inflation bulb to insure a tight seal. Insert a remote controlled vibrating dildo into the subjects vagina to be held in place with a very tight pair of either panties or shorts (or, if no hair present, tape can be used). The subject is then directed to stand in a corner until released and instructed to go relieve their self in the restroom. This procedure is best performed with an audience, so in Zipster2004's case, invite her internet friend over to observe, as well as another of the subjects closest friends. Solicit comments from the friends throughout the whole disciplinary ordeal. Food for thought anyway. The down side is that she may begin to like this treatment and keep on misbehaving so as to get in a few more punishment sessions!

At risk of deviating from the topic expected, I would think instead of marital counselling or something like that. I hate to see an activity as enjoyable as enemas used for punishment or discipline or trying to solve some other problem totally unrelated to enemas.

On a more practical level, suppose you tell her you want to give her an enema because of her "naughty behavior." First,she has to admit to the behavior, which she will not do, and second, she has to permit you to do it to her. Suppose that she says no and denies everything. Then what will you do?

hankb

Mmmmmmm three way...........

Soapy enema discipline for 'naughty' behavior that I have engaged in is a very good idea. I must admit that I am submissive.

I realize that this is a little off topic.

You are looking at this all wrong. She's not flirting with him to be flirting with him. She's doing this as a not so subtle way of saying she needs more of your attention. Put away some of your man toys and distractions, and concentrate on showing her she's the most important thing in your life. Take the mindset that you are back dating her and need to convince her that you are Mr. Right.

I agree....3 way!

Quincy---that is good advice.

hankb

Quincy that is very good advice and is the only given which is really germane to the situation.

If she is a klysmo. too, the solution is obvious.

[color=#000000]First and foremost, is she just playing with the two of you or is she genuinely interested in hooking up with this guy against your genuine wishes?

If you truly don't want her chatting with this guy, fuck the mind games and tell her you want a divorce and to carry on her activities somewhere else.

hankb---While your suggestion of marriage counseling is a reasonable one, marriage counseling is a waste of time and does NOT work. It's a profit windfall for the shrinks who do it. I'd love to sit around all day, listen to people and tell them what to do. A marriage either works or it doesn't.

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Susie--I have to disagree with you about marriage counselors. My wife and I have been to one several times over the past perhaps ten years (we have been married since 1971) and have benefited from it. We have learned how to live and work with each other, including how to fight with each other. We are able to get along with each other now better than before. Basic to it is that each person has to be able to change the way he thinks and does things. Without that willingness, nothing happens and time and money are wasted just like you said..

Notice that I said we had been to see one for several series of sessions over a few years. We both have to admit that we are having troubles that we cannot solve by ourselves and we need a person to interpret and mediate what is going wrong. Just a couple of sessions and that is all does not work.

hankb

This is the time for a good spanking followed by a large enema. I agree with one of the previous suggestions that she be made to stand in the corner and retain for a reasonable amount of time. Then she should be spanked again and sent to the bathroom to expel. After that determine of she needs to be disciplined again and do the same thing over again until she seems like she has had enough. Warn her that this will happen every time she is suspected of doing this.

I have to agree with hankb:

"At risk of deviating from the topic expected, I would think instead of marital counselling or something like that. I hate to see an activity as enjoyable as enemas used for punishment or discipline or trying to solve some other problem totally unrelated to enemas."

The idea of punishing one's wife reeks of domestic violence, and is abhorrent at the least. Using an enema as punishment is unthinkable to me.

C.

This is an interesting discussion. Having an MA in Psychology, I think a might add a little. Avery high percentage of the "marriage counselors" are neither qualified, sufficiently trained nor simply up to the task at hand. MD's, psychiatrists, are among the worst in terms of appropriate training. MSW's, social workers, most often think they know when in reality, they do not have the foggiest idea of when the balloon went up. Religious leaders are , for the most part, standing on the same stage as the social workers. So, where does this leave one seeking marital counseling? A small number of universities have excellent graduate programs in marital counseling. You start there and find out where their graduates are located. Obviously a Ph.D. is miles ahead of a Masters degree. Good luck. Susie's comments and feelings are by far the majority. It just happens that there are a few loopholes. Good luck.

Soapy enema discipline (3 times) , a hard spanking(paddling or caning), and a soapy mouthwashing ist the best for naughty boys or girls..

I see this is posted under Fantasies and Dreams. Is this an actual disciplinary request? If so, I would talk with my wife and sort out what is happening and if she is trying to get my attention by doing this texting to or if she is doing like what we are all doing here and chatting? I believe Discipline should be something that all parties are in agreement with needing to help change choices..

I agree Daniel but this must be fantasy I guess. Such a punishment in real life would be abhorrent to me.